He told me ''I cheated'' when he was drunk but has denied it since, it's likely he cheated right?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of 3 years clearly said ''I did cheated. Just once though. think it was 8 months ago or so... just once, once''. He was hammered at that moment.

Now he's denying it ever happened and that he says whatever BS when drunk. Is likely he cheated right? I'm thinking of leaving already. Should I treat this a truthful confession?

Yes, he did... time to ditch him.. drunks tell the truth

No, maybe he didn't.. drunks might not mean it

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Now he's saying what he told me while drunk it's not true at all, that he has no idea why he said all that but it's not true.

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I have no evidence, nothing at all. All I got is his drunken statement, that's all.

[DishLady]

If you're just looking for an excuse to leave... leave... Don't waste everyone's bandwidth here on the "cheated" thing. Don't stay with someone you don't want... don't look for excuses to make him the villain... Just do what you've got to do.

[Asker]

I'm not. This is what happened. He said that while he was drunk. I just broke up because it's likely he cheated.

[DishLady]

Ok... so then you've made your choice. Don't put yourself or him through any more. Just move on.

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the deep end, it sounds like your gut is sending you a signal wrapped in a red flag 🚩. Alcohol often loosens lips, revealing secrets hidden beneath. It's concerning that your boyfriend confessed to cheating while under the influence and now denies it entirely. Trust, once cracked, requires effort and transparency to mend. Reflect on whether this relationship still feels secure and fulfilling to you. If doubts persist, it might be healthier to love yourself first and reconsider the relationship. Trust your instincts—they're your emotional compass. Remember, you deserve honesty and loyalty in love. Keep sparkling! ✨

[avery58]

I think he did

[Asker]

yeah I just broke up. I don't think anyone would confessto something like that while drunk for no reason.

[jahaims]

I'd assume he cheated

[Asker]

Yes, sadly it did sounded like he really meant it. The statement was a bit detailed to be discarded as just a drunken slip of the tongue.

[Asker]

I guess no one would admit to someone like that when drunk just for nothing.