3 Reasons Why Brazil Is More Sex-Positive Than America

[PleaseNoPineapples]

As a proud feminist who was raised in Brazil, I'd hesitate to call it a feminist country. Brazil? A feminist country? With its high level of gender inequality? Nonetheless, after moving to America, there's one way in which I can proudly declare that it's more feminist than America. And that's in being sex-positive (or at least more sex-positive than America). In this post, I'll go over 3 reasons why Brazil is more sex-positive than America and hopefully show why America should be the same way.

1. Showing skin isn't shamed upon

Have you been slut shamed for wearing short shorts? In Brazil, all girls wear short shorts, including little girls. I wore them. My mom wore them. All my friends and friends' moms wore them. Slut shaming a girl for wearing short shorts in Brazil is unheard of. Does slut shaming exist for other things? Of course. But if you're wearing short shorts or showing skin in another way, being slut shamed is one less thing you'll have to worry about.

2. Twerking isn't considered slutty

In Brazil, twerking is considered to be feminine, not slutty. After moving to America, I was surprised by how what's considered a feminine dance in Brazil is considered slutty in America. In Brazil, when I was still a preteen, I used to twerk for my brother's friends every day. What did my brother think? He thought it was funny that his friends were so obsessed with me. What did my parents think? They thought of it as harmless flirting between kids. But in America, I would've been considered a slut.

3. Grinding (freak dancing) isn't taboo

Does the thought of a couple grinding make you wanna shield your virgin eyes? Then Brazil isn't the place for you. In Brazil, everyone grinds. My parents saw me grinding with my ex-bf too many times to count. I've even seen my parents grind. But in America, it's considered to be an inappropriate dance.

[Klara-Hitler]

Meh. I prefer less sex-positive cultures. I won't be culturally enriched by a crime-ridden third-world country. Certainly not because of its loose sexual morals and glorification of promiscuity.

I prefer to export female scientists rather than porn stars.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

How would living in a more sex-positive culture harm you? It wouldn't benefit you but it wouldn't harm you, either. Do you get what I mean?

[Levin]

Sexuality is natural. It's a pretty valid remedy to over-intellectualisation/over-conceptualisation and being stuck in the mind (the Luciferic impulse). Porn is just sexuality warped, not sex.

[Klara-Hitler]

@Levin Natural =/= Good or beneficial. That is the age-old appeal to nature fallacy. We usually go beyond that (wrong) argument to discuss these issues in a civilized society. Especially since many things that keep our civilization sustainable, productive, attractive, and beneficial to people, are social constructs that limit (sometimes severely) our natural desires.

I personally am a very sexual woman. I also use my brain a lot. One reason sex and physical intimacy is almost a *need* for me rather than something to occasionally enjoy, is the feeling of alienation caused by my brain's obsession to over-conceptualize the world. I live in my own isolated little world of ideas if someone doesn't keep "poking" me out of it.

So what you say is something I personally understand. It’s not alien to me.

But this is something far more complex than this problem. It’s (beyond) over-simplistic to reduce this subject...

[Klara-Hitler]

... to our mind-body problem (that everyone doesn’t even experience to the same extent).

I don’t know if you’re actually interested in a discussion on this topic. It’s not that simple.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Since you have a high sex drive like I do, why do you prefer less sex-positive cultures?

[Levin]

Klara I have to say I'm a bit surprised by that argument because it's appeasing and pandering to conformity and the status quo. There is clearly a lot wrong in society, at a fundamental and structural level, so personally, I wouldn't be apologetic towards it. We're far from civilised.

Also, I don't believe in a false dichotomy, between intellectual endeavour, cultural development, progress, etc, and our 'base' instincts. There's nothing base about sex. You could argue it's a spiritual practice, in the right hands. In either case, there's no tension between the two. Healthy individuals pursue and enjoy both.

And the appeal to nature fallacy is only a fallacy because scientific materialist dawkinites and most of us now following in those footsteps reduce explaining human behaviour to animalistic terms. We're basically evolved animals and human behaviour can be explained thusly. Personally, a crock of shit I think, but to each their own. I honestly saw sex shaming in your answer

[ThisDudeHere]

Can't blame America for at least trying to uphold some sense of decency.

[levantine99]

only theoretically cause america is really depraved. its puritanism is only superficial and creates even more neurotic need for depravity... .

[MadManInBlueBox]

"Decency" is a relative term. Just because it might make you inch uncomfortable didn't make it bad. The funny thing about America is, especially in more religious sects, they like to imagine our morals are worse than they've ever been, but truth is, humans don't change. America can pretend to have some puritanical, "decent" values all it wants, but it's just a front.

[JuarezTheCurious]

Was that SUPPOSED to be an insult towards Brazil? If so, that was the worst insult I've ever heard, buddy. Really cheap and failed shot.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Do you have an actual argument for why Brazil being sex-positive is a bad thing?

[PleaseNoPineapples]

@levantine99 What do you mean by America being really depraved?

[ThisDudeHere]

Societies have a tendency to deteriorate the more sexual freedom they enjoy. Look at ancient Rome.

[Levin]

@levantine99 Good point, repression only leads to perversion. Anyone who claims to be 'decent' is nothing more than a hypocrite.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Correlation doesn't imply causation. Will you at least admit that there's nothing directly bad about short shorts, twerking, and grinding being socially accepted?

[ThisDudeHere]

Often correlation does imply causation and this I believe one such case. Look at the amount of successful marriages and and stable relationships dropping ever since the sexual revolution.

[villageidiot]

So the decline of ancient Rome was because of sex?

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Explain your theory. You're agreeing that short shorts, twerking, and grinding will become socially accepted in America like they are in Brazil, right? What next? How will that lead to less successful marriages?

[ThisDudeHere]

@villageidiot depravity played a major role in their cultural decline.

It won't lead to less successful marriages - it will play in with all of the other factors that will help lead to them.

[villageidiot]

I always thought it was corruption, military overspending, disfunction in the senate and political gravitation to the extreme right. Rome experienced periods of sexual repression as well as periods of excess. Their relevance to the state of the empire is inconclusive.

[BOUNTYGUY9]

@levantine99 you are very right in every word you say regarding the u s a l am from scotland x

[PleaseNoPineapples]

If you think that'll happen, then explain it! Imagine it's a few years from now and short shorts, twerking, and grinding have become socially accepted in America. What next? How will that play in with other factors that'll help lead to less successful marriages?

[BOUNTYGUY9]

well it will all take a very long time if it is going to happen all we can do is go out and meet up with some one we like and have sex and not bother what others have to say nothing wrong with wanting to have sex but change takes far to long so we have to do what we want from now onwards regards what any one else says edwin x

[BOUNTYGUY9]

@levantine99 all very true

[ThisDudeHere]

Look, you people have your beliefs about what you consider normal and acceptable and I have mine.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Why can't you explain your theory? Like I said, imagine it's a few years from now and short shorts, twerking, and grinding have become socially accepted in America. What happens next?

[levantine99]

PleaseNoPineapples the fact that the porn studios "break" with the overflowing amount of applications by extremely young girls ready to do ever perversion on the book for an extra buck shows that twerking and slut culture is only the superficial tip of a much more sinister iceberg.
@Levin
@BOUNTYGUY9 thank you guys, you agree only cause you have common sense. if you didn't you wouldn't

[dano65]

@levantine99 You're casting a wide net. Not all prudes or puritanical types are depraved. I don't see anything wrong with Brazilian liberal attitudes towards sex either. I want to visit there, go fishing, and meet some ladies. I think I will wait and see how the next elections go. It is up to Brazilians, but I hear that more of them want gun rights because of the high crime rates. If it becomes a safer country, one way or the other, I might visit. Hell I just might go anyway.

[levantine99]

@dano65 they are or want to become. cause puritanism is not true celibacy itis lust reversed. the same coin different side. the wets demonised the body with its puritan and neoplatonic views of it, and after the 70s i payed the prise with the complete outburst of the volcano that was ready to errupt. and now in the internet generation its only a downhill... .

[ThisDudeHere]

My whole gripe is with the direction that the West is heading in. I'm not saying that we should be as extremely prude on the outside as the Islamic world is, but we shouldn't continue to indulge in this sexual "liberation." It serves to dissolve the family unit by supporting promiscuity - tweaking, overly revealing clothes and the like are not promiscuous in and of themselves but they encourage that line of thought.

The Western civilization was at its strongest when it had the most robust family values and it is losing those now due to a plethora of factors and subfactors, among which are these immodest actions and choices on fashion.

[levantine99]

"The Western civilization was at its strongest when it had the most robust family values". true. a difference though is, that the opposite of slut culture isn't muslim puritanism or protestant puritanism. its plain spirituality who erases the roots of the problem. both other paradigms have their heads stuck in the same paradigm as lust is. the dont solve the problem they enhance it

[vald9inches]

@ThisDudeHere are you kidding man? look at every islamic fucking country they are more conservative than any society in the entire human race and they are the epitome of failure degenerence!

[PleaseNoPineapples]

@levantine99 What's wrong with girls choosing to become porn stars?

[PleaseNoPineapples]

@dano65 Do you think there's such thing as a country being too sex-positive?

[PleaseNoPineapples]

@ThisDudeHere I agree that people are becoming more promiscuous. But how will that lead to less successful marriages?

[villageidiot]

@levantine99 The US has more acts of sexual deviance than any other civilized society.

[vald9inches]

@villageidiot sexual deviance is subjective it everyone has a different definition or preference of what "normal" is

[villageidiot]

@vald9inches Rape (hetero and homo) pedophelia etc.

[vald9inches]

@villageidiot rape is not a preference in a partner and rape can be applied to all situations

[ThisDudeHere]

Promiscuity has been directly linked to failing relationships.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Don't you agree that correlation doesn't imply causation? How do you define promiscuous, anyway?

[vald9inches]

@ThisDudeHere lets say what your saying is true shouldn't people be allowed to make their own decisions about their own bodies and life without being judged for it? i mean why is other people's relationship your business?

[ThisDudeHere]

@vald9inches and here's where I differ from the standard conservative who does in fact want to tell you how to live. What I'm arguing for is not outlawing behaviour such as promiscuity or gay marriage and etc. I'm for not making it the norm the same way heterosexual managing should be.

If you sleep around, okay, sure, just don't encourage little girls or boys to do the same.
If you want to twerk, okay, sure, but just do it in appropriate places with no kids like clubs or house parties.

All I'm arguing for is making sure that people are raised with the most normal virtues so that the amount of deviant is kept to a minimum, not allowed to run rampart as it has.

[ThisDudeHere]

Heterosexual *monogamy

[ThisDudeHere]

*deviancy

[vald9inches]

@ThisDudeHere i can see your point but i still find the topic very subjective i dont see any harm in it as everyone is doing what makes them happy. even if it becomes the norm there are many countries and cultures that have been doing it for centuries and they have a very unique view of relationships and love and community as a whole and are thriving and have a rich culture and many are tourist destinations.

[ThisDudeHere]

@vald9inches except it was the west that was capable of coming out on top with it's virtues whereas now it is in decline coincidentally right when it abandoned them.

[levantine99]

@PleaseNoPineapples honey there is no communicating any explanations to you. you are completely secular to the core. you have no sense of morality and everything is justified for you. but just because i'm a self beating fool, i'llsay a few things. whats bad with girls becoming pornstars? other than the exploitation, the social stigma, the depression, the stds, the violence and the moral degeneration, yeah... i can't think of anything. as for whats deviance lets not open this chapter.

[levantine99]

as for how marriage is hurt. people who are promiscuous tend to break up much more easily. while virgins till marriage stay together for life. also promiscuous people are more likely to cheat. there are countless reasons why moral degrdation is a dentriment to the nuclear family.

[ThisDudeHere]

@levantine99 yeah but one does not have to be religious to hold these values. I'm secular myself but I believe current trends are detrimental to society.

[levantine99]

well, secular was an euphimism, i wanted to call her something else. and yes i agree, a rational and ethical secular can see through the detriments of moral degeneration no doubt.

[vald9inches]

@levantine99 stop being so naive and judgmental and believing stereotypes
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CJ1nEK7ylB4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zLYlBXMzt6w
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vc-n852sv3E

[ManwithaConran]

It doesn't. Stats show the USA has a much much higher divorce rate than Brazil. So maybe twerking is the key to a long and successful marriage... 😁😁😁
en.m.wikipedia.org/.../Divorce_demography

[vald9inches]

@ManwithaConran well said! well said indeed!!

[ManwithaConran]

@vald9inches Spread the word dude... spread the word...

[levantine99]

@vald9inches and stop trying to justify and rationalise your perverse passions. there are more compelling evidence for the depravity of the industry than its fairness. girls confessing they were approached by creepy agents at the tender age of 15 at school parties, screams recorded in studios where the girl was forced to finish a scence she didn't like, the agents selling girls like they are cattle and milking their youth out of them and then throw them like garbage. there is nothing humane or justifieable to this not matter how your mentally masturabte and sugar coat the facts.

[vald9inches]

@levantine99 you know what else milks our youth? minimum wage jobs, arm and a leg health care, arm and a leg education, practically every business transaction everyone tries to milk each other. nothing you do can sugar coat the world but we can all try our best with what we have got and enjoy our life instead of judging everyone such as you. what gives you the right to say what is wrong or what is right and judge other people that are just trying to live their lives without hurting anyone? did you even watch those videos i sent you?

[TrellTheRadical]

Good point

[PleaseNoPineapples]

@ThisDudeHere My friends and I used to twerk when we were kids. What's wrong with that?

[vald9inches]

@PleaseNoPineapples nothing is wrong with that. do you feel your life was ruined by twerking? lmfao

[PleaseNoPineapples]

@levantine99 What if I become a porn star? Do you think that'll make me a bad person?

[vald9inches]

@PleaseNoPineapples watch those videos i posted and here what porn stars and escorts have to say

[vald9inches]

Hear*

[PleaseNoPineapples]

@TrellTheRadical Who has a good point?

[levantine99]

No dear, it will make you a quitter. cause the way i was raised by my father, we hold in much higher esteem a girl who is hard working and poor. than one who sells her body for the big life. which she finally doesn't even get cause most girls quit in a year due to lack of good projects and agents, the working environment sucks (uwanted unwashed penishes etc), and you are exposed and can't find a job later.

[levantine99]

@vald9inches what a bunch of horseshite. comparing a hard earning job with pornstaring is like comparing oranges to apples. rotten apples. better getting your life sucked for the shake of capital, than sucking perverts' cocks to raise some easy capital.

[Levin]

@vald9inches I don't think that top video is a good advert for porn, most of those girls look dead behind the eyes. But I do kind of sympathise with your argument. I don't agree with being judgmental or professing to be morally superior. Each person has a story and a reason why they chose a particular path. I just think as soon as you start saying you're not this and that, and people are, then it just opens the gates for being a hypocrite. Few people work with their darkness in a genuinely positive way, rather than suppressing it and claiming to be wholesale good, which is just bollocks. Anyone who claims to be 'decent' really hasn't examined themselves very thoroughly.

[levantine99]

@Levin most girls are just lazy and spoilt. too few cases of girls who got into porn out of total and instant financial need. and yes, dead behind the eyes. good point. no human deserves to end up like that for the satisfaction of some perverts.

[Levin]

@levantine99 I can understand the notion of wanting to call a spade a spade, but I don't think viewing people as morally filthy and retrograde is helpful. Fyodor Dostoevsky — 'As a general rule, people, even the wicked, are much more naive and simple-hearted than we supposed. And we ourselves are, too.'

[villageidiot]

@vald9inches I think this called semantics

[PleaseNoPineapples]

@levantine99 I'm not planning to become a porn star but I've thought about trying stripping. Do you think that means I'll go to Hell?

[BOUNTYGUY9]

nope do you need a pimp lol x

[vald9inches]

@PleaseNoPineapples i miss you punk! 😭😭

[JuarezTheCurious]

@vald9inches I agree! She just left out of nowhere!

[ManwithaConran]

@JuarezTheCurious Nah, she's off for a shimmy and a twerk. She'll be back once her booty has been shook. 😂😂🤣🤣

[brennanhuff]

According to some survey, I don't know how true, but it went by the sex positions preferred based on contries around the world or something. I think it meant positions outside of the basic 3, that based on other countries were done. And the sex position of Brazil was the amazon position. I'm not from brazil and haven't been with a girl from brazil, but I just doubt it because while of seen the amazon position in porn whether porn stars or amateur couple sex. I don't recall ever seeing it actually in amateur porn or such out of curiosity when searching based on country on pornhub and such. Meanwhile I've seen said position performed on porn sites but white couples, black couples, japanese couples, even indian. It makes sense with india or even japanese as I believe it a kama sutra position in some guides. But wondered if you knew the positon or could clarify it that's actually a position known in brazil or if such survey was full of shit ha, because like I've said you'd think you'd see brazillian people doing it in porn if that were the case

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I love the Amazon position but I don't think it's more common in Brazil than in other countries. Do you even know what it is? It's a femdom position (I doubt it's common in any country). When I bring it up to guys, they usually don't wanna try it lol.

[brennanhuff]

yeah I do, I actually envisioned the position before it was known. Actually it was more reverse missionary I envisioned, though amazon position can look like revese missionary if it's kneeling amazong position. I was ahead of my time lol. I nevver had a name for it, but it was basically curiosity of flipping the male on top positions and a woman positioned more like the guy on top and thrusting more. So when I came across seeing the amazon position it was already similar to that vision, though I don't see the point of squatting like it often is. That seems more tiring and more prone to an accident as it does but a man's dick in a position to where it could be bent and since she's squatting, more likely to lose balance. I think the kneeling amazon is less tiring and easier than typical squatting amazon for both man and woman and reverse missionary easier too. It's stupid how there are like 4 positions all called reverse missionary that are nothing like each other ha.

[brennanhuff]

I think only the one I'm talking about should be called reverse missionary ha, because it literally is a role "reversed" version of missionary. But here's the survey I'm talking about.
www.womenshealthmag.com/.../hottest-sex-positions-from-around-the-world

You said sex is more free in Brazil, but it must've changed in recent times because from the same article talking about sex positions across the world and brazil doing the amazon position. Withing that article talking about Brazil this was written
"Why it’s hot: "Brazil has a very religious, conservative background, so we grow up learning that sex is wrong," says Olivia Barbosa, a sex coach in Brazil. "But I see more women finally focusing on their own pleasure and letting go of that taboo."

[brennanhuff]

actually it's not a survey, but an article, but I did see a similar one where they showed a percentage but I couldn't find it. I think it was from men's health, but this was women's health.

[brennanhuff]

It's interesting it's a femdom position though. Because missionary isn't seen as a really, inherently male dominant position. It's male dominant because it's on top, reverse missionary is just the reverse of that simply. It's more dominant than cowgirl I feel, but perhaps a sign of how people see sex positions and how it's done by men as more dominant so a woman doing a position that's similar to a male dominaint positon, it gets seen as extra dominaint or femdom. I said reverse missionary, but I often see amazon and reverse missionary as pretty similar sex positions.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Yeah, a lot of people in Brazil are religious. But it's still more sex-positive than America! Do you wanna try the Amazon position? Are you into femdom at all?

[brennanhuff]

It might sound like a contradiction, but I'm not into femdom, as what I've seen of it often. Where a dominatrix chick likes bosses dudes around or humiliates them, like I often think of it in the extreme sense or gross sense, or humiliation or where a dude dresses or acts feminine. Like none of that is appealing. What's appealing is a woman that's aggressive and dominant and like fuck your brains out. This being straight PIV and nothing but that. I believe femdom, when i said extreme, well that means pegging. I believe that goes with femdom too, which that's something I would never, ever do ha. But the thought of being "pussy-fucked" sounds hot for many different reasons. Do you know what reverse missionary position is or what I'm talking about with that?

[brennanhuff]

I'm not actually submissive as most dominant and submissive people may venture a little on either side but they predominatly have sex in dominant or submissive way if that's what they are. I'm more balanced, some call that a switch in bdsm, though I don't really do that or it's never been something that's intrigued me. I'd probably play a little wiht it if a girl I was with or in a relationship with wanted to do so stuff like that, but it would be for her and something I could deal with, but not something that specifically turns me on or want. But I'm more balanced. It's not completely even, but fairly even. I'd say I'm 60/40 as in me dominant, but as you see 40% is pretty close to even or a good part of submissive in that ratio

[brennanhuff]

As a result I kind of like girls who are kind of balanced like me too.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Why would you never do pegging? I've done it with a few guys.

[brennanhuff]

Are these the same guys who didn't want to do the amazon position, because that just wouldn't make sense. It seems like pegging would be the last step or biggest step a straight man would do with a woman, other than dressing like a chick. Because I have no desire of having, basically an "artifical dick" in my ass. I don't care that it's not and it's from a woman. I'm not one to say a man is literally gay, but I wonder if he's 100% straight and not a little bi curious if he has a dick like object up his ass and positioned like a woman is in doggy style. And also wonder that too because I feel a guy attracted to a transexual is at least a little bi. It makes me wonder if guys who liked to be pegged are turned on or would have sex with a transexual, because a transexual will look like a woman, boobs and everythijng else but have a dick. It feels like a woman is mimmicking a transexual with a dick like attachment to her, even though she's an actual woman

[brennanhuff]

I know a man has a prostate, but wouldn't women have dick like sex organs to go with their pussies if a man is to be attracted to something that resembles a dick. Men are attracted to the opposite which is why straight men like vaginas, innies, opposite of a penis. I'd think men would have a vagina like addition to their bodies for women or the reverse. You don't see dudes have a pocket pussy like attachment to them and instead of penetrating the woman, she wants him to rub his pocket pussy on her lol. I don't even know how gay guys even do it, it seems like it would be painful. I think most people have been constipated at some point in their life and that can hurt and that's just coming out for a split second. Meanwhile I'm sure a dick is harder than that and yet a gay dude is having something harder shoved in repeatedly. I don't care if there's lube or not, that seems painful too.

[brennanhuff]

The fact that even a ton of women aren't interested in anal, says a lot considering women are penatratees and despite that, many don't like anal or it can hurt women. Yes there are a good amount who don't mind or enjoy but a ton that don't. Obviously difference body parts and structurally different between a vagina of course and anus, but still it says a lot to me.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

No, I've pegged 3 guys and I also did the Amazon position with them. Why do you think women aren't interested in anal? I love anal. I think that's another cultural difference (most people in Brazil have done anal).

[brennanhuff]

You must have a higher pain tolerance. I've seen it on GAG with many women not wanting to do it or did it once and it hurt. Are women in Brazil more submissive too? I've heard guys say a woman is your bitch when you do anal, and like whatever you think of the vagina, I believe the anus is a submissive body part, it's pretty weak. I mean any body part that can hurt from shit coming out is weak. But that says a lot that a ton of women not interested in it, when women are the sex that gets penetrated and built accordingly and still many not interested. And many brazil have done anal, but is it regularly? Many women I've seen admit doing it, do it every once in a while, because it's not something they could handle doing regularly because of what I said of the body part.

[brennanhuff]

That bothers me, how it seems same dudes who want to be pegged do the amazon. That's not the point of the damn position. It's like it's their way of trying to be pegged or their fantasy rooted from pegging and seeing amazon the same or something. The point of reverse missionary and amazon is to have a woman thrust more, but you know her pussy, as women's asses are sexy and it's fun feeling them sexy glutes work in a more aggressive way, than simply the grinding way which is the usual way for most woman, legs apart, straddled on top positions. When her legs are in between, she's thrusting more up and down, which is why it's actually reverse missionary that I've been more interested in than amazon. You know what reverse missionary is?

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I love the reverse missionary position. No, it always hurts for me when I do anal but it also feels good (it's a weird feeling). I wouldn't say we're more submissive but we're more willing to be sexually submissive. Does that make sense? In Brazil, it's considered common sense that anal feels better to guys than vaginal. So, it's considered something every woman does but only as a gift for her man.

[brennanhuff]

Even though men have a prostate and they have pleasure from it, it seems like that should hurt a man being penetrated too. Though I guess the pleasure from prostate stimulation overrides it more maybe. People of brazil realize it feels better for men because they have a prostate, though like I said it must hurt men too. Does that mean more brazil men are more likely to experiment with a woman penetrating them too, since people know it feels better for men because of the prostate? I think women in america seem just as willing to be submissive as women in brazil, but just manifest differently. Like a lot of women in america try anal for same reason to please their men even though it's not something they like, though overall, more don't do anal than do and the ones who do, it's more every now and then. But like other things, like being cummed on or deep throating, American women seem just as much to do things to please the men and be submissive just less anal than women of brazil

[brennanhuff]

I mean the fact that 50 shades of grey, the book was written or popularized in America and the movies very popular in America says a lot. I'm sure the movie is screened in other parts of the world, but it seems like it's in America where it was really big and known and all the movies and stuff there, which the bdsm submissive fantasy of apparently many women and the female character apparenly is submissive in a bdsm relationship or something. You know what I mean with reverse missionary right? So many other positions are called it, but I don't think the name fits the descrition and the one I'm talking about should be the only position for reverse missionary and the other ones that were called it, named something else instead.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Why do you think being cummed on and deepthroating are about pleasing men? Every guy I've deepthroated says my normal blowjobs feel better! But I still love deepthroating because it turns me on.

[brennanhuff]

Because with porn and how men learn from porn. Some men try to deep throat as like a dominance or they think it feels better, and want to try it on their women. When the reality is a lot of women are not interested in that, but some do it because, like anal, to please their men. As it seems like deep throating would be uncomfortable, because people have a gag reflex go a reason and some may be fine or know how to handle it. But it can't feel good having a gag reflex and like you'd want to puke having a dick go far down one's throat. So in many cases women do it to please their men, and not because it feels good for them, or if anything it doesn't but they do it because they don't want to seem prude and want to please their man. Check GAG in the sexual behavior questions and you'll see a lot of women say they don't like deep throating or ask if it's fine to keep doing it even though its uncomfortable for them and their fuck friend is a d bag.

[brennanhuff]

Have more men been open to the reverse missionary that you've tried it with compared to amazon position or it was the same men who tried the amazon position with you, that you did reverse missionary with? I think reverse missionary is a little bit more mellow compared to amazon as a man's legs aren't as up in the air like amazon and why some guys probably aren't fond of it as they might think it's less manly to be like that or something.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I've only done the reverse missionary position with the same 3 guys I pegged. Would you agree to pegging if the girl really, really, really wanted to do it?

[brennanhuff]

lol No. It's kind of disheartening though that the same guys who liked to be pegged are the only ones who do amazon or reverse missionary. It's like these guys are trying to simulate being pegged or their desire from that is the same reason they like amazon or reverse missionary. When in my opinion or for me is it's just simply altering of positions. Like a man goes between a woman's legs and a woman straddles a man on top. And just thinking in the sense of,,, maybe her hump him between his legs. I mean cowgirl is upright, but often women will basically do what's cowgirl and ride but leaned forward and legs straddles or astride. Technically., the only difference really is, woman on top leaned forward like I said, that's sometimes called reverse missionary too like I said how multiple positions are called the same name. But all reverse missionary is, is with a woman on top leaned forward, it's just her legs when he's inside, moved in between his and his moved apart

[brennanhuff]

She's just humping him between his legs now, though that position provides more thrusting if she's positioned a little off of his body and he has his legs wrapped around her calves or body, but that doesn't even have to happen, but just his legs down and her between his. I never saw it as like some hidden meaning that it's a man wishing to be penetrated, since I know it might not be easy, but I always though, why can't a woman simply go between his legs and vice versa as nothing is inherent, but just social customs makes men set to have sex this way in the varios positon through PIV intercourse and interesting enough. With all the variations, they stay the course in that way, woman straddled, and man between woman's legs. But likewise, I read thought it's shallow penetration it supposedly provides or can provide a lot of clitoral stimulation for women. And that is what is called the cowboy position. Yes, it's basically like how cowgirl would look

[brennanhuff]

Man on top but instead of between the woman's legs, he's astride, but he can either be leaned forward or upright and thrust in and out. He'd have to be careful with his position as it might be an adjustment to not bend his dick a bit until he gets comfortable. But I guess it can feel really nice and tight for the guy too as the woman's legs are close together, so a nice squeeze, but can be beneficial for women too to go out of their comfort zone as like I've said, and what read about. As far as PIV sex, it might not be top but it's one of the top positions for clitoral stimulation for the woman. I feel innovatie sometimes as I've been curious about this stuff and said why not? Before they became known through porn and such ha. I not the first to think of the term "pussy-fucked", but I'm telling you, check back in 5 years and you might see that in urban dictionary when such positions get even more notice

[brennanhuff]

There hasn't been a name, but I won't be surprised, well I've seen it though extremely rare. But you can check back and be like someone said this before, if in 10 years from now when a standing amazon position or standing reverse missionary comes about and get shown and known like amazon position/and reverse missionary, though difficult. I have such thoughts even before I've seen that just like reverse missionary and amazon.

[brennanhuff]

by the way I do try to please and generally pretty open so if there's other stuff a woman wanted to do that I wasn't fond of, I'd probably do it. Though pegging, no, that's the very last thing I could think of along with gross excretion stuff and dressing like a chick, that some dudes apparently like to do, that I would not do. Whereas I might compromise with other stuff.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Why are you so against being pegged? I think every guy should be okay with it. It just changes the dynamic after the guy's been pegged.

[brennanhuff]

I explained why. What bothers me is the fact the dudes who liked to be pegged like the other positions, like they are the same thing when not at all in my opinion. It's like they have this mindset of wanting to be pegged or the other PIV ones set up to them to believe they are being pegged, when I said the concept shouldn't be that and just altering of the longs and allowing women to thrust more with their pussies and fucking not confined by leg arrangement, which it never needed to be, but despite all the kama sutra positions. Women are set in riding certain ways and men certain ways when I brought up the cowboy position. But explained why I'm set against pegging. If I was interested in a dick like object in me, I'd be attracted to men or transexuals, which is neither for me. Everything and all pussy for me and everything to do with sex is pussy related, no articial dicks near me. But a woman being aggresive with her Pussy can be sexy, but then I'm attracted to women thus vaginas, etc

[brennanhuff]

Ever heard of the cowboy positon like I described? Why does a man have to be pegged though? It seems like the amazon or revere missionary or cowboy positon changes the dynamic. I believe women can dominate with their pussies, though they might have to be a little more aggressive for it to work or such positions, which most woman on top don't often provide. But like revese missionary or amazon, a woman can change the dynamic to more "fuck" a guy, but the heterosexual way as it's PIV, but the dynamic is changed as unlike other positions, she can have the power of fucking with her pussy and pounding a man's dick. Why does a woman have to use an object to change the dynamic? That means women must not see their pussys as able to dominate a man, like I said, but when in reverse missionary it provides positioning to where she can thrust more and fuck a man with her pussy

[PleaseNoPineapples]

None of the 3 guys I pegged wanted to be pegged. But they let me because I really, really, really wanted to do it. In my experience, the reverse missionary position doesn't change the dynamic like pegging does. Don't you think being willing to be pegged shows that a guy's secure in his masculinity?

[brennanhuff]

Maybe, though I see a man trying reverse missionary and amazon position shows a man is secure in his masculinity, as it's seen as a role reverse position. And some people have it in their mind, for some reasons I assume just ingrained semantics, that men are to thrust more and fuck between a woman's legs and women are designated only and solely to fuck with legs straddle, apart and astride a man's. I would like to try and find amazon kneeling and reverse missionary positons as sexy. I feel the fact of me being interested in those positions shows masculine security as you wouldn't believe how many men (insecure men) feel a man having his legs up or even just a part desptie it being PIV sex, is beta, in the closet, or a bitch. I've seen comments on porn site with such positions by some men, while others who are secure find it really hot. As a straight man I'm not attracted to phallic objects it's just me feeling since I'm not attracted to men, thus opposed to dicks and anything

[brennanhuff]

and anything that mimmicks them or shaped and look like them. What made you want to peg men anyway? You wanted to give them pleasure because of their prostates or you actually like men's butts in such a way? A lot of women like guy's asses, but not in that way lol. Even though I'm straight this biased, it's hard for me to see how women could like doing that to a man, it just seems gross to me

[PleaseNoPineapples]

No, it had nothing to do with those 3 guys' butts or wanting to give them pleasure. It was about the dynamic. Have you checked out pegging porn? Look at the dynamic. Like you said, it's the last step in femdom.

[brennanhuff]

What a power dynamic? So you see your pussy as weak and not what you can dominat with then? Because when women feel that way with pegging, it means they need a dick like object to dominate a man, because their pussies can't do it. I've read women talking about the amazon position it made them feel strong and powerful and thus where pegging would not be needed to provide a dynamic of dominance and power they usually wouldn't get. And it's because most woman on top positions are more grinding based because of position and such whereas a man is positoned more submissive and she's able to pound him with her pussy, a role revesal, but dominate from her body not an artificial dick

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Yeah, the power dynamic outside of the bedroom. Pegging those 3 guys totally changed my relationship with them. No, it was about them (not about me). Being pegged is the ultimate submission for a man. Does that make sense?

[brennanhuff]

You said anal feels better for men than vaginal. I don't believe that. The anus is tighter, but just at the beginning part, it's open past the tight opening. And it depends on the woman, women can have tight pussies and then there's the contractions and walls. I had sex with a woman before fucking her anally, I didn't push it but she wanted it. There was a difference, but I didn't find it better and I've seen plenty of men comment that it's different but doesn't necessarily feel better. And also while it's a tigher hole, women who do kegels regularly, it might not be tight, but women can squeeze a man's dick and get pretty strong where it may not be as tight, but the contracting can feel a squeeze on the dick that anus can't. The vagina I belive is more tissue and muscle. I don't believe an anus can compare to a trained, strong kegel excercized pussy. The feeling is ridiculous with woman like that

[brennanhuff]

And no I've never watch pegging, but I've unfortunately come across thumbnails accidentally and why I hate femdom. When I was naive and looking for female dominance, I would type it in the search bar for like pornhub and such. And thinking it wouid be aggressive dominant woman riding men hard and like a "reverse bodice ripper" thing. But what I found was some extreme shit show up. Dudes like tortured, balls kicked, stomped ha, like extreme bdsm stuff, dudes humiliated and crawling around like they are slave and then well a woman with a strap on attached. Yeah I've never watched as I don't like watching missionary sex as it is because it shows too much of the man's body and more often his ass. I definitel have no desire seeing a man penetraed. So man's hairy butthole, and that nasty body part being penetrated. I find it interesting how their are straight guys I think who watch that. That would seem it shouild be very unpleasing to see and unsightly

[brennanhuff]

It is the ultimate submission because it's not something a guy is used to and a huge turn around, But amazon and reverse missionary are quite dominant too and puts a big spin on the dynamic too likek I explained because of how men and women typically fuck each other from PIV sex.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

That's the type of femdom I'm into. Why are you so against being dominated?

[brennanhuff]

I'm not. If a woman is fucking me amazon position, reverse missionary or standing up reverse missionary ( me against a wall would be hot "another role reversal") and pussy fucking/pounding my cock. And from the angle and pressure and slight bend, my dick might feel a little worn from it. I would feel dominanted. Women can to have that feeling, men don't want to and/or women don't like dominating often or not open minded in that way. But I feel that would be female dominant and would make me in a submissive state and like a sex object which could be a fun change up.

[brennanhuff]

But it's through sex and sex organ that I want to feel and involed with (pussy) and not a phallic object. I get the best of both world. Pussy but dominated at same time. It feels good to be dominated by women and body parts that are of the female body and you're attracted to, in that case her pussy. It's a change up as society doesn't think that way or like that can happen or women can dominate via PIV sex it seems or not comfortable with it as more men and women would be doing the amazon or reverse missionary sex position.

[brennanhuff]

by the way you said amazon is a femdom positon and that's another reason why femdom often annoys me, because it often has the stuff like I already explained I came across when naive with the thumbnails. But femdom actually as far as porn, rarely has the amazon sex position or even reverse missionary. Or standing stuff PIV. Like I know bdsm can often be a part of femdom, But to add dominane there couldd be bondage and a woma fucking the dude PIV amazon kneeling position or reverse missionary. It's often actually japanese porn ironically and some nacho vidal porn star, which is ironic too, because the rest of such porn scenes with him are of him being pretty rough and dominant. It should be more in femdom, but isn't. I dont know why more dominatrix or dominant women in porn or pornstars don't do that position more. I mean you can sometimes see woman riding a man cowgirl in femdom, but not amazon even though amazon is a hell lot more dominant PIV sex generally than cowgirl or similar positions

[brennanhuff]

So you don't think amazon or reverse missionary position is dominating a guy though? It may not be the dynamic like pegging, but it can be quite dominant, certainly more than typical woman on top positions. It depends on how aggressive and good the woman is able to thrust. But you don't think it's that dominant?

[PleaseNoPineapples]

The Amazon position and the reverse missionary position aren't as dominant as pegging. Can something really be that dominating if the guy enjoys it? What changed the power dynamic is that those 3 guys didn't enjoy it.

[brennanhuff]

So you feel if he's feeling a little pain with his pleasure from pegging, that makes it dominant? That makes sense in someway, is that what you mean? Or you mean they don't enjoy it because they feel humiliated from the positon and action and what is the turn on for them and you, this dominance you have other them and putting them in such vulnerable positon from it?

[PleaseNoPineapples]

It's more about the humiliation from getting the guy to agree to it than the pain he feels. Can you watch at least 1 Pornhub video of pegging? You'll get what I mean by the power dynamic.

[brennanhuff]

I think I can imagine the humiliation without seeing it. Though, there many guys where I could see amazon and reverse missionary feeling humilating to them too. Some men feel a man isn't to have his legs up and that's a woman thing or legs apart, so fucking a guy that you're able to get him to do that. Just like how the guys didn't want to do pegging. If you do that with such guys with amazon or reverse missionary. Like you said some guys didn't want to do amazon. But if you got them to do it, it would be dominating because they might feel humiliated too. And Since most guy's aren't that flexible, it wouldn't be all enjoyment as legs bent back when guys' aren't flexible so I could see simultameous pleasure but discomfort as same time. The guys you were wiith happened to not feel humiliated and it's understand that pegging would be more humiliating, but I think amazon and reverse missionary can be too. So yes pegging more dominant in that sense, but you can be dominant in amazon too

[DevilsAdvocator]

You forgot to mention the new addendum that's been added to the law books in Brazil, stipulating that the murder of any woman (or girl), will now automatically result in a jail sentence 3 years longer than the murder of any man (or boy). If that doesn't qualify Brazil as a feminist country; placing an inherently higher value upon females' lives than males' lives solely on the basis of their gender, and putting it into law that the murder of a woman is a more heinous crime than the murder of a man, then I don't know what else would. How does it feel to know that your right to life's worth more than that of any man in your country?

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Do you think I support that? Anti-feminists like you need to start coming up with better arguments.

[DevilsAdvocator]

If you can't take pride in feminist doctrines and laws, then you can't be a proud feminist.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

It's a stupid law but how is it feminist? Maybe if you're talking about radical feminism but I'm a sex-positive feminist.

[Margillard]

Because we still are so Victorian in our views that we still circumcise our males, cutting off up to 15 square inches of the most sensitive erogenous tissue off the penis leaving the rest to dry up and keratinize leaving sex for the male and his partner limited in pleasure.
Later on in life circumcision is the leading cause of ED.
So you see ladies,, Brazil and the rest of the world is having much better sex lives than you and why the girls in the UK and North American Anglosphere have to take romance holidays to Negri Jamaica, Puerto Vielo Costa Rica, Punta Cana Dominican, Kenya, Ghana, Gambia, Zanzibar, Brazil etc. 90% of white Anglosphere men have penises less tha 5.5"

[YourNextEX]

Your statement that "90% of white Anglosphere men have penises less than 5.5." is false. That is the average size, so its more like 50%.

And are you sure its 15 square inches that is being cut off? You make want to check your facts on that one, too.

[Margillard]

@YourNextEX You could google before you deny it, but I will do you a favor.
http://www.noharmm.org/snip.htm

[Margillard]

@YourNextEX
Here you can check what percintile you fall in.

http://howlongismyschlong.com

[Margillard]

@YourNextEX Did you know that 5.97 inches is about the 84th percentile penis size in the United States? ↗

[Margillard]

@YourNextEX A French Army Surgeon (1898/1972), a 30-year specialist in
genitourinary diseases} makes reference to numerous anatomical
distinctions which show a similar pattern of whites being between
blacks and Orientals. ... size of genitalia (Orientals smallest,
blacks largest). We averaged the ethnographic data on erect penis and
found the means to approximate: Orientals, 4 to 5.5 in. in length and
1.25 in. in diameter; Caucasians, 5.5 to 6 in. in length and 1.5 in.
in diameter; blacks, 6.25 to 8 in. in length and 2 in. in diameter."
(Rushton, J. P. & Bogaert, A. F. (1987) Race differences in sexual
behavior: Testing an evolutionary hypothesis. Journal Research in
Personality 21(4): pp. 536-7)

[Margillard]

Factor out the black guys and guess what... Houston we have a problem.

[Margillard]

www.blacktowhite.net/.../

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I agree about circumcision but you realize lots of women prefer cut dicks, right? My friend thinks it's weird that I prefer uncut dicks (they're just "manlier" to me).

[PleaseNoPineapples]

@YourNextEX Are you pro-circumcision?

[Margillard]

Beacause that is all you have ever tried. The rest of the world does not circumcised, just some third world countries.
sciencenordic.com/male-circumcision-leads-bad-sex-life

[Margillard]

Because that is all they have tried, I meant to say.

[Margillard]

For you circumcised guys this will help.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=XotOAbH9Rw0

[YourNextEX]

I have about as much interest in watching a 12 minute video about circumcision as you do about Christianity. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R9OGg6qPwTo

If you watch that, I'll watch yours.

[YourNextEX]

It says "In the average adult male, the length of foreskin from its base (marked by this circular line) to its tip is about 1� inches (4cm), while the circumference (distance around) is about 5 inches (13cm)." That is five inches. Don't believe everything you read on the internet. Try using some critical thinking. That article is trying to deceive you.

[YourNextEX]

Why do believe everything you read on the internet?

[YourNextEX]

Right, so the average, after factoring out the small percentage of Americans who are black and who are slightly larger is...5.5 inches.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Are you circumcised?

[PleaseNoPineapples]

@YourNextEX Are you pro-circumcision or not?

[Margillard]

@YourNextEX For me it is 2x6" and there are men much larger than me... but I'll bet you don't believe tha because you read it on the internet and not in the bible.

[YourNextEX]

So your girth is 6 inches?

[YourNextEX]

I think its a personal preference. It's fine for some people, not for others.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Are you circumcised or not?

[PleaseNoPineapples]

@YourNextEX Are you actually pro-circumcision? I mean if you support the circumcision of baby boys.

[YourNextEX]

Yeah, I am. How come?

[YourNextEX]

People who go to church actually have better sex. How can you disagree with a study?

www.peterhaas.org/.../

[Margillard]

@YourNextEX You strayed entirely off the topic and straight into theology. Go preach on a street corner somewhere.

[YourNextEX]

Isn't sexual satisfaction part of the topic?

[Margillard]

@YourNextEX Re-read the title the OP wrote.

[YourNextEX]

But you wrote "So you see ladies,, Brazil and the rest of the world is having much better sex lives than you." That is what I was replying to.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

@YourNextEX Do you mean yes, you're circumcised? Or yes, you're pro-circumcision?

[PleaseNoPineapples]

@Margillard You agree that America should be more sex-positive like Brazil, right?

[YourNextEX]

I think different sexual attitudes work for different people. I know religious people in the United States and I don't think they should change their attitudes. I know people who are very open here about sex and I don't think they should change their attitudes either. And I don't think Brazilians should change their attitudes either.

Yes, I am circumcised. I know some women who prefer that. It sounds like you don't. And that is okay, too! I am very accepting of cultural and personal differences.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

@YourNextEX Why do you think I prefer uncut dicks (besides them being "manlier")? Just curious about your guesses.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Slut shaming... like 'fat shaming', is just code for 'women shaming.' Nobody bats an eye at some dude getting made fun of for being fat. Whatever is socially acceptable is usually equivalent to what women find acceptable. Women's moral compases are shifting and so too will the social acceptability of women's concerns.

What's funny is most issues where 'shame' is used on women, are usually being propagated by other women. Shaming works well on beta men and women, but if your alpha... ain't nobody got time fo dat.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I'm against the shaming of both men and women. Were you assuming I'm not?

[GracefulCharm]

America is all about capitalism. Twerking is considered lower class because those in the upper class who are women, they don't need to twerk. If they are attractive, their wealth automatically puts them in environments where only upper class men can date them. Twerking originates from a dance move. If you study history. Those who are upper class will never dance like the lower class. In my opinion, the upper class have dances that are boring, too many rules a superficial movements which all feel pretentious.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

That's interesting! What are your personal thoughts on twerking? It's my favorite dance.

[GracefulCharm]

Twerking comes from street dancing. If you compare street dancing to something like performance dancing. Performance dancing comes from the upper class while street dancing comes from the lower class. Ballet which is a performance dance originates from the 15th century by a aristocrat who later became the Queen of France. Those who grew up in a culture with acceptance of dancing like ballet would consider something like twerking to be below them and call it slutty.

[GracefulCharm]

Twerking is a very seductive method. And yes it's effective on me.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Why do you think some guys don't like twerking?

[GracefulCharm]

I know for a fact if you were alone with a guy and you twerked just for him. He would enjoy that. Unless he's gay or just doesn't find you sexually attractive, those would be the only other reasons as to why he wouldn't like it.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

What about straight guys who say twerking isn't sexy to them? They're rare but I've met them.

[GracefulCharm]

They say that to you, so they stand out compared to other guys. They really want to impress you.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Do you have a specific type of twerking that you prefer? Just curious.

[GracefulCharm]

I didn't even know there was different types of twerking lol

[PleaseNoPineapples]

What do you think of when you think of twerking? What moves?

[GracefulCharm]

Whatever moves also makes parts of me move. lol

[PleaseNoPineapples]

What's your favorite twerk video? Post it! I wanna see what type of twerking makes you "move" lol.

[ObscuredBeyond]

Let's not forget that this same anything-goes Brazil had water so disgusting for the Olympic swimming pools that even the Chinese were grossed out.

Let's also not forget that some of the athletes found themselves living in a real-life reenactment of a bad episode of The Simpsons, proving that show's depiction of Brazil to be painfully accurate!

For a nation that degenerate, complete surrender to lust is par for the course.

[MadManInBlueBox]

Purple pretending to be better than someone else... Yup. That's adorable

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Do you have an actual argument for why Brazil being sex-positive is a bad thing?

[ObscuredBeyond]

What is the illegitimacy rate? The size of its prison population? Poverty levels? How many have STDs? How much marital strife over infidelity is there?

Miami is sex positive. And we have video games and TV shows about all the misery that leads to.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Correlation doesn't imply causation. Will you at least admit that there's nothing directly bad about short shorts, twerking, and grinding being socially accepted?

[NYCQuestions1976]

There's actually a saying about Brazil on the world/international stage:

"Brazil is the country of the future... and it always will be."

Basically eluding to the fact that for decades, Brazil has had the economic ability and opportunity to become a powerhouse in the world. However, the majority of the public would rather just do enough to get by and spend their time hanging out on the beach for the majority of their lives.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

As someone who loves the beach, is that necessarily a bad thing? Shouldn't the goal of life be to have fun? I think people put too much emphasis on making money and not enough on actually enjoying life. But that's just my opinion!

[NYCQuestions1976]

Well for individuals in a perfect world, sure. However, for an entire country to have that seemingly in-general blasé attitude, it can hold it back from creating better lives for its citizens. I'll give two examples:

Other than in 1994, the Brazilian national soccer team never lives up to predicted expectations. They're always losing matches to teams they have no business losing, in the most important and inopportune times.

When the Falkland Islands War between Argentina and Britain was taking place in 1982, Argentina asked Brazil, who were very close allies at the time, for supplies and financial support. Brazil's response was basically, "Uhh... no." Argentina was stunned, and wound up losing the war for the islands. Brazil and Argentina are still allies, but their relationship was strained for years and never really fully returned to what it was before 1982.

So I guess what I'm saying is, there's a time and place for being laid back, and a time and place for striving for more.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Does that have anything to do with being sex-positive, though?

[NYCQuestions1976]

Possibly, I suppose. Getting laid all the time could lead to being over complacent.

Now personally, I wouldn't mind being a little more complacent on a regular basis... 😉😂

[PleaseNoPineapples]

What exactly do you mean by being over complacent?

[NYCQuestions1976]

Well if you're distracted by getting laid all the time, it can lead to being really laid back and possibly not striving for other things or accomplishments. It's tough to generalize, because I'm sure everyone is different.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I get laid all the time lol (I'm enjoying the single life) but I don't see anything wrong with it. What's the point of life if not to have fun? Even work is about making more money so you can have more pleasure.

[NYCQuestions1976]

True, but there is the saying, "Too much of a good thing." Although personally I could definitely benefit from just a little more "fun". LOL

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I disagree that there can be too much of a good thing. When it comes to something you actually enjoy, isn't it obviously false?

[NYCQuestions1976]

Okay, how about eating way too much ice cream? Or driving way too fast all the time? Those are just two examples I thought of quickly...

On a side note, were you on the debate team in school? Or like me, have some Italian blood in you? You seem to like a good argument. 😉😂

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Yeah, I like debating lol. Those things have negative side effects if you do them a lot. What's the negative side effect of me having a lot of sex? I mean with one of my fuckbuddies (so don't bring up STDs). It wouldn't make sense for me to take a break for a few days just to "balance out" the pleasure, would it?

[NYCQuestions1976]

If you're leading a productive life, I guess you can have at it as much as possible.

Honestly, since my divorce, a fuckbuddy is exactly what I've been looking for. I'm a full-time single parent and I work full time so I don't have time for anything else.

So you're saying that you never need a break? I guess you're really good at bouncing back from a good pounding... LOL

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Do you mean you haven't had sex since your divorce? You said you don't have time but have you tried Tinder?

[NYCQuestions1976]

I've been with a few women since my divorce. After a while, they wanted more than sex, which I don't have time for, so they didn't last. I haven't been on Tinder either... though I've thought about trying it sometime. Why do you ask? Are you making yourself available? Does arguing turn you on? LOL!

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I love arguing but no, it doesn't turn me on lol. Why didn't you just tell those women you wanna stay fuckbuddies? I have lots of fuckbuddies.

[NYCQuestions1976]

I did, but they wanted more. So after a while, it didn't work out. Do you have the phone number of the girl in your picture? lol

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Is that your way of saying you don't find me attractive? :)

[NYCQuestions1976]

No way you're hot. I always assume women find me unattractive. 😉😂

[NYCQuestions1976]

By the way, you don't accept follows?

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I don't accept follows but I don't even know what they do lol. I'm flattered that you find me attractive (even though you're exactly twice my age)! Why do you always assume women find you unattractive?

[NYCQuestions1976]

Accepting a follow means any time you post a question or take, your followers will be notified to supply an answer. Same goes if you follow others.

Also my assumption on my attractiveness (or lack thereof) is based on years of experience. Why? Do you think differently?

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I think you'd look good if you shaved. What do you find attractive about me?

[NYCQuestions1976]

I'll shave when it gets warmer... but you'll probably be disappointed... 😂

You're a good-looking woman (nice face, nice ass) and you obviously can carry on a conversation and argument. Are you a psychology major? 😂

Does any of this even matter? We ain't going to be getting it on...

[PleaseNoPineapples]

What exactly do you like about my ass? And how does everyone keep guessing (correctly) that I'm a psychology major?

[NYCQuestions1976]

Well it appears to be "nice round ass" (which is great) and not "denim supported ass" (which is not great). Again, why does it matter?

You keep asking analyzing questions like this is your personal giant social experiment. It's a dead giveaway.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Yeah, I like finding out people's views on things. And debating them if I disagree lol. What's wrong with that? It matters because most guys who tell me I have a "nice round ass" aren't twice my age. :)

[NYCQuestions1976]

Well you asked what I thought and I was honest. Should I have lied? I also don't have girls half my age telling me I might be attractive under my beard. 😂😂😂

[PleaseNoPineapples]

If we were at a club, would you actually hit on me? Would you tell me I have a nice round ass? Or would you never do that because of the age difference? Just curious.

[NYCQuestions1976]

I don't know. I've never tried to hit on someone younger than me. I'd probably buy you a drink first and talk with you to see if you were interested.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Do you think I'd prefer it if you bought me a drink or straight up told me I have a nice round ass? What do you think goes through a girl's mind when you buy her a drink?

[NYCQuestions1976]

Every girl is different. You seem very open and straightforward so maybe I'd lead with the compliment before the drink. Of course, if you're already twerking or grinding, that's pretty much a dead giveaway. LOL

[PleaseNoPineapples]

My friends have agreed with me that indirect guys are a turnoff. You'd still buy me a drink? It doesn't seem like you understood what I meant lol. If I'm looking for a guy to marry, of course I want him to be a gentleman. But do you think I want the same type of guy when I'm at a club?

[NYCQuestions1976]

Well like I said, if we're in a club and you're already twerking and grinding, then I'll skip the drink and just say, "Nice ass." between songs... 😉😂

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Then what? I wanna see how good your game is lol.

[NYCQuestions1976]

Okay fine. Well since you're so forward thinking and sex-positive, after I tell you "nice ass", I'll grab you, make out with you, then ask, "So which one of my friends do you want to hook up with?" 😅😅😅😅😅😅

[Celtero]

Big whoop. Sure, the US goes a little overboard in censoring bad words and nudity, but grinding and twerking are no doubt of a sexual nature. Why not do that in private or a club? I don't need people dry humping each other in public, especially where children might be present to witness such acts.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

America goes WAY overboard in censoring nudity (not just a little overboard). I'm right in assuming you've never been to Brazil, right? Considering what you said about children being present, you'd definitely experience a culture shock! Not only did I see twerking and grinding as a child but I did them myself. And with the exception of grinding as a child (which my parents didn't know about), they were fine with it.

[Celtero]

Is there a lot of teen pregnancy in Brazil?

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Yes, but don't you think teen pregnancy has more to do with sex ed? Twerking and grinding as a child didn't harm me at all.

[Celtero]

Well, from what I've found Brazil in 2011 had a teen pregnancy rate of just under 20% while the US' was a bit more than 2%.

So If I ever want teen pregnancy to rise tenfold, I'll start agreeing with you.

[Celtero]

Kids are dumb as fuck, and even if they're taught proper sex ed they still are at a higher risk of becoming pregnant as a teen if they start engaging in sexual activity earlier.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Correlation doesn't imply causation. Is grinding really sexual activity? When I grinded as a child, actually having sex wasn't on my mind. I thought of sex as being completely different (and still do). Sex is a huge step up from just dry humping! Me and all my friends grinded as children but we never heard of anyone our age having sex.

[Celtero]

If a girl was to grind on me, I'd get a boner and she'd probably be able to feel my dick on her ass through our clothes... So I think it's a pretty sexual thing to do outside of a club or private setting. And you're saying it's not sexual? Grinding is basically simulating sex with your clothes on, so it's ridiculous to say it's not associated with sex.

I guess a better question for me to ask for us to come to an agreement is...

Where should it be socially acceptable to grind and twerk?
People already do it at parties and clubs. Where else would they need to do it?

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Of course grinding is sexual but calling it "sexual activity" seems like you're trying to compare it to actual sex. Well, in Brazil, it's socially acceptable to twerk and grind in public. What would be the harm if America became the same way?

[Celtero]

Where is public? At school or work? At the store? At a park?

[PleaseNoPineapples]

At a park (like during street parties). Do you think it's wrong that it's socially acceptable to twerk and grind in public in Brazil? If so, what's the harm?

[Celtero]

That's a party still...

Anyway, I kind of realized you never really had a point in the first place.

1. Showing skin isn't shamed. Girls wear short shorts and have exposed midriffs, shoulders, and backs all the time in the summer

2. People aren't desperate to twerk anywhere anyway. We don't need to. That's great that Brazilians spend their free time twerking at each other, but we have better things to do. If people want to show off here they take a video and post it to social media.

3. Again... Why would I want to grind anywhere other than a club or party scene? I don't need to, nor do I have the desire to.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

You showed how it wouldn't benefit you if it became socially acceptable to twerk and grind in public like it is in Brazil. So what? It wouldn't harm you, either. But it'd benefit people who wanna do those things. So, why are you against that?

[Celtero]

I don't think there's really any people who would want to do those things anywhere besides in private or at a party. So what I'm saying is... you're whole argument is a red herring.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

What do you even think my argument is? I'm arguing that it should be socially acceptable to twerk and grind at public parties like it is in Brazil. Your argument was that it shouldn't because children can see it, right? Like I said, my friends and I twerked and grinded as children but it didn't harm us.

[Celtero]

I mean, I think it's fuckin weird that your parents watched you twerk for your brother and his friends. Like... it's basically shaking your ass a ton... right? What do you think boys think about when they see that?

As far as I know people already twerk at parties if they feel inclined to do so. People just think twerking is sorta lame at this point, and it's kind of a meme. It's dumb, and uncool, and you may get made fun of. So why bother?

If Brazil is so much better, you must live there, right?

[PleaseNoPineapples]

No, I live in America now. Why do you think it's weird that my parents and brother watched me twerk for my brother's friends? I could argue that it's weird that it'd be considered awkward in America. My brother's friends were obviously turned on. What's your point?

[Celtero]

It's just that most people are uncomfortable with the sexualization of children.

It's so funny how South Americans always are so desperate to come to the US but once they get here they complain that it isn't enough like their home country.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Do you think that type of sexualization of children is wrong? In other words, do you think my parents were wrong to let me twerk for my brother's friends when I was a preteen? If so, what exactly was wrong about it? Don't just mention how most people are uncomfortable with it. What's actually wrong with it?

[Celtero]

Well, on one hand they wanted to watch their family member be sexual, and on another they wanted to watch a child be sexual.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Can you explain how those 2 things are actually wrong? Which one do you consider to be more wrong?

[Celtero]

Don't you think it's getting a bit close to sexual depravity?

You know... pedophilia and incest? Do I have to explain why those things are bad too?

[PleaseNoPineapples]

How can you compare me twerking for my brother's friends to pedophilia and incest?

[Celtero]

Only when your parents are watching.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

What was wrong with my parents watching? I don't get how you can compare them watching to pedophilia and incest. Like I said, they just thought of it as harmless flirting between kids.

[Celtero]

*sigh*

hold on...

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Why did you write "hold on"?

[Celtero]

Not too big of a sample size, hopefully more people will vote later...
Is it wrong if parents are willingly present and watch without objection while their preteen daughter twerks at her brother and his friends? ↗

Anyway... I agree that it's not really hurting anybody, but I, personally, still find it really weird and creepy.

Regardless, this isn't really a worthy issue to be talked about, perhaps you can find something new. Some prominent issues like child abuse, depression, big pharma and the opiate epidemic, healthcare, automation, free speech, the death penalty, homelessness and poverty, etc.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Of course Americans are gonna find it wrong (that's the whole point of my post)! It's funny that you find it creepy because I find it creepy that you're comparing it to incest and pedophilia. What are you really saying? That my dad was turned on by watching me twerk for my brother's friends? That's the only way what you're saying can make sense.

[Mi2mi2a]

As a person in a muslim country, I was amazed by the dress code at schools in America. I'm not saying we are here better. We have sexist rules too. But hell you won't be sent back home and waste valuable study time.

And leggings and shorts were almost not an issue.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Do you agree that there shouldn't even be dress codes at school?

[Mi2mi2a]

what I think would be the best solution is school uniforms. That way, it will be fair on both sides, while keeping on the morals until the kid is independant and more mature to choose and be responsible of its choices of dressing.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Since I think there shouldn't even be dress codes at school, I couldn't disagree more! But that doesn't mean we can't have a respectful discussion. Why not just let students wear whatever they want?

[Mi2mi2a]

Beccause as a kid, it's usually not what you want to wear but what other kids consider cool to wear. You would want to wear skimpy clothes because the 'queens' are, or droopy pants because that cool guy did.

Teen is a sensible age where you want to rebel to adults and follow the 'current' of youngsters, and as we said we are not responsible for our choices.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I wore skimpy clothes because I love showing off my body, not to copy other girls. Even if someone copies someone else's style, what's wrong with that?

[dipta]

I think samba, twerking or showing off some skin aren't really seen in the same sexual way in Brazil as they're in the US or other countries, so to be honest I don't agree with attaching these to being "sex-positive".
(As if people don't already have a distorted view on that...)

I will just say that, for instance, Brazilian girls can wear bikinis as tiny as they are, but you try to convince a Brazilian girl and an American girl to go topless and see who will do it first.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

My friends and I would go topless quicker than any American girl lol. Where did you hear that we're uptight about being topless?

[dipta]

I lived in Brazil myself and wouldn't go topless that quickly. I don't think my friends would either.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I think most girls wouldn't go topless quickly (except me and my friends lol) but I think a Brazilian girl is more likely to do it than an American girl. Why wouldn't you go topless, anyway? Just curious. Imagine a group of random guys saw you topless. Would you feel like something bad happened?

[sc15022]

Sounds like a great place to get my rocks off, not so much for actually living there. Feminism is a net detriment to society, so Brazilians will probably face the same social problems that we're facing soon. That's Hispanics for you though, we love dancing and seeing half-naked women act hot for us ;P

[PleaseNoPineapples]

It seems like you support sex-positive feminism. But then why are you anti-feminist?

[sc15022]

I'm supportive of women being able to act however they want, but they have to face the consequences of it without my tax dollars helping them at all.

I'm against feminism because it's done a lot of irreparable damage to the social contract between men and women. I'm also against feminism because it's female supremacy under the guise of egalitarianism. I'm against having my tax dollars going to the welfare state, which is an institution that breeds laziness and promotes women at the expense of men. I'm against a "philosophy" (for the lack of a better term) with so many obvious double standards that it borders on the point of parody. I could go on, believe me

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I'm a sex-positive feminist, not a radical feminist. More specifically, I'm a lipstick feminist. What are your thoughts on this article?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lipstick_feminism

[dano65]

What kind of feminism do you mean? Over half of modern feminists are authoritarians that consider just about anything sexist. You can't please them as they forever change the parameters in the most arbitrary and capricious manner possible.

[ManwithaConran]

I find it funny American media shows cleavage or arse (ass...) without a problem but has a pathological hatred or fear of nipples. They airbrush or pixellate nipples (or even more childishly, cover them up with some silly emoji).

My message to the planks who insist on doing this is : everyone has nipples, so grow up.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

So, you support the Free the Nipple campaign? What about public nudity?

[ManwithaConran]

I've never heard of a Free Nipple campaign. I've got 2 already so don't really need another one.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

What are your thoughts on this article?

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Free_the_Nipple_(campaign)

[ManwithaConran]

Good idea. I lived in France for a year and women don't care about going topless in France; in fact some of them can get a bit lairy if you tell them to cover up. For them it's the ultimate display of feminism to whip their tops off when the sun comes out. Takes a bit of getting used to though.

[Nik1hil]

Zil - a name given for someone that's too awesome to have the simple name of "Liz". Makes a super duper bestfriend.

and we All know what does "Bra" means..

so basically its representation for amazing boobies.
and nobody can hate those..
love BOOBIES
Love BRAZIL...

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Are boobs the 1st thing you think of when you think of Brazilian women? We're more known for our butts lol.

[Nik1hil]

when you think of Brazilian women- who said i was thinking about Brazilian women,
i was thinking about Brazil.
and when i think of it first thing that comes to my mind is the constellation design on the flag of the nation..

[Nik1hil]

But if you want me to go for your Butt then i will go for it..

NOM!.. NOM... delicious

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Lol are you actually into eating booty?

[Nik1hil]

Are you actually not into eating Pineapples?

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Yeah, I actually dislike pineapples. Are you gonna answer my question now? :)

[Nik1hil]

Well it depends only if the Girl is interested in getting eaten, it would not be my desire unless she enjoys it..

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Does that mean you wouldn't bring it up unless the girl brought it up? I think it's stupid that some guys won't do it (it feels amazing lol).

[Nik1hil]

She just needs to say it.. And if she is waxed then I am going in long and deep

[PleaseNoPineapples]

It's hotter if the guy actually wants to do it. What if she's not waxed?

[Nik1hil]

i have come across girls, online. who have told me they were to ticklish in butt to even be licked,
some said they wanted there exit the way it is, no licking, No anal.

so basically Yes Miss. Pineapples i would love to eat that Pineless booty of yours unless you are offended, I am into all sorts of crazy things.. even some taboo things..

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I'm flattered lol. What taboo things are you into? Have you done anal?

[Nik1hil]

i have done like nothing literally Not-a-thing.. but i know what i am into , what i am not into..

[PleaseNoPineapples]

What taboo things are you into?

[Nik1hil]

i am not saying that in public.. a whole bunch of them.. cannot make a list..

[Nik1hil]

Wanna know PM me.. lets discuss

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Why can't you say them in public? At least tell me 1 taboo thing that you're into!

[Nik1hil]

Sorry , you wanna know me , lets take in private, i am a guy does not me , i will not uncomfortable with things that i do not like.

[Nik1hil]

guy does not mean* , i will

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Then tell me in a PM!

[VikingWarLord]

I go to Brazil all the time for travel, and these Brazilian Latinas can't resist gringos with blond hair and blue eyes like me. If you're a Caucasian with light hair and light eyes, you'll get laid multiple times in one day if you want to. I love that shit !

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Do you really think it's because of your looks? I had lots of guy friends in Brazil who got laid multiple times in a day. It seems like you just experienced culture shock (Brazilian women are more comfortable with casual sex)! To us, it's just pleasure.

[VikingWarLord]

I travel all over the world, and especially Latin America. I get laid so easily in all the Latin American countries and they've told me that the women there is a fetish for gringos with blond hair and blue eyes like me. They have this superiority complex that whites are of higher sexual marketplace value. This isn't something secret.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Don't you think the culture in Brazil has at least a little bit to do with it? Like I said, we're more comfortable with casual sex.

[ManOnFire]

Brazil is a sexual culture. I don't agree with all their habits but that's how they are. I wouldn't call it being sexually positive. Just unashamed.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Being unashamed of sexuality is being sex-positive. What do you mean by not agreeing with our habits?

[ManOnFire]

That doesn't necessarily mean not being ashamed. In Australia Aborigine men beat their women. They're not doing it out of any positivity, it's because that's just how they are in their community even if it is bad.

Well, I know that Brazil embraces a lot of extra-sexuality beyond the norm, especially lesbianism, and gays, but lesbianism I notice in particular. And no, I honestly don't agree with very blatantly sexual displays and embracing it so hugely. I myself am a sensual person but not to those limits, and I still keep my activities private.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

There's nothing wrong with you not wanting to grind in public. But what about people like me who do? How does it make sense to say you don't agree with it? Why not just let people do what they want?

[ManOnFire]

Unless you're at some big party or sultry event like their thing called Carnivale, then no, you shouldn't be grinding in just any public place. You can maintain a private life and still have fun.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I've grinded in lots of public places lol. What type of public places are you thinking of?

[ManOnFire]

Some people like to do really kinky stuff like on busses, in alleys, store dressing rooms, etc.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I've done that but that's a different topic lol. Let's get back to what we were talking about (you think Brazilians grind too publicly). What's wrong with grinding at Carnival?

[ManOnFire]

No, I said if you ARE at an event like Carnivale and grinding then it's probably okay because it's a sensual event anyway. Just like if you were at a really hot nightclub. That's what these things were intended for.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

If you're fine with people grinding at Carnival, what did you mean by disagreeing with our "very blatantly sexual displays"?

[ManOnFire]

I'm talking about things I know of going in Brazil in general. Like stuff on the beach, stuff in your TV and movies. Very sexual stuff.

And I said I don't agree with all your HABITS.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

What do you mean by stuff on the beach and in TV/movies? Any examples?

[ManOnFire]

Well, I know in Brazil any kind of free sex is allowed on the beach. Hell, even monkey hands and other spells stuff can be sold there. And like with your TV and movies, your entertainment industry can push the envelope with what kind of sex they portray.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I've had sex on the beach but I wouldn't say it's allowed. What do you mean by the type of sex our TV and movies portray?

[ManOnFire]

Omg do I have to spell out everything? Lol. I mean the sex they show in their TV and movies might not necessarily be different from the sex in ours, it's just that yours might show more of it bordering on NC-17 or showing more nudity. Apparently it was worse in the 90s but I don't know.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

What's wrong with showing sex and nudity in TV and movies? And where did you hear that sex on the beach is allowed in Brazil? It's common but not allowed.

[ManOnFire]

It isn't always necessarily wrong, but it's about the degree you take it to. TV and movies show scenes of somebody sitting on the toilet sometimes, but would you want to see them actually pushing out a shit or hearing it? Assuming you're not into that. Seeing them on the toilet is basic, but the personal details are far from necessary.

It may not be allowed but it certainly isn't being apprehended either. People in the U. S. fuck on the beach too but I'm thinking what goes on en las playas de Brazil es a lot more X-rated.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

That's a horrible analogy because people actually do wanna see sex and nudity in more detail. Why do you think porn exists?

[ManOnFire]

Right. But in the appropriate places and situations. Porn is made just for that so that's appropriate.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

If a show or movie is already sexual, what's wrong with being really explicit in the sex scenes? I don't see how it's inappropriate.

[ManOnFire]

For a sexual movie, maybe. But not for movies not even really about sex and only have a few sex scenes.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

If a movie already has a few sex scenes (even if it's not really about sex), I think it's appropriate for the sex scenes to be really explicit. Do you have any examples of TV shows or movies in which you thought the sex scenes were inappropriate? People say Game of Thrones sex scenes are too explicit but I think they're not explicit enough.

[MadManInBlueBox]

Hispanic/Latin American people are generally more sex-driven and open than America. The United States likes to pretend a we're better because we hide pour sexual repression better. To the point college jocks rape underage girls, or of-age girls, and get away with it. Yes, we are soooo much better, guys...(sarcasm font)

[Jackblue]

Americans are more sexually repressed than Latin Americans, I wish I could believe that.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Aren't all people very sex-driven? The difference is that in Brazil, people are more open about it.

[Jackblue]

Well I guess all men at least are sex driven, but I have trouble believing that Latin Americans are more open about it then we are. Again I wish I could say that were true.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

@Jackblue Don't you think women are also sex driven? We like sex as much as men do (if not more)!

[MadManInBlueBox]

@Jackblue It's not as obvious or rampant, and maybe repressed wasn't the right word, but Americans like to pretend they know what true morality is, and there's really no such thing. A bare ass shows up on prime time tv, suddenly Peele want CEOs heads to sit on a pike.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

What do you think should or shouldn't be allowed on prime time TV? Just curious.

[MadManInBlueBox]

First I'm not suggesting anything to be "allowed" per se, but there are worse things than nudity and sex. Way more natural than blasting up a joint with guns. Just saying.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Doesn't saying there are "worse" things than nudity and sex imply that nudity and sex are bad? That's why I'm curious about what you think shouldn't be allowed on prime time TV.

[MadManInBlueBox]

It could imply that, but allow me to set the record straight: There is nothing wrong with nudity and sex.

[Philyouup]

I don't think ANYONE thinks America is more sex positive that most countries, Hell people freak out over breast feeding! WTF! Feeding a child is sexually dirty to them... England threw all its religious wack a doodles here in the 17th and 18th centuries and it shows up in today's sexual attitudes in america.

Good post!

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I was focusing more on sexuality than nudity but you're right! Do you think there's such thing as a country being too sex-positive, though?

[Philyouup]

Its subjective to the society of the country, in that respect though, we can be considered TOO Sex positive, because of a lot of uptight right winged religious people. I myself think that by being sexually repressed, we make more freaks and over sexualize things that should not be.. Like breast feeding.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Do you agree that all countries should be 100% sex-positive? I don't see how any sexual repression is a good thing.

[Philyouup]

I agree. Totally. But responsibility and respect should be the guiding force in that mindset

[PleaseNoPineapples]

What exactly do you mean by responsibility and respect? Safe sex?

[Philyouup]

if we are going to be a "Sex Positive" society, then one needs to take positive steps in relation to that "Sex positiveness"
Sex gets a bad rap, or the people who are irresponsible give it a bad rap.. but if we respect each other and particularly our sex partners, and treat them with the respect we would demand from other for ourselves , the slut shaming and stereo types of loose woman and guys with loose morals should diminish. Responsibility? If we all were responsible adults, STD transmissions would lessen , as would unwanted pregnancies. Real sex education would make for smarter choices.. Eventually attitudes would change and over all sexual repressive attitudes would finally start to disappear.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I agree about sex ed! How far do you think it should go? Showing actual videos of sex?

[Philyouup]

I think "educational Porn" would be to far.. to distracting and counter productive, and Parents do have to have some say.. and unfortunately that's where it all falls apart.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Why do you think educational porn would be too far? Norway uses educational porn for sex ed. Do you think that's wrong?

[LegateLanius]

The US has been rather steadily growing more liberal in regard to the issues you mention - the evidence of such would be readily apparent if you'd lived here these past several decades.
The Protestant Reformation among other things advocated a modest life - adherence to a simple and rather stern and very modest dress code. Several of our early colonies were not intended to be secular but were in fact theocracies.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Yeah, it's good that America has been becoming more sex-positive. Do you think it'll ever be as sex-positive as Brazil?

[LegateLanius]

That I can not be certain of. The thing about cultures and other developments are that they move in mysterious ways sometimes.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

What do you mean by cultures moving in mysterious ways? I think all cultures are becoming more sex-positive.

[LegateLanius]

Sometimes they go backwards. That's what I mean.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Do you mean cultures becoming less sex-positive? Why do you think that happens? Isn't it always due to religion?

[LegateLanius]

Religion by itself does not mean sexual conservatism.
Irrational beliefs are not dependent on each other and are not mutually exclusive. There is no reason that a society could not simultaneously reject the god hypothesis while accepting (what we may view as) irrational views on sex. Humans have an uncanny ability to hold several incompatible beliefs in their minds at once and fail to see the problem. Laws are formed by people, and if they think something (like two men being married) is wrong for whatever reason then they may pass or maintain a law that confirms their belief.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Do you think there's such thing as a country being too sex-positive?

[Kiran04]

If you ask me, the US is too "sex positive". Sex shouldn't be viewed so casually. It is a risky act, much more so for women than men, which is why historically women have had to be the most conservative voices. That was born of necessity, not fragility or oppression. It still is a risky act today, we just like to pretend it's not to be "politically correct".

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Sex is viewed even more casually in Brazil (and that's a good thing). What do you mean by sex being a risky act? Every fun thing has risks but you won't have any fun if you don't take any risks!

[BOUNTYGUY9]

god you are fantastic we are both thinking the same things l have never come a girl like you in my life you know what you want l am the same but its been all locked up in my mind god l wish to unlock it all there is nothing wrong with sex its the people that are wrong saying you should not do this or that why not just let us be free and have as much sex and loving as we want it takes two to tango god l need a girl after all of this kind of talk help l am in the mood for lots of fun edwin xx

[Kiran04]

@PleaseNoPineapples STDs and pregnancy, and there's plenty of fun to be had without incurring such unnecessary stupidity. It's not that sex shouldn't be enjoyed, but more so that people should wait until they're committed to one another before engaging in it. Once you decide to have a real relationship you can fuck all you want, but these days people just fuck anything that moves.

[PleaseNoPineapples]

Does that mean you look down on me for having had lots of 1-night stands?

[hemadesouza]

I did not know Freedom to twerk and Grinding is what feminism stands for. I think you have a very different approach to it and I don't blame or judge you, we all have our perspectives :)

[PleaseNoPineapples]

I guess you're not a sex-positive feminist like I am. Of course feminism isn't only about twerking and grinding but don't you think us having sexual freedom is important?