I think I’m falling for someone and we haven’t met yet?

[Jefftheduck]

So I matched with a girl on tinder wich I never use usually but they said in the bio they wanted a serious relationship and they were so attractive to me exactly my type somehow I got lucky and we actually matched and now we have been talking non stop for two weeks like deep conversations with very long multiple paragraphs to each other about what we want in a relationship and our boundaries and what we want in life and what makes us happy or sad in relationships its like every answer she gives is exactly what i want it’s as if I wrote it to myself she’s drop dead gorgeous in the pictures and videos I’ve seen she’s funny and makes me laugh we are finally meeting in person this upcoming Saturday I’m beyond excited about it is it weird that I feel like I already have strong feelings when I haven’t met them yet it’s not something I’ve experienced before usually i have to meet somebody multiple times before feeling this way

[TommyMountainFigure]

Let me try this analogy.

If somebody you never met said they would give you a thousand $, (Seeing as you're in the US) What would your first though be? How you could spend it, or whether or not it was true?

I'm not saying it won't work out, but at least wait until you meet before letting your emotions run wild..

[Jefftheduck]

I mean we’re going to meet in 6 days I’m not saying I’m gonna marry her I’m not saying I’m in love but I’m starting to feel things for her

[TommyMountainFigure]

Yes I know, and I hope she is everything you hope she is. Building up expectations can not only be a let down though, it can also hamper how you act on the date. First impressions are important, and if you go overboard? You could end up making a terrible first impression.

[Jefftheduck]

I do hear what you’re saying and intend to heed your advice but I was just saying I’m not like saying i love you yet or anything it’s just more connection than I expected she also has expressed to me that she is feeling things already as well but you’re right we don’t know what the chemistry will be like irl so I should see how the meeting goes it’s going to be hard not to get my hopes up though she seems to be exactly what i want in a partner in terms of like what we value in a person and the things that satisfy us in relationships

[Jefftheduck]

I’d love to show a picture but I feel it’s a violation of her privacy so I won’t but she’s gorgeous

[TommyMountainFigure]

I'm extremely pleased for you and I'm not just saying it, I really do hope everything turns out how you plan. Trust me on something else too, as a guy who is with an ex catwalk model. Guys ogle over gorgeous women, but gorgeous women are just women.. They don't like to be ogled over or put on a pedestal. You get what I'm saying?

[TommyMountainFigure]

Tell her she looks nice when you see her, and leave it at that. k?

[Jefftheduck]

Not to toot my own horn but one girl was an underwear model I dated for 6 years and every girl I’ve ever been with has been very attractive so for me while it’s nice she’s hot it’s not a huge deal I get hot girls all the time it’s the deep conversations making me like her but like you said you can say anything but actions are more important that said I also don’t want to overly pessimistic that can ruin something even faster than too much optimism and i say that from experience there’s definitely a balance somewhere between them

[TommyMountainFigure]

You do sound level headed so I won't keep on with the advice. Have a great time and I will have my fingers crossed everything works out well for you both!

[Jefftheduck]

You weren’t wrong at all will think of your advice I appreciate it very much thank you

[TommyMountainFigure]

You're very welcome buddy.

[Anonymous]

Can you like stop making pther jealous on this site Sir?

[Jefftheduck]

I’ll try no promises

[Opinion Owner]

Man get tf out of this site, this site is for losers , not handsome studs who have a life

[Artificial Intelligence]

Falling for someone before meeting in person is like a modern-day fairy tale, isn't it? It's not weird at all; it's the wonder of connecting in the digital age! You've been sharing deep conversations, laughing together, and finding common ground, which are all solid foundations for a potential relationship. It's totally normal to develop feelings based on this emotional and intellectual connection. Just remember, meeting in person might add new dimensions to your connection. So, go into it with an open heart and mind, and let the real-life chemistry guide you. Excitement is part of the charm, so embrace it! Let’s see if sparks fly offline as beautifully as they do online. May your upcoming Saturday be filled with laughter, connection, and perhaps a touch of lovebombing in the best way possible. Keep us posted, Romeo!

[Jefftheduck]

I keep trying to like response but it keeps showing the thumbs down lol but thank you i totally agree I need see what they are like in person but it’s definitely nice to know i like the way she thinks and we want the same things like in a way i like knowing its not just lust because we haven’t physically met but in six days I finally meet her I’m really excited it’s gonna be a long week but we’re gonna talk even more between now and then wich will be nice we have only sent a few pictures and videos and video chatted for like 5 minutes once to make sure there was no catfish situation lol it’s something that is only bringing me happiness to this point so I see no reason not to continue and see where it goes. Can I ask you something are you like an actual psychologist or something it’s the way you write as well as the fact you said doctor in the name just wondering

[bobalife]

I think it’s normal when you feel like you build a really good connection and gets along really well with mutual physical attraction. But I know it’s not very common you can find that with just anyone as deep connection can be hard, but it is normal it does happen. How did the meeting go?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Oh Boy!

[Razp_Sorbet]

Pretty normal. You can get to know someone and fall for them over just text. Words can hold a lot of emotion. It's why we love stories, poems, music..