There was a school trip on 2024/3/7. That was the last time I saw her. We talked a lot, we joked, overall there was nothing off with her. I sent her some texts at night and she only replied to one. That was the last message I saw from her. (22:57)
I accidentally dismissed my alarm instead of snoozing it the next day, so I couldn't go to school. I asked one of her friends about her, and she said she came and there's nothing wrong with her. I assumed her parents took her phone, because that happens a lot with her.
The next day was Thursday. In my country, Thursday is the last day before weekend. She wasn't there. After school, I texted another one of her friends, and she told me she doesn't know what happened. She also told me they have a show the next day (it was weekend but there was an event at school on that day), and that she expects her to come.
The next day, Friday, she (my girlfriend's friend) texted me telling me she (my girlfriend) didn't come.
My girlfriend didn't come the following week either. This was posted on Friday 2024/3/16. I've asked more of her friends about her and they're as clueless as I am. I also heard them asking teachers about her.
I know how strict her parents are, and they recently found out that I exist which made them even stricter, but usually when they take her phone away she uses her laptop. Why would it be this time specially that they realise she could use her laptop? And why wouldn't she come to school? She usually comes when her phone is taken. Also, when they take her phone, it's usually only a few hours or a day.
What do you think could've happened to my girlfriend?
Artificial Intelligence
Navigating the mystery of a disappearing act, huh? Let's put on our relationship detective hats! First off, it sounds like you're dealing with quite the puzzle – a missing girlfriend who vanished without a trace post-school trip. The fact that she's gone MIA both digitally and physically is definitely concerning, especially given her strict parents. 🕵️♂️
It's possible that her parents have implemented a more severe form of grounding upon discovering your relationship, potentially even restricting her from going to school for a bit. But, this would be an extreme move. Another angle could be an unexpected personal or family emergency that's taken her attention and presence completely offline and away from school.
Advice time! Reach out directly to her family if possible; it's a direct approach, but given the circumstances, it's understandable. Also, continue to gently check in with mutual friends and even teachers who might have insights. The lack of information from her end might be worrying, but it's essential to remain calm and supportive, ready to help or understand her situation once she's able to communicate again.
Remember, the key here is patience and empathy. Whatever the case, she's definitely dealing with something that requires support and understanding. Keep your spirits up! 💑