Yes, she had some kind of weird pheromones or something. I would count the hours until I saw her again and the next day I would wake up with some kind of weird hangover. When she suddenly went back with her old boyfriend I actually had to pull my car over to the side ot the road and get out and puke.
As your go-to relationship guru, I'd say getting over someone you're obsessed with can feel like trying to kick a serious candy habit 🍭. When you're infatuated, your brain’s on a crazy emotional rollercoaster, and stepping off can be tough. Remember, time heals, self-love is key, and distraction is your friend! Let your heart heal; you got this! 💪❤️
My theory is how many times have you dated someone. You broke and it hurt. Two or 3 weeks go by. And you more or less over it your out with your friend again. And you still hold back a little. But your. Ok.
Then you date someone. And you break up and you ant get them off your mind a week goes by. 2 weeks 3 weeks you can't eat you can't sleep. Your saying WtF. Is wrong with me I mean you try to hang out with friends you work over time you do every thing to stay busy. You can't shake the feel you ask your self what is wrong we me it over I don't want any thing more to do with her I except this o want it to be over with.
But we have this thing called energy with in is it talks to us it teaches it guides it warns you it tells you everything. I call it the Spiritual real me. When you make love to somebody and you can become one and melt into them. It's that energy that does that The way you touch the way you kiss the way you hold it. S an inter energy that it like takes control
When I see people they can't eat sleep. They're miserable. They're sick to their stomach
I say it's there energy that fell in love with there partners. Energy. And they mourning the energy of the partner they are Miserable and they make you miserable too because you accepted it, you said it's done. It's over with that energy inside of you saying no I miss this person. I want to go see this person I need to be with this person and you fight now. Not always break up, but now you fight your energy.
I've always said when 2 energies connect. It is the most beautiful thing in this world. They're spiritual. It is a part of us. I think they fall in love too and when it hapoen they go I. To mourning the energy they were in love.
I've broke up before and I was over it it hurt but I was over it my mind was made up.. but there was something in side of me that made me feel sick I would battle myself because it was bull shit. I said listen go she her if that's what you need to do. When I go to sleep or dinner time because I'm starving go see your girlfriend then. But you really need to stop. I'm hungry. And I can eat a cow right now and you won't let me lol
But for me it has happened three. Time s the first time it was just crazy. But even then something was not right. The second time that when I thought about it and for me it's real. The third time. I said oh no you don't. Don't even thing about it it happen for about a week I kept says stop it she's not even your type no no get the fuck over it now lol it sound crazy. But I believe it
Years ago I could talk to someone on the east coast Im On. The west coast. We could have phone sex that was better than real sex it's happen many time different girls best orgasms ever they would say. I would play a game I would say relax I'm going to touch you 5 times 5 different places I will write all 5 places down right now and you write down each place I touch. They would get five out of 5. Sometimes 4 out of 5. But there was always 6 answers when that would happen they would tell me the real place but change it
I want to know how I could do this I kept asking the universe and God please tell me how
1 day I go to the hospital I'm talking to 2 doctors and a nurse next thing I know I'm passing out as I do I sit down real quick and it's to late I'm falling over on my side as I do al of a sudden I'm looking into my own eyes but I'm the size of a dime I hit the floor and I was in the dime size me float up to a lite I step on to it And I'm watching and I'm listening to everything. The doctors and the nurse are saying soon. When Doctor walks over to me hits me with the moon you capsule, I wake up. And they're looking at me like what's wrong? I guess I had a different look. I said I can tell you everything you guys just said and did step 4 step word-for-word? They kind of just smiled and said yeah, OK, whatever I told them all everything they all 3 did and they looked at each other like how. Did you know that that has to be energy to left my body and was me? Because there's nothing else, so it's energy that is doing all this but anyway. This book might be to long
It's true. You can be in love someone and still want to spend time with friends , family and have other goals and hobbies in life... but people move on too after they find out they're incompatible or their partner did something that hurt them...
But when it someone is obsessed with a person and whether they are in a relationship with that person or not- they often spend their whole day thinking about them, stalking them online or follow them... people who never got to be with the person they're obsess with tend to do this. They want to find out whether you go, what time, how you talk, what you wear, what you like, how you laugh... and you become their whole life and their purpose. Obsession stops them from doing something useful with their life and they can't imagine their life without their person even if they were confronted about it. So, in many cases, people who are obsessed have a hard time getting over as they love the idea of being with someone and feel they're meant to be together.
I can’t speak to obsession , that just makes me think “psychological issues” because of it comparatively negative connotation … I mean who would choose to be obsessed over being in love? … but in the sense that somehow chemically it’s more intense than love? or burns hotter? And perhaps unsustainably? then I hope I never am
However, I have been in a love so all consuming that I’m almost certain I cannot ever experience again, because I can never truly get back to the person I was then by measure of innocence , of character , or experience etc That is to say that the loss of that love affected me so profoundly that I simply cannot seem to allow myself to be that open again.
Obviously. The way we can manifest love and/or the way we want to be loved can be strong, so strong that it's adjacent to obsession or maybe it is downright obsession. So, if we don't find, in this life, something to dilute, compensate or heal from a screaming sentiment so invasive, then yes, it has to turn life into a nightmare. But there IS something more to life than what we thought we needed. There are other things we need besides love, luckily.
Last girl I dated for a while was like a drug to me just as I was to her We couldn’t keep our hands (or lips) off of each other from the moment we enter the same room It was especially hard to hold back in public
(we even once ravaged each other in an elevator just before arriving at a friend’s lunch invite)
Getting her out of my system after it ended was extra hard Even though I was the one who ended it
Well why it's not are healthy way to love that's an emotional attachment a deep one so it is very very hard to forget about them if anything that sounds or look familiar like theirs like name the kind of cologne they use or anything at all that reminds you about them they pop back into your head It takes time
Yes that makes it harder but what makes it even harder is when you try to remain friends with them. How can you get over someone your constantly interacting with
Yes, that person is definitely harder to put behind you for good. I moved 3,000 away from him just to make sure that I had to get over him and THAT worked!!🙂
Being addicted/obsessed with someone is my sign that I'm falling for someone and was always harder for me to get over those than my other more superficial relations.
I was thinking more about this. When a relation such as yours ends, I think that is where each of us in the same spot begin to obsess. We replay everything in our heads trying to understand why they abruptly had a change of heart. Especially when days prior they are exclaiming to you and your family how much they want to be married to you and have and raise ‘our’ children together … so on and so forth. The whole making future plans with you together … all that stuff … then it just ceases and then that is where the obsessing begins. Leaving you trying to figure out what the hell happened. Even if they provide an answer or a reason it still doesn’t put your mind to rest. If anything it leaves to trying to figure the why out in that too. It fucks with our rational mind making us into a bit of a basket case.
Anyway, that is where obsession at least for me sets in. Yeah, it can be a mind scramble. It is unhealthy. It sucks and it can take a stretch of time to get beyond.
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