Questions: Relationships
At what moment did you realize you were in a healthy relationship?
I don't feel we talk enough about that because, when one has been accustomed of being treated like crap... They remain in "survival" mode and meeting "nice" people feels like a trap. I ask this because I know I've...
Is this normal? What could it mean?
When we were in his dorm room, a guy friend of mine stood behind me (sitting) , caressed my hair down repeatedly, and massaged my shoulders and then gave me a neck massage out of nowhere then playfully put his palms...
Need advice !! please?
So, I have issues not putting myself in my boyfriends shoes when it comes to decision making. I always forget to do it like i act dumb. I hate it. or i do things that i know i wouldn’t be happy if he did it. i want it to...
Why I'm obsessed of my partner's past?
I have a strong anxiety lately.. and a urge to know everything about my partner's past. Everytime when I'm alone for a bit I feel scared of my thoughts and feelings I cannot relax at all. I feel I do not know him well, or...
Guys, what are things that make you feel like you’re not good enough for a woman?
A couple guys have told me that I deserve better and that they’re not good enough for me but I feel that’s bs. Because if they really felt that way they shouldn’t of tried talking to me to begin with. But some guys have...
Can a relationship skip the infatuation stage and work out without it?
That's the stage where it's about an intensive attraction and feeling you're on cloud 9. Then after that fades, if the relationship is meant to continue then it becomes mature love. However, can a relationship skip that...
He looked at my cousin’s FB?
I know I shouldn’t have done this, but I looked at my boyfriend’s computer history… And I saw that he was on FB recently and he had looked at my cousin’s Facebook profile. Mind you, he didn’t search her. It just indicated...
Guys, Do you think my boyfriend wants me to lose weight?
When we were making out he kept complimenting my body. I said he only said it because he wants to get in my pants. He then said of course, since it’s more pragmati than telling someone they should go to the gym. I then...
He got someone else pregnant and now he's begging me to take him back what do I do?
A year ago i had found out my boyfriend allegedly got a woman pregnant. He blocked her and we moved on with our own lives. Now, a year later, its another woman saying she's pregnant by him. Which he's saying he's not the...
AITA for refusing to go on a weekend trip because we got info fight?
The big plan was to go to our (me and my boyfriend) Hometown for a weekend. Our schedules don’t match so it happens very rarely. The trip is 3hours drive. bags were packed and everything was ready and we decided to take...
He told me ''I cheated'' when he was drunk but has denied it since, it's likely he cheated right?
My boyfriend of 3 years clearly said ''I did cheated. Just once though. think it was 8 months ago or so... just once, once''. He was hammered at that moment. Now he's denying it ever happened and that he says whatever BS...
Guys, hypothetical: (you have the perfect wife, who you adore.) what does this perfect wife do for you to show her affection? beyond basics?
Guys, hypothetical: (you have the perfect wife, who you adore.) what does this perfect wife do for you to show her affection? beyond basics? (I don't mean basics of cooking, cleaning, or s*x. I want to know the little...
My boyfriend threatens to break up with me whenever we fight. Is this normal?
He says implicit threats like if I am aware what am I doing with saying that or he will just go away and leave me. I am so tired of dealing with his threats. How can I solve this? Is this even normal? Sometimes I feel...
