If a guy had tons of pictures of an ex but not many of you in the same amount of time, does that say he was into the ex more?

[Hellfkit]

men or women can say what they want. But to me if someone is taking pictures of their partners private parts, and ass constantly but the then the next partner nothing or not as much they aren't into them as much. It's just logical to me. I struggle with self image issues. Just feel like he liked what his ex looked like more. I'm who he settled for. She dumped him. 😣

[Mr_twoface]

I'm sorry you feel the way you do! As men we always think about sex no matter the occasion and we certainly will look and imagine us with others. It’s the wild sexual animal within us! When someone settles with another person, it often isn’t just about their sexiness. It rarely is just about the sex or their sexual thought. It’s a combination of factors which make them want to settle with you rather than someone else. There are so many elements that must click for one to fall for one and settle down. Along the way, in the roller coaster of relationship/marriage one must go through, our body figure changes, we have mood swings and there are fights, heated discussions and sadness and we just must adjust to it and work through it. Watching old pictures of an ex or even fantasizing about pornstars or porn scenes is just something men often do because it’s the kinky fantasy one has within. Many men also fantasy about scenes or kinks with others which they never ever will do with their partner. It’s to differentiate random/stranger vs partner/love.

With that said, if you have an issue with him having pictures of an ex – communicate this to him. Tell him how it makes you feel! If you are down for it, maybe share private pictures with him so he can ejaculate to your pictures. My Mrs allows me to take nude pics with her so I can ejaculate and fantasies about her. And I must admit it does help.

[MikeTheBartender]

Well two scenarios, one you're completely correct or two maybe something else is going on, are you shy? Do you not ask him to take pictures? Are we talking naughty pictures or clean pictures? And what do you mean he has pictures of her? On his social media? Or in his phone? Or two maybe something else is going on, are you shy? Do you not ask him to take pictures? Are we talking naughty pictures or clean pictures? And what do you mean he has pictures of her? On his social media? Or in his phone?

[Anonymous]

I feel you but my case is a bit different. My boyfriend takes loads of nude pics of me but he rarely ever take regular photos of me… whereas with his ex it was the opposite, he would take loads of pics of her and post them on his social media admiring her. But quick question, how do you know that he took all of those pics of his ex? I mean it could also mean that he respects you way more now as a women and that’s why he’s not taking lewd photos of you.

[MsProsperity]

Does he post you also?

[Opinion Owner]

@MsProsperity nope he doesn’t

[MsProsperity]

How doesn’t that make you feel? Have you talked to him about that

[Opinion Owner]

@MsProsperity I kinda feel similar to what you’re feeling tbh. I’ve talked about it and he gave me a ton of excuses so I stopped bringing it up. What about you, have you talked to your man about this?

[MsProsperity]

I understand how you feel. I suggest you stop thinking or worrying about his ex, she’s in the past. Now it’s you & him. I know it’s hard to avoid this situation but focus on improving your relationship with him, make him prioritise you, make him focus on you only. Don’t talk about exes, it’s annoying you’ll lose him.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I've never taken photos of private parts, let alone sent any!

[TommyMountainFigure]

To answer your question though. Where would I see these photos to make comparisons? I mean, if I was seeing photos of exes all over the place, I wouldn't be hanging around for a second date!

[Iron_Man]

You’ll have to ask him yourself. We can only guess at it.

[DreamLife7]

Ok, so since u know the answer why are you asking us instead of moving on?