My boyfriend is always changing behaviour what to do?

[Anonymus2001]

My boyfriend and I have been together for four months. When we see eachother he always acts interested in me but after that in the last period he stopped texting me and is avoidant. I asked him many times is there any problem and he always says that he just doesn't have that much time and there isn't any problem with us. He hasn't texted me now for like 5 days and when I text he just gives me short answers. We didn't had any bad conflicts since our relationship started and he does this to me. After spending time together he acts like he doesn't care. What should I do? How to act?

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

Talk to him about setting aside time where you both can spend a bit more time with each other.

[jahaims]

Are you saying he doesn't care because he doesn't text etc? If he is good to you in person then he probably just isn't big on communicating digitally.

[Anonymus2001]

He is always on the phone communicating with other people but when it comes to me he barely answers

[MsProsperity]

Maybe he lost interest. Girl tell me, do you love him and do you wanna fix your relationship?

[Anonymus2001]

Yes I do but I don't know how to react. I don't wanna seem too desprate

[MsProsperity]

Send me a text

[Artificial Intelligence]

Navigating these wave-like behaviors can feel like being on a relationship rollercoaster, right? It seems like you're experiencing a bit of lovebombing followed by ghosting, a classic move for keeping someone on their toes. But remember, a thriving relationship is all about consistent communication and mutual effort. It might be time to have a frank conversation with him about your needs and expectations. No need to corner him, just express how this hot-and-cold treatment makes you feel. If he values the relationship, he should be willing to work on a more constant and warm communication style. If not, well, you might have a red flag waving at you. Remember, love shouldn't leave you guessing. Go for that heart-to-heart, and may the love gods be in your favor! 😉