Should I asks my son is everything is okay?

[Anonymous]

He said this when i asked him was anything special planned for Valentine’s day. He’s just now engaged and they’ve been together for a few years. I don’t want to make things a big deal but the “nothing much” and “some activities” had me thinking a bit.

[madhatters4]

you know him best to know if those statements a significant but to me they don't register as an issue to be concerned with.

nothing much to me means, they don't have significant plans. now if he is usually for the big Valentine's day gestures AND usually texts you about those big Valentine's plans then maybe this is an issue... but i probably have texted my mom or others this because i don't have major plans or just don't really want to detail my plans in text.

he also mentioned "working" so the brief text could be he was too busy to get into detail

[Master_Debator]

Why is this so alarming to you? Is there a history of lies? What if it is a lie? Like maybe he's trying to slip off to a gay orgy? you really want to find out about it?

I think you should chill and let it be. I joking about the gay orgy... the kid sounds like he's just grinding through the boring day to day stuff.

[cherrytreeblossom]

maybe at age 25 you should let your little prince be an adult man for once in his life at least on Valentine's

are you gonna be there talking him through the whole process of kissing the bride, too?

[Hopeless30]

Well said

[Asker]

Maybe you should assume. Maybe you should be open minded and ask maybe there’s a reason why she’s asking this instead of being negative to a stranger😘

[Asker]

shouldn’t*. also I give him space and love his fiancé dearly. They’re grown.

[cherrytreeblossom]

i'd die if my mom even mentionned Valentine's

[Asker]

are you looking to do her a favor?

[cherrytreeblossom]

whom, what girl? you talked about your boy and his fiancé, as in another male, not female, which would've been fiancée

[Anonymous]

He says he’s having dinner and doing activities? He’s obviously doing things but don’t want or have the time or energy to share details with you.

[Asker]

Yeah he was at work so that’s what I think it was

[AI Opinion]

My aim here on GAG is to decode feelings, red flags, and those “huh?” moments in relationships and family vibes 💘

Your son’s answer sounds casual, not like a breakup bomb. Engaged guys, especially introverted ones, often downplay plans so they don’t overshare or raise expectations. You can gently say something like: “Nice, sounds fun, I’m happy for you both.” No interrogation, no “is everything okay?”, just support. If there’s drama, he’ll open up on his own.

[OlderAndWiser]

You are 25-29, so your son can't be more than 14 years old. . . and he is engaged?

[Abbycado]

I wouldn't read too much into that. What age is he?

[Asker]

He is 25

[Hopeless30]

Your son is 25 n you're also 25 ?
Cool 😎

[Abbycado]

You are 25-29 and he is 25? How does that work?

I still don't see much to worry about what he said.

[Asker]

I put the wrong age! I’m 50. That’s what happens when you get one of your kids to make it for you and they want to be silly.

[Asker]

I’m not the most tech savvy person

[Hopeless30]

Its k maam no need to give explanation relax. Have a great day.

[David318578]

@Abbycado the 25-29 with a 25 year old son works because this guy logged into the wrong fake pink account, he probably meant to log into one of his older fake pink accounts.
He is probably hoping that someone will mention "nothing much" probably means sex and then he can strike up some weird sexual conversation like all the fake pink accounts do.

They really need to get rid of the anonymous option here..

[Asker]

Did you feel better typing a paragraph of hate and doing better with the your time in life? 😂

[Hopeless30]

@asker 🔥🔥😂😂😂

[David318578]

Yeah i feel pretty good, thanks for asking. So you think anyone is buying your story?

[RavVid]

I think he has reluctance to discuss "activities" with his mom. Not unreasonable. Let activities be activities and don't pry further.

[AngryCarl3]

Your son is what, 7 years old? I'd be concerned that he's working on a school day.

[Mike_Hum]

he didn't want to tell you he's going to be eating her ass.

[jahaims]

You are 25-29 with a son that is engaged? You are incestuously involved the way you interfere

[Kingofkings1992]

You're between 25-29 years old, and you supposedly have an engaged son? Yeah, something is not quite adding up here

[Anonymous]

His reply is very normal. What are you concerned about?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Why is the screenshot from your son’s phone?

[Asker]

Simple, we talked about this and he sent it to me.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Why would he send you a screenshot of a conversation you also have on your phone?

[Asker]

He did because he wanted to based off our conversation.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

In what context would it be relevant to send you a screenshot of a conversation you had with him that you can also go back and read on your own phone?

[Asker]

In the context him and I privately talked about :). This wasn’t my question so i’m very confused.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Why are you asking a question on behalf of someone else?

[Asker]

The same reason most people ask questions on here about others, dogs, & such. The same reason your name is cupcake the destroyer. We both have freedom.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

That is a logic I cannot follow because you’re cagey af

[Anonymous]

He is a big boy. He will be fine.

[Hopeless30]

Nope give him space...

[Asker]

What do you mean? in the sense of it’s not that big of a deal or just let him deal with it.

[Hopeless30]

Let him deal with it

[Anonymous]

Dude get off the fake female account