Why would my husband have the need/desire to look at other naked women on the computer? (Page 2)

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I don't mean to sound silly but I am a HOT 30yo woman.  I do anything and everything in the bedroom for him, keep him totally sexually satisfied, and we have fun doing it.  Our sex life has always been awesome.  I am a great wife.  We have fun together.  We laugh and play and tease each other like kids.  I totally busted him when I found some crap he looked up on the Internet (girls with big fake boobs, wet t shirt contests, big asses, muscular legs, sh*t like that). I was beyond hurt.  My last marriage ended because of this and he knew what kind of emotional damage it has left me with.  I feel like he chose those other women over me.  He says that it's ridiculous to think that!  Umm hello?!  I told him before we got married that I could basically deal with anything BUT THAT!  I'm TRYING with all my heart to move past it but I think about it constantly.  He wants me to forgive him but I can't, not when he KNEW the extent of the damage my ex did to me.  Now we can't even go to the pool together because I feel that he's eye f***ing every chick that may be up there.  I don't want to feel that I'm married to a perv.  We have 2 kids together.  10yo boy and 3yo girl.  Please someone help me get this sorted out in my head.  Thanks.

piemaster · Answer

Wow, I understand how you feel. He should have respected your view on the whole shabang on porn -- especially if you try and succeed in keeping him sexually satisfied. Heck, I'd be frustrated beyond belief... but sadly, porn is a form of eye candy. Not saying everyone likes porn, but everyone likes eye candy.

But in this situation, he needs to let it go... it's hard as hell, but he should if he loves you.

Reeses-pieces777 · Answer

as long as he's with you , that's what matters but he's got to stop it and just tell him that directly and hopefully he gets over this addiction of his.

TracyF · Answer

Do you two love each other? If so! Then there is always hope, you can get over this, but yes your man needs to stop that behavior. Communicate that to him tell him how it hurts you. But not in anger, just be honest.

SmarmyMarsh · Answer

It hurts you, so he should get rid of it. End of discussion.

jacquesvol · Answer

One thing should reassure you: the more women het looks at, the less chances there are that he will get obsessed or in love or both with one particular woman and dump you.

UnknownSwede · Answer

It's the same reason as to why you watch romcoms or read romantic novels. Or go out to eat dinner, even though you have food at home.

mizzqueenb1 · Answer

men what if the guy keeps doing it like every time he check he's phone he check that to and its not p*rn its naked women not men and women just women that look different from us

Christoff92 · Answer

Maybe you should duplicate the girls he's seeing online. Where he wouldn't have to. Give it a try and pleasure him 😉😏

ash655 · Answer

That's so sad, I'm sorry he did that to you.  I guess some men really are just pigs :/

tenzoriator · Answer

you man may have p*rn addiction. YourBrainOnPorn Dot Com

shawnee123 · Answer

my boyfriend is the same way and I'm a hot girl and we have a great life together

brown_eyes · Answer

He has a dangerous addiction, and is a douche.

moonlightromance · Answer

he just likes to mix it up a bit.

girlygirl2 · Answer

maybe he has an addiction =[ get help asap

Anonymous · Answer

You married a scumbag. You deserve better.

mommymommymommy · Answer

You can look, but you can't touch

Why would my husband have the need/desire to look at other naked women on the computer? (Page 2)

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