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I would defend myself.
However, the law doesn't see it that way.
The law still thinks women are weak and should be protected at all times.
That's clearly not the case if they attack me but I can't change the law.
All i can say if a women hit me i would have no problem hitting her back.
You can fight back to defend yourself and your property from aggressors. Provocation is not a defence.
Freaking preach. If you're gonna hit someone, regardless of if you're a man or woman, be prepared for them to use self-defense. Double standards are so stupid.
Hell yea. Some men are stupid for not filing charges.
Do you realize that, as a man, if you file charges against a woman for physical assault, people will mock and ridicule you and cops might not even believe you or do something?
We don't file charges because we're never taken seriously.
they are right, most male cases of domestic abuse where the woman is the abuser are completely ignored by the law
Not that it should necessarily prevent men from filing charges, but I recall watching an episode of Live PD: Women on Patrol, and the host of the show said the sentence for a man hitting a woman in the State of South Carolina is more severe than the sentence for a woman hitting a man. I am not sure about male on male domestic violence. Granted, it's one example, and I don't know how much of a difference there is in the sentencing guidelines for male against female violence vs. female against male violence, but just knowing that information is discomforting regardless of what the actual numbers are.
@BlahBlehBluh I don't remember the exact figures but, on average, women have lighter prison sentences than men for the same crimes.
@YHL6965 I'm guessing you are thinking of that study from Michigan University, if I recall correctly. I think the summary was something like women receiving on average 65% or about 2/3 the sentence men would for the same crime.
Generally speaking, no I don't think men should hit women even if they are being physically aggressive. The exception to that is if there's an immediate danger of VERY serious bodily harm either to yourself or to someone else.
So if a girl is physically assaulting you you can fight back? girls are capable of seriously damaging guys with punches
I wouldn't fight back as in hit her, unless I'm in serious danger (or if she was threatening someone else with violence). To defend myself I'd be fine with grappling her to physically restrain her until she calms down, but I wouldn't strike her unless the situation was very dire.
to completely grapple someone to the point to where you are restraining them and they can't fight back at all you would be putting a lot of stress on their joints
Some. It really depends on the strength differential. The bigger the differential, the easier it would be to restrain them without risking much damage. If she were particularly large and aggressive, it would be much harder to do for sure.
There is a female trainer in the gym i work in 5foot even, She beat a man so badly he had to go to the hospital for a broken nose, jaw, cheek bone several bruised bones and the dude was a 6'3 muscle head.
how tf you gonna be able to tell strength of someone like that? wait my god YOU HAVE A SCOUTER!!! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q3mgUcaGg1E
LOL! Yeah--you have to assess what you're up against. It's pretty uncommon to be randomly attacked. But regardless, you need to judge what you're up against by what's happening.
In a perfect world, I think the goal should be no physical violence, not "equal" physical violence. Of course, we aren't perfect.
This isn't a mytake on equal violence its a mytake on defending yourself against an attacking women
Our species unfortunately relies on violence to survive. That's the nature of any meat-eating animals and even some herbivores.
@Burgerboy21 thats the nature of all living animals not just meat eating, Rabbits beat each other to death, Goats bash each other to death, Monkeys kill each other etc
The one time my wife hit me, I clubbed her like a baby harp seal. "How'd that work out for you? I strongly advise you NOT to try that again."
If a woman assaults me, she will be treated the same as a male assailant.
Doubly so if she is an obvious leftard loon, such as a Feminist or Antifa.
Anyone who doesn't fight back against some of the women in Manchester are pretty much, dead.
I agree. No one gets to hit me and walk away unpunished.
First off, what you're defining in your description are female supremacists, NOT femnists. Get your terms straight.
Otherwise it's a pretty good take.
l would never lift my hand to a girl no matter what if she hit me l walk away l can't stand any male hitting on a girl
so if i walk up to you and start hitting you with a crow bar you will allow this and not fight for your life like an idiot?
l would take the crow bar of you and send you on your way its very rare for some one to attack someone with a crow bar
@RIVERTAY888 you'd be surprised who would attack using whatever means... if an angry person man or woman saw something they would use it...
knives are popular, crowbars, bats, even iron bars and objects from people's gardens or whatever laying about...
defending yourself in a controlled manner and using reasonable force is not hitting on a girl it is using your head and doing what is right... if someone attacks you and they are using a weapon are you that confident in your ability to simply "take the weapon from them"
cos in my experience unless you know the attacker extremely well then you cannot honestly say you would know their capability with whatever they are wielding... and going for the weapon would guarantee you far more injuries than you would imagine... but to defend against the person, and their attacks you would need to use some force to be able to disarm them... which means you would need to "hit a girl"
@SjE78 l would use my taser that l have been trained to use they would get the shock of there life
@RIVERTAY888 good point but what if they have a heart condition or a pacemaker? a taser would be too much of a lethal option to use... also not everyone has access to those... (which also worth noting for arguments sake, that no one in the UK has access to them... legally...)
so it could be more harmful than than using physical force to subdue
however self defence is self defence but be aware whatever you bring to a situation can easily and most likely be used against you
@SjE78 Very true and some one with a heart condition or a pacemaker should not bring there attention to the police?
@RIVERTAY888 true, tbh in my experience in dealing with the many incidents over the years no situation is ever played out how we'd expect... i learned long ago and before i began training, that we can have an idea of what we'd do in any given situation but the best way to deal with it is never plan, never expect anything while being open and prepared for everything...
any incident I always assume they are armed... so reading people is a must, their mannerism's and how they conduct themselves can be the most useful tool in a successful defence. also defusing a situation before it has time to escalate can be more effective and successful than a method which can result in violence...
however with that being said, there are those out there who thrive off confrontation, who want a violent incident so much that they cannot be convinced to back down...
for those the best defence is to let them commit to their attack then react
@SjE78 Very true take it at one case at a time?
@RIVERTAY888
exactly, when i was inexperienced i used to run through scenarios of what would happen in that case... I learned the hard way that you can only prepare for what may or may not happen... for example you can prepare for something to go wrong but not how... as each situation is different it needs to be dealt with on the spot... react not think, prepare for the worst and hope for the best...
but if you can diffuse a situation then it is always best to do so :)
@SjE78 To diffuse is the best way forward?
@RIVERTAY888 it can be... each situation is like a powder keg, some people who are worked up are looking for any excuse to do so... but some are looking for a way out, any excuse not to go full on into a situation they are unsure of the outcome...
I found that keeping calm, no aggression while they are being such, can put them into a "confused" state, so much I've had people get right in my face, I remained calm smiled... and spoke as calm as possible, to them it triggers self doubt in their choices, I mean if you were ranting and being aggressive towards someone, getting right up in their face... and all they did was remain calm... would you doubt any potential success of aggressive move towards that person? I've had people do this and while some will out right have something to prove, and will attack.. the majority will back down as they would be more concerned with why you are calm or confident.
this was the case many years back when someone held a.22 match air pistol to my temple.. and a few years later when i was held at knife point... and several times since...
however I was jumped while on my way to working nights many years ago...
after the crack heads who tried to attack me, stopped to figure out why i was so confident and calm.. it played out a different way. I thought i'd managed to diffuse the situation but they were too high on crack and clocked me around the back of the head with a 4 foot wood gate post.. instinct kicked in and i managed to block the main attack to the face but the hit to the back of the head knocked my vision out of focus, pretty much fighting blind if it wasn't for the severe blurry image i saw... by this point i had been training over 10 years
and it kicked in.. but as i said the damage was done with the hit to the back of the head.
the strike to the front was a lucky block... as the nail grazed my forehead. had i not blocked i would have di
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Learn Judo and drop that bitch!!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OWW2pr04JUYAhh I'll just put her over my knee and spank that little piglet.
Hell yea you guys' been asking for equality, get ready for an eye for an eye
Yes, of course it is. If you're going to shoot at me, don't act surprised when I return fire, regardless of who or what you are.
Every individual has the right to defend themselves. It's better to have to explain things to 12 people than to be carried off by 6!
I don't care who or what attacks me.. I 100% reserve the right to defend myself and ANYTHING that says otherwise can suck my dick.
I’ve never had a girl want to fight me. Only in high school and it was because they liked me, so it’s never really happened to me.