The reason I ask is because I'm confused. I support gay rights, including gay marriage and I don't care if my friends are gay and have boyfriends as long as they're not over the top about it. But I don't like it when gay men act very stereotypically gay. I can't stand the diva, drama queen, catty or bitchy behavior that SOME gay men exhibit. I was at a gay acquaintance's birthday party once.. A lot of the gay men were frolicking around, with the "You go girl!" attitude and some were puckered (that's the best way I can describe it) with an over sexual "I want to get f**d tonight walk and way of talking. It made me kind of sick. So does that make me homophobic?