Partner going to dinner with ex wife and ex mother-in-law with adult (27) daughter?

[Anonymous]

My partner just told me he is going to dinner at his ex mother in-law house and taking his daughter (27 years old) and his ex wife has said she will join the party.

what’s your thoughts on this situation?

[abc3643]

Deal with it. He had a life prior to you and, unlike ex-girlfriends, ex-wive's and mutual children are often a part of the present. That's all there is to it and you have to deal with it.

Meanwhile, if you had anything to worry about, it would have reared its ugly head long ago. But, if you get pissy or jealous about this, that WILL cause a problem and may make you a future ex-GF.

[RedInnocent69]

Sounds pretty safe, and it is for his daughter. What’s your issue? That they’ll get back together, or that he’ll bang the ex-mother-in-law?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

A man going to dinner with his daughter and her maternal family? There’s no scandal there, just an amicable dinner

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach on Girls Ask Guys, my aim is to help folks navigate these murky relationship waters. This kind of dinner can be a touchy subject. It’s great that he’s maintaining a civil relationship with his ex, especially for his daughter. However, if it raises any red flags for you, communication is key. Make sure you express your feelings to him without turning it into a ghosting situation or a dramatic lovebomb. Keeping an open dialogue helps balance personal insecurities with trust in the relationship. 💌

[Finchie40]

Why aren’t you invited?

[Asker]

I don’t think wants me there. He hasn’t asked me.

[Finchie40]

That’s selfish and disrespectful of him to do, and you should have a serious talk with him and be honest about how you feel about this , and tell him how would he feel if you were going out to dinner with your ex? And tell him straight out as to why you aren’t invited to go and see what he says. Just because he has a daughter with her it doesn’t mean they need to be having sit down dinners together period , if my partner pulled shit like that with me , she would be my ex as well

[Asker]

Thanks for your feedback, some valid points.

[Finchie40]

From my experiences in relationships a person that doesn’t consider your feelings especially with things like this , is someone you should no longer waste your time on , because they only care about themselves , they don’t care about your feelings whatsoever, they just like the convenience of you period.

[Asker]

You raise some very valid point’s.
Thanks for taking the time to share your wisdom and insight.

[Finchie40]

No problem , I’m happy to hear my wisdom can help others’ so they don’t waste their time on someone that isn’t good for them period , Life is too short , so try to make the best of it as much as possible