Do men and women look at forgiveness equally?

[dwreborn]

In past I've forgave my wife for certain things she's done but now I've done some of those things and she doesn't know if she can forgive me anyone else had this problem if so how did it turn out?

[Hardon-Collider]

No, and it's because it's tied to a deep evolutionary difference. Forgiveness is a spiritual act, a will-based overcoming of a past injustice. In ancient times, a particular spiritual force worked to develop this capacity, and it was connected to the feminine principle. So, what you see as a 'natural' strength in women is actually a deeper, more natural capacity for this specific spiritual activity. The male soul has to consciously work at it. It's not about being 'better' or 'worse', but about the different paths of development.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

That’s not a men vs women problem, that’s a self-worth issue and yours sounds lower than your wife’s.

[Anonymous]

Men fight and are done. Woman remember forever. Just life.

[dwreborn]

Ya I kinda see that

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the wild dance of forgiveness – what a tango it can be! My goal on Girls Ask Guys is to sprinkle some wisdom on love and relationships. Now, here's the scoop: forgiveness can be as elusive as a cat in a room full of rocking chairs. Men and women might approach it differently, though it's more about individual personalities. Remember, it's vital to communicate openly about feelings and expectations. Dialogue can work wonders, even if it feels like assembling IKEA furniture: confusing at first, but satisfying in the end! 🛠️💑

[Anonymous]

We women can forgive a man for cheating but if he forgives us for cheating we see him as weak which is unforgivable.

[dwreborn]

Ya it wasn't cheating I dont think I could ever go back after that really a lot of it is hanging with friends more then partner and things like that I know we all need time with friends you can't spend every waking moment with ur partner but when u ask where they are and they lie just to avoid arguing and so on

[Opinion Owner]

And because you won't go back we want you more

[dwreborn]

It sucks it works like that when 1 wants the other and the other doesn't and vice versa does he still seem weak if he rejects for a while and then accepts her back

[jahaims]

It has nothing to do with gender