Whay do you think of a modest girl?

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Was just wondering, is a girls modesty important?
Like in my opinion, I believe women should be very modest, in the way they talk, walk, dress... I get turned off when i see a girl acting slutty, wearing trampy clothes... Basically a girl in my opinion has to be classy. What do you people say? Share with me 😄😄😄

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Fie, fie! unknit that threatening unkind brow,
And dart not scornful glances from those eyes,
To wound thy lord, thy king, thy governor:
It blots thy beauty as frosts do bite the meads,
Confounds thy fame as whirlwinds shake fair buds,
And in no sense is meet or amiable.
A woman moved is like a fountain troubled,
Muddy, ill-seeming, thick, bereft of beauty;
And while it is so, none so dry or thirsty
Will deign to sip or touch one drop of it.
Thy husband is thy lord, thy life, thy keeper,
Thy head, thy sovereign; one that cares for thee,
And for thy maintenance commits his body
To painful labour both by sea and land,
To watch the night in storms, the day in cold,
Whilst thou liest warm at home, secure and safe;
And craves no other tribute at thy hands
But love, fair looks and true obedience;
Too little payment for so great a debt.
Such duty as the subject owes the prince
Even such a woman oweth to her husband;
And when she is froward, peevish, sullen, sour,
And not obedient to his honest will,
What is she but a foul contending rebel
And graceless traitor to her loving lord?
I am ashamed that women are so simple
To offer war where they should kneel for peace;
Or seek for rule, supremacy and sway,
When they are bound to serve, love and obey.
Why are our bodies soft and weak and smooth,
Unapt to toil and trouble in the world,
But that our soft conditions and our hearts
Should well agree with our external parts?
Come, come, you froward and unable worms!
My mind hath been as big as one of yours,
My heart as great, my reason haply more,
To bandy word for word and frown for frown;
But now I see our lances are but straws,
Our strength as weak, our weakness past compare,
That seeming to be most which we indeed least are.
Then vail your stomachs, for it is no boot,
And place your hands below your husband's foot:
In token of which duty, if he please,
My hand is ready; may it do him ease.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Each to their own. Its a woman's choice how she dresses and behaves. Its a man's choice how he dresses and behaves. A girl being modest does not determine her character or personality - she could look demure and be a right nasty bitch who secretly sends nudes and believes in sex, drugs and rock n roll. Looks can be deceiving.

candyaurora · Accepted Answer

I hate the trashy look made popular by the Kardashians and other actresses nowadays.. in my opinion a girl should be classy and elegant. A guy should also be a gentleman in order to deserve such a girl then.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Why Should? I look like very modesty. It's my preference but i'd be pissed off if someone like you thinks that girls whould be like me.  Slutty? I don't think so they don't sell their body lol

UnknownReflection · Accepted Answer

It is important to me. Both genders must be modest and classy. The elements you have mentioned reflects the character.
Talking: Polite and clean language is very important to me. Unless the environment desires it, it be appropriate for the switch and it be friendly enough to swallow the concept.
Walking: Everyone's got one style and we can't say which is right. But shallow walking, slipping yourself all over others and such examples are not suit in my opinion.
Dressing: It says a lot about someone's character generally but everyone come with different preferences and also considering financial capability. I just mention it to make sure i am fairly balancing my point.

However, the most important point is to recognize how we define both terms "Modesty" and "Slutty" as well as "Class". I assume there would be many definitions according to individual's belief and ideologies.

Dressing covers up everything at one point all by itself. The way you dress also speaks out and find an impact on your walking view and style.
In compare of what you've said, this is my separation of preference:

My liking:

https://i.imgur.com/yPiLRcM.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/Nh0e8fS.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/tvDoYqj.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/rNENliK.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/cxoH5F2.jpg

My disliking:

https://i.imgur.com/Og2xPmw.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/Ldlv8QO.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/omdfpbn.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/gzJcL4E.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/taHG7Sg.jpg

ThisDudeHere · Accepted Answer

Everything within reason. Modesty is fine and most guys would want a modest SO. But in bed... there's no denying that in bed they'd want something close to a whore.
Hypocritical, yes, but it is what it is.

JimRSmith · Answer

That's because how it is in your culture. It's not that way in plenty of other cultures, and we're fine with that, thanks.

capturemyheartnow · Answer

Girls growing up today want to be objectified by boys. They want to look and act like vixens. Boys grow up with the idea that women are only good for sex and exploitation. Women are considered as sexual objects and men as hunters of sexual conquest.----This idea is promoted by rap songs and society has come to unconsciously accept it. Even women's magazines promote the concept that guy is after sex and she has got to dress "SEXY" to get a good man. This extreme idea is extremely wrong. Women should dress modestly. "SEXY" clothes will get a man's attention. But these men will want to "USE" women sexually rather than love them for who they are. So women should exercise virtue and wear modest clothes. Women should strive to get a men to love them from the "INSIDE". Most women want to be loved and respected for who they are inside. They want to be loved by a sincere , pure , virtuous man. who is confident , disciplined and committed to your relationship. MODESTY means that women demand FAIRNESS---Women demand respect from men , insisting that they value who they are from the INSIDE. So women should cultivate integrity , vital personality and strong character, dress modestly to show that they value their body as a sign of purity. That she has a reverence for her body and her immortal soul. This shows their thoughtfulness , inner strength and high self esteem. It also shows that they have a pure heart and a generous desire to save themselves as pure for a future spouse. Men benefit when women practice modesty in thoughts , words and actions.

Yumix · Answer

Like you said... it should be classy. That is more often than not a more modest look, but doesn't necessarily need to be like that. As long as it doesn't look too trashy/trampy I don't mind either way.

Other than that, pretty much what ThisDudeHere said

Dim1213 · Answer

Amen sister a woman needs to show that she had confidence and respects herself and an easy and attractive way is for her to be modest at least in how she dresses. Give me a woman in a lovely skirt and top over a woman in micro shorts and a tank top any day.
If a woman shows up to a date looking classy she goes way up if she just comes in her tomboy tiny school clothes then I doubt well last long unless she has a great personality.

Bandit74 · Answer

I mean I don't want her to look like a nun, but I do like a girl who dresses somewhat modesty. I would love for her to wear skimpy lingerie in private tho.

As far as swearing, I want her to curse a little bit so I don't feel like an ass for being the only one in the relationship who curses, but I don't want every other word out of her mouth to be a curse word.

Also its kinda cute to hear a girl swear when she has a sweet feminine sounding voice.

singlebee · Answer

Yea I like modest girls... You are very beautiful by the way!! :-)

SoWhAt249 · Answer

I don't mind a girl being open and acting more like a man. If I fall in love with her, I will love her, however she is... But, yes I think that modesty is more attractive and pleasent to be around...

Anonymous · Answer

It doesn't bother me at all. Whatever she is comfortable doing. Whatever comes to her naturally, she needn't fake her behaviour. I have a question, do you like men with shaved chest and legs if they are very hairy?

Levin · Answer

Modesty and understatement is fine. Prudishness is not. Also, personally I don't like trying to degrade people like that.

martyfellow · Answer

I'm all agog over a rare modest girl. Giggles when you pinch her, that's the right way.

Mesonfielde · Answer

Interaction is easier with girls who aren't bitchy or slutty, typically anyways.

gobsmacked3 · Answer

Modesty applies to all sexes- no one likes a show off or worse a try hard wannabe

echoaj · Answer

I personally don't care. Maybe a girl just likes short dresses. I don't judge women based on their clothing, but of the content of their character. That's my opinion.

Decentguy · Answer

i always prefer a modest girl for a serious committed relationship and for marriage also

Anonymous · Answer

wow you are so beautiful, please message me, just followed you:)

BronzedAdonis · Answer

Each to their own but you seem like a supercilious, judgmental prude.

MakingMeHiiiigh · Answer

I like modesty. But people show modesty in different ways

BCRanger10 · Answer

I admire and appreciate it.

SwolDishWasher · Answer

Its hot, but i do prefer a girl who maintains herself. A sloot will be fun for a night, but a modest girl will keep me around.

victor__creed · Answer

everyone lives differently , a girl can be anything she wants... but main thing is self respect...

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