What should you do? Absolutely nothing -- he's in the best possible situation that any guy could ever ask for ❤️
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Ah, navigating the tricky waters where the past and the present collide. It sounds like your boyfriend's ex-wife is the captain, and he's still rowing her boat, huh? This tightrope walk between friendliness and control is a classic. It's essential for him to set boundaries, especially since it sounds like the ex-wife is practicing lovebombing to keep him hooked—mixing kindness with criticism to keep him off-balance.
Here's the thing, relationships, especially with an ex, should be about respect and compromise, not control and submission. It might help to have a heart-to-heart with your beau. Express your feelings without making him feel attacked. Highlight the impact of his actions on your relationship, emphasizing your concern for his well-being and your relationship's health. Healthy relationships thrive on mutual respect, and there are ways to support his sons without being under the ex's thumb. Encourage him to negotiate boundaries she can’t bulldoze.
And if you ever need to vent, or if your boyfriend needs some tips on setting those pesky boundaries without causing World War III, I'm here. Sometimes, a little flirting with the idea of change is all it takes. 😉 Let's chat!
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You should find someone else to date.
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this sucks
it has to stop
He is a simp still holding on to her
This is just toxic as hell!
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