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3 mo

I texted a guy first and now I’m overthinking it—should I delete it?

Basically I messaged a guy something very neutral (I initiated). There was no funky business here. However I have zero clue about the etiquette would most guys assume that if a girl texted him first she is interested? He...
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Is this guy gaslighting me or just breadcrumbing after ghosting?

I met a guy in late 2024 on tinder and we went on two dates. Both were fun (1st was getting ice cream and going to a walking trail, 2nd was watching The Shining at his place and drinking frozen margaritas). We seemed to...
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3 mo

What should I do and talk about on a third date when I actually want something serious?

I usually lost interest after two. In the past, I dated for the wrong reasons, never went there for a relationship, I just proved something to myself and usually two dates were enough. These are dates with guys I found...
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3 mo

Why did he offer his cousin first, unfollow me, then shoot his shot later?

This guys DMs me and asks if I’m looking for a relationship because his cousin is looking. I said yes I’m open tell me more. He told me more and showed me a picture. I said sorry I’m not interested in him. He said okay...
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How can I tell if a guy genuinely likes me and not just wants sex?

I don't want to make this too long I'm starting dating again, I'm interested in someone I'm not into casual sex, at all. Also, I would never have sex in the first dates or anything. Also, I don't date two at the same time...
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Why do I feel no emotions or attraction to any guy anymore?

I’ve been depressed for few years. I’m almost 30 and never had a boyfriend. When I was younger I used to get butterflies & excited for any handsome guy. But even if I talk to a random guy per day, I feel nothing. I don’t...
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3 mo

Why does online dating feel so traumatizing and hopeless for me?

In 2024, I was tricked and led on by a guy who lied to me that he was interested in me for an ego boost. We long distanced for 4 months. He sent me loving texts daily and talked daily. I became so attached to him, that I...
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Why is my autistic guy friend acting weird after my big weight loss?

Or why would they sabotage them getting fit and in shape? My guy friend has been acting funny since I lost 80lbs and I got slimmer and in shape. He’s happy for me don’t get wrong but he said that I’m unapproachable...
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3 mo

Do women care if a guy starts dating late at 32 with no experience?

If he just recently learned a way to accept how he looks and is finally willing to get over approach anxiety at 32. The reason why I have no experience is because of avoiding showing interest. I avoided showing interest...
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3 mo

Am I destined to be single forever if men only want casual sex?

I’m 28 never had a boyfriend. I have attended a family function; never lived with a man, never had a guy hold my hand. Guys I met treat me bad, rude , aggressive, cocky, and just want use me. No one is clingy wants follow...
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3 mo

Why do I keep dating assholes, and how do I stop oversharing?

I'm not asking this for myself. I'm asking on YOUR behalf. You who are asking the same question as I did. I'm going to give you the advice a woman gave to me... Shut The Fuck Up!!! Stop giving them so much information...
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Has low self-confidence ever kept you from love, success or sharing your talents?

Around 10 years ago, I found a guy on Facebook I really liked, I thought he was a 10 out of 10, but I decided he would not be interested in somebody basic and plain like me and did not bother to message him or add him as...
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How can I firmly get a creepy coworker to leave me alone at work?

I always seem to attract freaks, sometimes I partly blame myself because im too polite and friendly in person and try not to judge others on face value. These men end up thinking because I was nice to them once there...
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Is my gym crush potentially interested in me back, or is it one sided and just in my head?

Straight to the point, I’m very attracted to a guy in the gym. We’ve never spoken and while I can’t say I have a huge crush on him because I don't know him, but I’m trying to interpret if he feels the attraction the same...
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Am I overthinking or my classmate become more distanced?

One guy, he always drives ma and my classmate home. But he never showed much interest in me. But sometimes he was sweet, we had “networking night” at uni. And he decided to stay for pizza and I always wanted to stay. I...
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Need brutal honesty on this gym crush situation because my brain is spiraling?

A few years ago I matched this guy on Bumble, but I killed it by constantly talking about how his friend rejected me (awkward af). We unmatched and never spoke again. Now, whenever I go to the gym he usually trains at...
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After crashing an ultralight and club drama, should I try flying again?

Back in the covid days I was interested in flying so my friend and I found an ultralight flight school in LA. I made the introduction flight and we drove out and flew with instructor. I liked it. We found an ultralight...
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3 mo

Life is boring when you’re not delusional anymore?

Life is so boring when you realise that your delusions are not true😭 like nobody actually likes you and there are no reason trying so hard communicating with someone who is not interested in you. And you feel like it’s...
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3 mo

Where would you rank North America, as far as cultural diversity goes?

I was thinking about this last night. Officially AFRICA has the most cultures, but I always thought ASIA offered the most cultural variety, but I was thinking last night, it might be North America. Maybe it depends what...
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Have you ever dealt with friends who are in silent competition with you?

Have you ever dealt with friends who are in silent competition with you? How did you notice? What is the best way to deal with friends like that? What did these friends do? Did they, for example? * Minimising your...
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Have you ever dealt with friends who are in silent competition with you? How did you notice? What is the best way to deal with friends like that? What did these friends do? Did Show More
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