Search Results: did i mess up

I asked to define the relationship with a guy and he ghosted me after several months of dating. What did I do wrong and how do I get over this?

Hey guys. I had a bit of a friends with benefits situation with an old friend from college. We ran into each other at a reunion, and he asked me to get dinner with him. We had great chemistry. We were going on dates 2, 3...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

What’s on your agenda for this weekend?

Me personally is going to party it up today and have as much fun as possible , my buddy is coming over and we are going to drink and go bar hopping which I haven’t done in a long time. We are Going to try some new...

Finchie40

Master Age: 48

Is my fiancé looking at girls on insta or trying not to?

So I looked through his instagram last night (sorry don’t judge me please) not for any particular reason than to check it out. He doesn’t follow any naked girls or anything inappropriate and says he doesn’t desire to. And...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What Is The Best Way To Deal with a sister who is rude, and hurtful?

My sister has caused me a lot of hurt, and I feel like she never gets any consequences really for it. I feel like my parents don't do anything about it, even though she is so unkind. I always wanted to do music, and...

coxoabean

Xper 7 Age: 22

What makes men stop dressing up?

We have been together for more than 2 years, when we first got together or in our first date he was always dressed up so nicely, but now he changes. He look kinda mess, wearing shorts and T-shirt almost every time we...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Society & Politics

Is it normal for my employees to be angry that my golf buddy who doesn't work there is helping me out at work as a volunteer mgr?

I own my company. I inherited it. My friend Ted doesn't work there perse. I have him there for emotional support. My employees do not like him neither does my cousin who co owns it with me. Three of my employees...

Chadwes09

Xper 1 Age: 53

Is he courting me?

I recently unblocked a man’s number and Facebook account, after he sent me a friend request on a dating app that we both use. I told him I’d blocked him because I’d found some of his erratic behaviour made me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

G@G Community

Does anyone get annoyed when people answer questions but don't vote?

I create the poll so people vote it really annoys me when people don't vote but answer the question as it messes up my poll results.

MK1997

Xper 7 Age: 28

If you knew your friend’s man was bad news would you tell her?

My friend is dating a man that I once dated in the past. She doesn’t know he is my ex, and we broke up because he was violent and physically assaulted me. He brings me so many bad memories and PTSD. I remember the times...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Lowkey got mad and was rude to my bestie and now she’s ignoring me I don't know what to do?

So my bestie and I have been friends for over 2 years. We’ve stopped talking multiples times of months due to nonsense and either of us fkin up and once my ex caused issues. I felt bad so I did a surprise bday for her and...

Teaconfused_2023

Xper 2 Age: 22

Society & Politics

Learn to Stand On Your Own

Alright, everyone, I’m gonna have to break out the piano and play “Lifting Dreams” for this one. Just kidding. Although I write this as a Take it is something I’ve always done in real life and decided to share it here. So...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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I saw someone from my distant past it was quite surreal what should I do I about it should I tell his ex his daughter who has been looking for him?

He was my coworker. We were friends. I had a little crush on him but he never noticed me. He had a really bad substance abuse problem at the time. I am glad we didn't end up together. I don't want him or anything. I just...

triciahall144

Xper 1 Age: 43

What to do about mom and sister that have guests over after midnight?

My mom and sister always stay up all night and have guests over at all times. Sometimes they stay gone for hours at a time, and sleep during the day if they sleep at all. They are always needing money for cigarettes, they...

smahala1991

Editor Age: 35

Break Up & Divorce

It is unreasonable to want my wife to clean as she goes and get it done fast I am a neat freak she leaves a trail wherever she goes?

She's so messy and loud. She goes in the out door at the store. She doesn't make her bed. She doesn't double bag the garbage bags. Drives the cashier crazy because she can't do the self checkout. She always forgets which...

Peterpanpan675

Xper 1 Age: 61

Do you think I'm unreasonably petty or wrong over this?

So recently my roommate and my fiance made the decision that dogs are no longer aloud on the couch. With the statement the couch smells. For the record I bought the fluffing couch so I think whatever the fluff I say goes...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Was I too judgmental of my friend? Am I being controlling like she says?

My friend had a girlfriend but had a crush on a guy. She would constantly talk about him and ask me to read tarot on him. I told her I wasn't comfortable with encouraging that anymore. She also texted him and was...

Lalalove11

Xper 6 Age: 26

Valentine's Day

My ex randomly texted me?

So I’m ex and I have had a rollercoaster of a relationship it’s honestly embarrassing. He clearly has issues he was verbally and physically abusive. Both sides of our family know. He’s just a very insecure man but we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it weird to apologize for ghosting after about 6-8 months?

There’s a guy of no since middle school who transferred to a different high school and we now follow each other, and both are almost 30. Sometime last year we started texting and expressed interest in each other, and...

Anonymous

(25-29)