So a few weeks ago, my boyfriend was on his phone next to me and he was going through it and I saw dating apps. We had a conversation. I expressed my feelings on it, He said he deleted them. I just went through his phone and saw he didn't delete them, he just moved them to a different folder to hide them. What should i do?
Everyone it qucik to say breakup with him. Yet women do this all the time. Why is it that a woman can do this but a man can't? What women do is unintall the app and on the sneaks reinstall it, login and go fishing. Just because you delete the app don't mean you deleted your account. Also you can always sign up for a new account. There is nothing wrong with browsing. Women like to browse in public or on social media. It's no different from a app or out in public. It's all the same. The saying women like to say. "Oh he is just a friend" don't cut it. How many guy numbers do you have on your phone, or how many snap chats you do, or posting sexy pics on social media for others to comment, or how many guys do you socialize on Instagram etc. Don't judge this guy when women do it as well but worse. Let's see what's on her phone, social media and search history... It's a hard awaking when people turn the tables on the modern women. They love to control and now the lack of control shows their weakness. Apps are created by guys for women to use. Now that men use it to their advantage and beating the women to the punch they don't like it. Guys are now doing what women do to them all the time. It's no different. Yes he may have lied to you about deleting it and it is wrong if him but how many times have you lied to him when a guy commented on your pics on social media, at work, restraunt, etc. Don't get mad when facts are stated. Just do you and be happy on who you are. If you don't like him then move on. There is no point on sticking around if your not comfortable with what he is doing. I guarantee you that you already have a man in mind to date. So just go already.
You have discovered three things about your man:
1/ He is a lair, and in particular willing to lie to you to conceal nefarious behavior.
2/ He is still trying to retain access to meeting other women - meaning you are not the one.
3/ He is not a man of character and if you have to tell him how to have healthy & respectful boundaries in a relationship then he’s either not ready for one or not interested.
I think the preponderance of the evidence says it’s time to move on.
Dump him, he is still looking for other people. So he is not in love with you, just using you until someone better comes along.
He has dating apps, still. And you went through his phone. Let's get real. You are both as bad as each other here.
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That's a pretty big problem, he probably still uses them for gratification at a minimum. He straight up lied to you and disregarded your feeling essentially treating you like an idiot. You either should have a serious conversation about that (don't let him minimize the importance) or move on since he is playing games
There's a reason why he lied about deleting them. You can dump him or he'll dump you when he finds someone else because he is definitely looking for someone else
He's someone who doesn't want to remain committed to you or he's keeping a look out on you but I doubt it's the latter
Sounds like you don't trust him and righteously so. Its obvious he's not being truthful with you. So why don't you download the apps that he has on his phone onto your phone. Then create an account and go look for him, flirt with him, if he takes the bait and starts flirting back, call him on it. He can't get mad at you for doing what you did. Because he wasn't honest with you when he told you he deleted the apps that now got him in trouble when he didn't.
As you already disrespect his "phone privacy" - you could as well now place the app icon/s on his main screen.
And see what happens.
He's a spineless liar; consider to have him replaced.
My friend, set your boundary, tell him that either the apps go or you go..
You know exactly what you should do. Why are you asking something that you already know the answer to?
Get some dating apps yourself 🤷🏻♀️.
FIXED 🤷🏻♀️.
He’s keeping his option open. I don’t think he is ready to settle.
Most men lie constantly. Sadly, you had to find that out this way.
m he is keeping u on side while cheating
u gotta move on from him
That's your clear sign that he's not serious about your relationship at all.
I think it’s obvious what needs to be done here but are u willing to do it?
He doesn't respect you. Move on
Break up with him, please.
What a turd. Give him the gate.
You're in a pickle 🥒
get one
Break up ASAP!
Dump him
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