Basically she cheated on me after I had cursed her out and called her names when she went behind my back about something. Technically we were broken up but I did apologize to her and thought we we're okay and shortly after it all happened. Anyways she now dates this guy and we've been talking and she cheated on him with me. She told me she didn't want to cheat anymore but I pursued her and she tried hard to resist me but couldn't. I was wrong for that I know. She told me she still loves me and sorry for cheating on me. She said she wish she'd never done it and that after I cursed her out it clouded her feelings for me.
I want her back and told her that I want to work this out and she wants to too but she's scared to get back with me because I hurt her and she's scared she might hurt me again.
I know she is getting better and she has been honest with me because I asked her numerous stuff that I already know but she doesn't know that I know to test her if she would tell me the truth from now on and she has.
She says she loves me and doesn't even know if she likes this guy as a relationship or just a friend thing but she won't leave him for me. When I ask her this she says she doesn't know what she wants. She doesn't want to hurt his feelings and says he hasn't done anything wrong for her to break up with him. This just confuses me that she loves me but won't leave him for me.
She says she wants to prove to herself and me that she can be faithful so she'll be ready for me. I understand this but she still wants to talk to me and hang out with me on a regular basis. We recently talked on the phone and she couldn't help but talk about marriage and that she wants to marry me.
I've tried many times to not talk or see her but it always fails. She always either IM's me or calls me and I end up responding when I say I wouldn't.
I don't have sex with her anymore even though I know if I pursue her she would give in because she still have feelings for me but she doesn't want to be like that and I don't want her to be like that either.
Should I stop contact stone cold?
Should I let her know I'm gonna move on and let her go?
Should I continue to talk to her?
what about in the future if they don't work out?
Any advice or opinion would be greatly appreciated thanks.
I want her back and told her that I want to work this out and she wants to too but she's scared to get back with me because I hurt her and she's scared she might hurt me again.
I know she is getting better and she has been honest with me because I asked her numerous stuff that I already know but she doesn't know that I know to test her if she would tell me the truth from now on and she has.
She says she loves me and doesn't even know if she likes this guy as a relationship or just a friend thing but she won't leave him for me. When I ask her this she says she doesn't know what she wants. She doesn't want to hurt his feelings and says he hasn't done anything wrong for her to break up with him. This just confuses me that she loves me but won't leave him for me.
She says she wants to prove to herself and me that she can be faithful so she'll be ready for me. I understand this but she still wants to talk to me and hang out with me on a regular basis. We recently talked on the phone and she couldn't help but talk about marriage and that she wants to marry me.
I've tried many times to not talk or see her but it always fails. She always either IM's me or calls me and I end up responding when I say I wouldn't.
I don't have sex with her anymore even though I know if I pursue her she would give in because she still have feelings for me but she doesn't want to be like that and I don't want her to be like that either.
Should I stop contact stone cold?
Should I let her know I'm gonna move on and let her go?
Should I continue to talk to her?
what about in the future if they don't work out?
Any advice or opinion would be greatly appreciated thanks.
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