Who would agree with this statement and why?

[NoDecision]

I agree

Oh, hell no!

A total of 36 votes were cast: 5 girls and 31 guys. See detailed results

[Summeroflove]

All men are different and so are all women not all men are bad or don’t know this. To an extent and I do think this goes both ways there are men too who stop trying because the woman stops or because the relationship is one sided. At the end of the day one sided relationships SUCK and someone will eventually become so exhausted that the best thing to do is just exit the relationship.

All women are different I will say this. I see tons of men complaining about women who intentionally go for assholes. Look those aren’t the women you want to pick anyways. Those are women who will never have a fulfilling relationship and would make you absolutely miserable to be with.

This really happens because there are men out there that really believe that women are only wired to love them for what they can provide, money, social status, etc. Guess what you do? It’s a self fulfilling prophecy because when you don’t create emotional depth with a woman you chase off women who want genuine relationship because those women don’t waste their time or yours they just leave.

If a woman is willing to leave you because you loose your money that woman will probably cheat on you and discard you regardless. She doesn’t love you dude she loves your money.

Most women don’t fall in love with facts about a man. Why do some men date way above their league? Because they connected with a woman deeply. Women don’t fall for a man because of how much he makes, his job title, his social status, his achievements, etc I’m not saying any of that’s bad on its own. Genuine love is built on bonding with someone on a deeper level getting to know one another. Being able to be vulnerable. To have someone you can show a part of yourself you don’t even show your own family.

People think being vulnerability is just having someone to cry to. Being able to cry and express emotions is part of it but it’s also about being able to let go and be your authentic self without having to mask yourself. And loving that person for who they are as a human being loving their soul.

Now, if a woman uses your emotions against you or doesn’t have empathy for you. Dude leave point blank. Leave. She won’t make a good wife and you’ll be living in a prison inside your own home if you choose to marry her.

But it goes both ways. If a woman loves you and nurtures you and is there for you when you’re sick or had a bad day or someone died or whatever. You shouldn’t dismiss her needs. A mature woman needs a man who she can also be herself to even if it sounds silly. I’ve never been a woman but I’m sure having periods, pregnancy, and menopause sucks. She also has to be strong in the world if she goes to work she can’t just not work because she doesn’t feel good.

Now I a hundred percent agree that you shouldn’t be with someone who takes things out on you with things you can’t control. But if a man loves his woman he will be there for her. If she needs space that’s good as well.

[Sunrising]

I agree with you 100%
Some women break promises, they lack effort to keep a happy relationship, they have poor communication skills, they neglect their man, and females don't know what empathy is.

A man loses his lady because he puts up with her man chasing antics without complaint, through loyalty and devotion, accepting while he's at work, his lady can't stay at home on her own doing nothing.

But a man should say, enough is enough and find a lady that deserves to be with a decent loving, caring man, and leave the female to chase the men that abuse them, and treat them badly.

[Sunrising]

Thank you for the MHO

[Sunrising]

Perhaps we all should ask ourselves, are we taking someone for granted, for otherwise we might lose them.

[Finchie40]

I agree with this with a sane girl , but I don’t agree with this with an insane girl , that suffers and diagnosed with severe mental illness why it’s best to check her medicine cabinet before giving your heart to her. I made that mistake once and I pray I never experience it again

[bobalife]

As a woman, I definitely agreed for the most part when she falls out of love and ready to say bye to the relationship when a man isn’t contributing to make his woman a priority to be love & feel love as she deserves.

[jshm2]

Nope, that's just silly and copium.

It tries to place all the blame on the man for whatever has gone wrong in the relationship.

Sure, men can be wrong and can become lazy or distracted in their relationships. But in any relationship, both have responsibilities.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I have to disagree.

Because there's surely some men realising what's been stated above. Plus, there's surely some women falling out of love for reasons unaccounted for by the prior statement.

[tzdc21]

Yeah I don't think so. While that sometimes happens, what also happens quite a bit is that the man is contributing everything he can and the woman STILL falls out of love with him. Its not as simple as you make it out to be where its always our own fault that the relationship goes wrong or she loses feelings.

[TonyMetal___86]

I agree but these rules might work only on real devoted loyal women, others would dump a man no matter how good he is because cheating runs in their blood...

[midnightmoon05]

I disagree because it takes 2.

even though the reality nowadays it’s always finger pointing… that’s why no one is happy or know what it means to love.

[molonski2]

Complete generalisation , that's far from true , and rarely the reason.

[NoDecision]

Well then, give a reason in your opinion.

[glennos89]

Depends on the person. Some men aren't pulling up their weight but I also know woman who always think the grass is greener on the other side

[Friendlybro79]

I agree but I also agree that men and women can fall out of love with each other for this reason. Also this isn't the only reason but a reason why people fall out of love with someone.

[lilBigPotato]

For the most part yes I think there's some truth to this.

[NathanDavis]

generally speaking, agreed...

but sometimes, people just cheat... lol

[WhitneySnow]

I absolutely agree in general, but there are exceptions

[RedInnocent69]

I tend to agree. Although girls will say anything to absolve themselves of personal responsibility. It’s saying, you made me sleep with him because you neglected me

[Staximus]

That is an ignorant generalization which does not apply to all relationship situations

[NoDecision]

When you say not all, what percentage do or don't?

[Staximus]

That statement basically says that it’s always the man’s fault if the woman is not in love with him anymore, and that’s total bullshit

[NoDecision]

Well I'm sure there are ones that show that it is always the woman's fault too. The door swings both ways.

[LC75LC71]

That's just an eloquent way of saying he didn't keep the pussy happy.

[Iron_Man]

No excuses for the woman to leave they can work it out Counseling

[AgentG111]

Women come from the start of the one who said he listen to this snake.

[Jeff51]

I agree mostly. I can see it can be bis fault but women has issues of trust too

[FreyaRed]

Having expectations isn't love.

[Jerre]

I totally agree with you

[Batsy01010101]

That's complete horseshit