My boyfriend hit me today for the first time (Page 2)

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saying that he hit me is a bit of an understatement. he beat the hell out of me this morning and I just got home from the ER. I had to get a total of 23 stitches is 5 different places, I have a badly sprained wrist a broken finger, and a lot of bruises scrapes and cuts. he and I don't live together, thank god, but he came over early this morning, which thought was weird, but I let him and he just started attacking me and accusing me of cheating. I assure each and every one of you that I have never cheated on ANYONE that I have been in a relationship with. Ever. when he was done beating me I drives myself to the ER which was probably really stupid, I should have called 911, but once got to the ER I explained what happened to the admitting person and a very kind male nurse. while the nurse and PA were tending my wounds the admitting lady called the police who questioned me and I told them everything that happened and to my knowledge he has been arrested. while at the hospital I spoke with a social worker who gave me several 'battered women' resources. I never ever thought I would be in this situation and I am so embarrassed. I never would have wanted to even thought that I would be considered a battered woman. What do I do now? I feel awful embarrassed ashamed. worthless and just plain horrible...

Konnour · Answer

Get a gun or brass knuckles and retaliate if he's within sight. But the chances are you won't have to.

BrotherhoodInc · Answer

He sounds like a jerk with no regard for you feelings. Break up with him and find someone who cares about you. Stay away from him and be happy he's out of your life.

Anonymous · Answer

Why do you say he beat you 'for the first time'?  It had better be the only time.  Get the heck out of there.  I hope some guy catches him doing something like that and beats him to a bloody pulp, what a sicko.

iwish46 · Answer

*soft hug*. Don't feel embarrassed. It's not your fault. No person or even an animal for that matter deserves to be treated like that.

Nicci · Answer

Leave him, immediately. Don't listen to anything he says, just leave him. Get out now.

Anonymous · Answer

He's the one who has something to be ashamed of, not you. Leave him and never look back. I hope you get help from people around you and heal and move on to happier things.

JannaKadeuce · Answer

Leave him before it's too late. You have to protect yourself. You have to leave

OralB · Answer

I'm so sorry for you, and I wish you the best with everything. Just don't let this bring you down, keep shining.

WickedEyedLeo · Answer

His insecurity lead to this just do you know. Of course but press charges. And find a guy that can trust you.

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