Why do exes come back into your life when you are doing good?

[Anonymous]

so I’m married and been having trouble with my husband ex fling daughter and her. I been telling them for a while to take his pictures down and quit bringing him up stirring up trouble. Her daughter tells me “I could see it in his eyes he really loved my mama, and they was gonna get married” she proceeds to tell me “nobody ever loved my mama the way he did” and she tells me that he was suppose to stick around longer than what he did. I’m in my feelings because I wonder do he ever regret marrying me and being with me. His ex fling did nothing but kick him out for her babydaddy. When my husband went on his work trip, she didn’t hesitate to go back to her babydaddy instantly. I’m instantly feeling down when she told me this because I wonder do he regret not staying with her and marrying her. I wonder do he ever wished I was her.

[OlderAndWiser]

This is the kind of insane drama which happens when people are horribly promiscuous and careless and create "baby daddies." This is the guy you chose to be your husband, so this one is on you.

[Asker]

She has her own babydaddy! nowhere in my post did you read differently

[Asker]

Why are you deflecting?

[Asker]

?…..

[OlderAndWiser]

Perhaps I don't understand the situation because the first sentence

"so I’m married and been having trouble with my husband ex fling daughter and her."

is written so poorly that it makes no sense.

[Asker]

No it’s not I’m referring to his ex fling daughter (her daughter) and his ex fling

[Asker]

Her daughter

[OlderAndWiser]

That's what I thought you probably meant.

[Asker]

lol yeah she has a daughter by the babydaddy she keep going back to and they are still together today

[Asker]

But her daughter keeps throwing this mess in my face

[Anonymous]

If he wanted to be with her, she would be wearing his ring instead of you. Is your husband still involved with his ex fling? Meaning does he still talk with her? If yes, you need to tell him how much she is disrespecting you and inform him that there need to be boundaries set. If not, then don’t engage with her anymore. Let her post whatever and cry over the man she lost.

[Asker]

Thank you and nope not at all! Just her disrespectful ass daughter causing problems like always

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome! Not your daughter not your problem. She’s not even your husband’s daughter anyways. Just a sad girl filled with wishful thinking.

[Asker]

Thank you so much

[jahaims]

Because you let them