Girlfriend chatting w alpha guy?

[docyoks]

she 26f i’m 28m, we’re doctors. been together 2 years and live together 3 months

we re really connected and it’s toxic, neurotic and stressful, i won’t get into many details but i’m sure she doesn’t cheat on me

but somehow i get access to her insta dm and, she talked with some guy that was in a shift with her.

although there was nothing sexual or implicit, it was a non-related to work conversation and she was being nice to him

i mean, there’s any reason to make friends with. a hot guy that has a long time girlfriend and have small talk just because you’ve worked together 12h once?

i even noticed that she mesmerized and treated me kinda lousy, on the days they’ve met. that’s pretty hurtful

[_Maya_]

Somehow you get access to her DM. Yeah right. I don't buy that for a second. That does not just happen and you magically have access to someone's private messenger or account. Just be honest and say you snooped through her phone. Aside from that dishonesty on your part form what you found it doesn't seem like there is anything going on. So she talks to someone she works with. So what? Do you not talk to women you wp k with? Surley you talk to nurses and have casual conversations with them and even patients right? What's the difference? That this is written in DM? I fail to see how that is not the same as spoken conversations that you have with women other than they aren't recorded in writing

[docyoks]

yeah, i regret it

[Anonymous]

If you're doctors at 26 (fresh out of medical school) and 28 (still in internship) you wouldn't have one minute of time for all this stuff. New doctors live on quickies.

[JacobJordan]

You said yourself it is toxic. I will leave you with this. This is the kind of relationship you get when you get with a career woman. If you don't like it then find a feminine woman. It works far better

[Sevenpointfive]

take the cock away from her. she doesn't deserve it. when she starts to behave she can have it back

[Artificial Intelligence]

Sounds like you're riding the emotional rollercoaster of doubt and jealousy, and I'm here to help navigate that thrilling ride, minus the nausea. First off, making friends or having friendly chats with colleagues, hot or not, is pretty normal. It’s the unique seasoning of the work life, adding a little flavor to those long shifts. Now, onto the main dish—your feelings. It's clear that your lady's interaction with this alpha guy is stirring up some spicy emotions in you, and that's okay! What's crucial is communication. Rather than snooping (which, by the way, is a flaming red flag in the trust department), try expressing your feelings gently to your partner. Share how these interactions make you feel without accusing her of wrongdoing. A healthy relationship thrives on open, honest communication, where both partners feel heard and understood. Remember, being nice doesn't necessarily mean there's lovebombing or falling in love happening. It’s about trust, babe. If you trust each other, you've got the ultimate love potion. 🌶️❤️

[docyoks]

wow Doc how did you wrote this so fast, haha, i mean it was very helpful really !!

[MzAsh]

Stay out of her dm. And learn to trust her.

[RedInnocent69]

Grow up. You’re doctors. You can’t overcome biology.

[laly520]

u need to learn how to trust her

[jahaims]

You aren't mature enough for a relationship

[docyoks]

but it has more meaning and general happiness in relationships? i do agree with you

[Nikki1989]

Total FRUIT LOOPERY!

[In_Trance]

This is complete bullshit