Having a "crush" makes me feel insecure and doubtful?

[Anonymous]

Has anyone else felt this way before? I feel like when i "like" a girl, i doubt myself more and such. Also if the girl doesn't give me attention as much or something then i start doubting everything and would assume that she isn't interested even though she might be.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes girls are shy I know I am! Just smile at her and try to talk to her, I feel the same and I even feel the same way you feel even when I'm pretty sure my crush likes me back.
Has she given you any signs that she might be interested in you?
I act like I don't like my crush because I get very shy especially if I feel other people are watching us.
Just keep smiling and making eye contact and if you can talk to her!
Good luck!

[Asker]

We smile across the room with each other while talking with our friends. Like we would continually glance at each other and smile back and forth while in conversations with our friends.. it's happened multiple times but i feel like maybe she's just friendly or something?

[Opinion Owner]

Just keep doing that :) try to talk to her too you will get a better sense of what she's thinking.
Once you get to talk to her you could get her number and or just ask to hang out! The trick is to feel comfortable around each other, I know easy said then done but as you guys talk things will start to get comfortable and then you say wanna hand out.
Ask lots of questions and compliment her, she'll get the idea eventually.
Good luck ;)

[Asker]

Haha, thanks I'll do that (:

[dipta]

I know exactly how you feel! Like someone else already mentioned, I guess it's because in this case you really care about what they think of you and you don't want to mess up...

That's why I've a hard time understanding why many people only go for very confident types... I feel these are bound to be the ones who don't care so much about you and any small thing is likely to turn into a deal breaker for them.

[findingdreamland]

I think it is quite normal since you feel more vulnerable around that girl. You want to be liked , loved ; you want to be impress her. You are afraid not to be felt as you feel.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like everyday confidence issues.

[Asker]

I actually feel quite confident around other girls.

[Opinion Owner]

So what? It's still a confidence issue.

[Asker]

I asked if anyone felt that way around the girl they "liked" not with other girls.

[Anonymous]

I hate having crushes they are awful because of the reasons above. I think it has to do with the fact that now you care how they feel to you now.

[OnceUponADream143]

Yes. Everytime I have a crush.