Is it good to share your insecurities with your partner even if it involves them? (Page 2)

Question

I personally feel like i need to shy away from exposing my insecurities, becasue It would make me seem vulnerable, weak and unappealing.
However, I recently came across a website where a women is arguing the importance of speaking your mind, no matter how insecure you may look.
This is what she said 
"Who cares if your partner thinks you're insecure? Speak your heart! If they can't handle it, then they aren't strong enough. And therefore, are they even strong enough to have the relationship?
Never be afraid to seem clingy or insecure or whatever thing we build up in our minds.
Say what you feel. No question. You will always stand strong because you at least, are always willing and able to speak your heart. Life is just too short for anything less!"
I have seen posts on GAG where  a lot  of people have said that insecure people are off putting. I have said the same thing, but  aren't  we all insecure in one way or another?
What are your thought on this?

soccergirl55 · Answer

I know for a fact I'm insecure. But if your partner can't handle your feelings  or your insecurities, then they don't deserve you. The best thing to do is tell them, if you don't your  going to  lose them cuz your not being your true self.

NhighvoltageL · Answer

It depends on what they are. with that being said psychology has said that relationships work better when both sides are open with each other, but with everything in life it is a balancing act, you have to know when you are sharing to little and when you are sharing too much.

shinonara · Answer

I agree with what you had to say there and i already shared my own insecurities with my gf and she did like wise if anything id say it brought us closer rather than anything else

donthewatcher · Answer

yes put on the big girl panties /boxer briefs  and share your fears with someone who gets you even if you  can't  handle the truth they may respect you more if you divulge...

Katy16 · Answer

Personally I do try and share things with my bf, we try and be SUPER open and honest with each other and wanna be comfortable talking about anything. And he's always really supportive of me :)

farmerguy · Answer

If you care for them be open and honest. It can only bring the two of you closer together.

AnonymousGlRL · Answer

It really depends on what it is. There are some things you just need to keep to yourself.

ras144 · Answer

Usually yes. You jut need to make sure you're not hurting their feelings.

Anonymous · Answer

For me Yes, Since I'm with my boyfriend for 7 years and I'm very comfortable with him. I share all  to him.

JamielovesKU · Answer

Its always good to share your insecurities

beehappy572 · Answer

Just don't be insecure, problem solved!

Anonymous · Answer

I can't imagine anything will come out of that

Kellyht01 · Answer

Sometimes I would just go with aflow

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