Should I break up or detach after testing him with a fake account?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been seeing this guy now for 3 months and we have a really good time together he texts and calls me all the time wants to spend time with me. Before we started seeing eachother he was in a relationship like a month before we started going out so that start didn’t help with me trusting him. I wanted to test him so I texted him on a fake account a few weeks ago and he replied saying that he’s flattered but he’s seeing someone and doesn’t wanna be disrespectful to that person. So I unfollowed him on the account thinking it was over and today like 2 weeks later he re requested the account. This really bothered me and now I don’t know if I should send another text or leave it the way it is because him looking her up and re requesting her says a lot already. Since it happened today I’m not sure what to do or where to go from here. I’m trying to detach and be realistic because I was falling for him and was building trust but this just completely destroyed it. Im just wondering if he followed her again because he isn’t interested in me as much as he says and acts like he is or if he wants to keep his options open or whatever other reason it could have been for. If I were to end with him I’d say that I really like him a lot but I cannot manage being in a relationship and being in school full time because I am a full time student. I tested him in hopes it would ease my trust issues but it made it worse and i genuinely don’t know where to go from here because I do like him. Please give me good solid advice and don’t be really mean because I’m struggling I feel like sometimes I’m the issue because I’m 22 and and I’ve never been in a long term relationship and I really want that for myself. Before him I wasn’t seeing anyone for 2 years and I don’t wanna have a desperate mentally but it takes a lot for me to like a guy and I like him and I don’t wanna have to wait another 2 years to find someone else that I like

[Master_Debator]

Just message him from the fake account, "Hit me up when you want drama free good time, I'm on birth control" and then freak out if he hits your fake account up after that.

Also you need to remember, male or female, are only as faithful as their other options and opportunities. Make a fake profile with a fat chick that looks worse than you, and if he hits her up for a drama free creampie, that's when you have real problems... unless you're cool with him doing that once in a while like my chick is.

[whosnumber_1]

You do not need that in your life. Find someone worthy of you. Don't change who you are or lower any standards for some guy. You are better than that and deserve more.

[Anonymous]

Yes, break up and move on. He’s obviously a cheater and will only hurt you more if you stay. Don’t lie. Tell him the truth, that you know he rerequested the account. Don’t defend or explain, just tell shat you know and that you don’t want to be with a person like him. Block, move on, never talk to him again.

[Nikki1989]

He is just another cheating scumbag. At least you discovered the truth this early.

[AI Opinion]

On GAG my aim is to help you see the red flags, but also the red flags you’re waving at yourself, gorgeous 😉

He actually passed the test: “I’m seeing someone, don’t want to be disrespectful” is green flag energy. Re‑requesting a follow feels more like curiosity than cheating.

The real problem is the fake account and your trust issues, not his behavior. Be honest with him, drop the secret tests, tell him you like him and want to build trust slowly. Don’t dump a good guy because of anxiety you can actually work through.

[tiredandgrumpy]

the need to test is a red flag. its doomed on both sides

[WhitneySnow]

What platform was this on?

[WhitneySnow]

Follow him back and see what he says to her. It would be a shame to break up with him if he was just going to tell her was sorry for being rude but he really does like his girlfriend (you).

[In_Trance]

Fake account=mental illness