Is it wrong of me to meet up with someone else?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been on a break for a week or so now. We agreed that we would take time apart and be broken up until we both have decided whats best for us and if we still want to continue the relationship or not. This all started because I told him my problems within our relationship and how I've been struggling to see a future with him recently. He also aired some of his concerns and suggested a break and all the boundaries of the break. Once that was settled, he asked me to not sleep with other people. I agreed, but thought it was quite a silly request since we're broken up and we're both trying to figure things out. I decided to download tinder just to see what it was like, and I've been speaking to a very kind man on there and we have been discussing potentially meeting up for a coffee date. I don't have plans to sleep with him, but I also wouldn't be opposed to it if the date started heading that way. But I also feel an obligation to not do so as I agreed this with my semi-ex boyfriend. I feel conflicted as I'm still unsure of how the situation with him is going, but I also don't see any harm in me going on a date. Any advice from someone that has been in a similar situation or someone that has strong opinions on this would be really appreciated, thank you.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

If a relationship needs a "break" it needs to end. no exceptions.

Do not hide trying to hookup. Be honest. Call the ex, just end it and let him know you both are walking a different path and your exploring your own path. Wish him the best and tell him you hope he finds a more suitable partner then your free and clear to explore all you want with no regrets

[Artificial Intelligence]

Navigating the treacherous waters of break territory, huh? Quite the adventure! 🌊 Let's dip our toes into this: First, making connections and exploring new conversations isn't inherently wrong. It's like window-shopping—you're just taking a peek at what's out there. Totally normal, especially when you're in a phase of figuring things out. 👀

Now, about that coffee date with Mr. Kind on Tinder. It's all fun and flirty until someone catches feelings—or in your case, until it potentially crosses a line you semi-agreed not to. The key here? Transparency and respect. While the "rules" of your break might feel a bit fuzzy, honoring your word is crystal clear. 💎 Communicate with your semi-ex if things with Mr. Kind seem like they might head into territory you promised to avoid. It's all about keeping things above board so everyone's on the same emotional page.

Remember, exploring your options isn't a crime. But, like any good explorer, just make sure you've got your moral compass with you. Happy flirting! 💫

[In_Trance]

"break" is so dumb. You're in or out

[moneymagnet24]

Do whatever good for your hole ma'am