That she’s cheat on me. Because it happened in 3/4 of my relationships. But that must just be because I’m shit at picking women. 🤷🏻♂️ So I don’t anymore. In fact, I don’t date or have relationships. Haven’t for 9 years now.
The main thing that I worry when I meet someone new or re connect with someone from the past is that I cannot provide her the same sexual energy and pleasure as her other lovers
Being boring. Almost every relationship I have been in, I had at the very least a sense of fear that the relationship was going to die, because we aren't doing any or enough fun activities. The number one question I always had in relationships was: "Why aren't you like you were in the beginning of our relationship? You would always take me somewhere. This entire responsibility shouldn't be on my shoulder, but It has always been for some reason.
Let’s see... I was bullied for most of my life and have been abandoned by almost everyone I’ve ever known, so finding someone compatible with me and actually willing to put in an effort is an alien concept.
I've reach a point where nothing really bothers me. I am who I am, love what I do and confident enough to brush off anything. All from past experiences haha
Everything really if I'm honest, it's hard for me to get partners and I've been cheated on, so that fear is always out there for me, not that I think any girl I've dated after the cheater has given me any reason to think they'd cheat though
Well it's more of a fear than an insecurity based on a universal truth that they would or I would live them in this world alone. That's why I am now trying to stay away from relationships.
I don't have one. I try to be on good terms when I'm in a relationship and we both expressed our feelings and problems right away and tried to work them out.
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The image itself! "Am I good enough?" Whenever I see men who have certain aspects better than me whether it's financial or physical or personality wise.. I lose my shit lol
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That she’s cheat on me. Because it happened in 3/4 of my relationships. But that must just be because I’m shit at picking women. 🤷🏻♂️ So I don’t anymore. In fact, I don’t date or have relationships. Haven’t for 9 years now.
Not being pretty and attractive enough and them not liking my personality.
The main thing that I worry when I meet someone new or re connect with someone from the past is that I cannot provide her the same sexual energy and pleasure as her other lovers
Seems to be common
@mandyfire98 could be, especially when I don't receive the most positive reaction
Reactions from who?
@mandyfire98 the girls I meet lol
You don't ever get positive reactions?
@mandyfire98 like up until now, a positive reaction has been a very rear occasion
I'm sorry to hear that
@mandyfire98 has to do with my sexual performance but I still haven't identified fully what it is I do "wrong"
They think the sex isn't good?
@mandyfire98 mostly yes, during sex they had a bland expressionless face
Oh so no reactions really?
@mandyfire98 yes almost not at all. Most hardly moaned. I only met one girl who was kinda moaning
Oh there are so many things it could be probably
@mandyfire98 can I go through some things in PM?
My intelligence. I'm extremely attracted to smart people and I'm not thoroughly educated so I worry that it's too imbalanced.
When it comes to another relationship, I'd probably be worried deep down about something... anything going wrong and it ending bad again.
I can't think of any. Not that I'm "all that" but I am fearless when it comes to approaching because rejection does not bother me.
Confidence is always good
Being boring. Almost every relationship I have been in, I had at the very least a sense of fear that the relationship was going to die, because we aren't doing any or enough fun activities.
The number one question I always had in relationships was: "Why aren't you like you were in the beginning of our relationship? You would always take me somewhere.
This entire responsibility shouldn't be on my shoulder, but It has always been for some reason.
My pp size.
It's so small it looks like a clitoris... oh wait🤔
Hahaha
Hiya🤭
It's been a while. Happy to see you back.
Been pretty busy
You doing alright?
I am. Hby?
I'm doing well. I can't complain really.
Good
I'm glad to see your pretty face again tho
Let’s see... I was bullied for most of my life and have been abandoned by almost everyone I’ve ever known, so finding someone compatible with me and actually willing to put in an effort is an alien concept.
Not so much insecure, I just know that I likely can't give what they may want in life
I've reach a point where nothing really bothers me. I am who I am, love what I do and confident enough to brush off anything. All from past experiences haha
I really like you.
Pls talk to me
Two main things. First can I keep their interest. Second how long before they cheat on me.
Seems to be a common insecurity of both men and women. Cheating
Honestly, a fear that the woman I'm interested in is already seeing someone else.
Trust issues probably!
Also, send me a DM girlie!!! I love making new friends 😊
Come chat with my girlfriends and I on amino girlie!
http://aminoapps.com/invite/NTXQ71FT6I
Amino? People still do amino?
Yes! We have a fantastic roleplay writing community!
Everything really if I'm honest, it's hard for me to get partners and I've been cheated on, so that fear is always out there for me, not that I think any girl I've dated after the cheater has given me any reason to think they'd cheat though
Well it's more of a fear than an insecurity based on a universal truth that they would or I would live them in this world alone.
That's why I am now trying to stay away from relationships.
I don't have one. I try to be on good terms when I'm in a relationship and we both expressed our feelings and problems right away and tried to work them out.
The image itself!
"Am I good enough?"
Whenever I see men who have certain aspects better than me whether it's financial or physical or personality wise.. I lose my shit lol
Just not being good enough in any aspect. Whether it be physically, sexually, intellectually, etc.
That I'm not enough, and may just be boring due to spending so many years by myself, only doing what i enjoy.