Do you agree that a true man should have no problem raising another man's child?

[Anonymous]

If my girlfriend got pregnant with another man's baby I would proudly raise the child because that's what a true man would do.

Yes

No

[MrMysteryMan]

That's a bullsh_t pic by the way, toward this subject.

But, I'd feel like crap if another man impregnated my girl. I mean even cheating is really harsh, but actually keeping his child too? I'd really be questioning how much love and respect she has at all for me. Why not go for that other guy and leave me out of it, since you cared so much to get some other guy juicing in your womb. And then act like, "ah well, my man will take care of it." You are pretty presumptuous and it would feel like you were treating me like the backup instead of the one you love. Yeah, I'd have to be pretty in love with her and there would have to be some certain extenuating circumstances for why I am the backup father for you and the man you were with's child. But, hey, I'm not a monster. I love kids. So...

[InfoBot]

It's a decision that you make for yourself as to whether you actually want to raise a baby that you had nothing to do with and there is no reason why you should. A true man takes care of his own responsibilities, he doesn't have to take care of everyone else's. Being a man doesn't mean being a charity.

[Prettygurl12]

If your girlfriend got pregnant with another man's child WHILE she was your girlfriend, a real man would kick her ass to the curb like the low class two bit skank that she was.

Now, if there is a pre-existing child prior to a relationship being had... a real man ought to accept that the kid comes with the girlfriend and take on a parental role with said child.

[juicyjessie]

Cannot add to this! Right on!

[TacosRAwesome]

What she said.

[Fire_Fly]

Well I think it depends if she got pregnant before you or after.

If it was before I don’t see anything wrong with it.

If it was after you two got together then no it’s not okay because she shouldn’t have cheated on you, you don’t deserve that

[AzureGirl]

A true man would get out of a relationship with an obvious cheater and find someone better.

[Cammy137]

Well I don't want kids of my own so there's definitely no way id raise someone elses

[MzAsh]

I️ respect any man that steps up to the plate.

[Synttacks]

While I feel any man (or woman) that does should deserve some respect (unless being a cuckold in which case that's just them and this should be treated as if it is their child) it does not make them any more or less of a man (or woman) in my opinion. On the flip side no single parent should expect another to take care of their child.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

If this question were about raising another man's child in the sense that the kid was born BEFORE you came into the picture.. I would see some precedence for your point (assuming the woman in question has GENUINE feelings of attraction/commitment to you).

But the way you word this question makes it sound like she cheated on you. Personally, if a "true man" needs to be willing to raise the result of an affair against him...
fuck being a "true man."

See ya, slut.

[Dchrls78104]

Sorry, I do not agree. Making such decisions has nothing to do with manor the lack thereof, but merely on the degree of your attachment to the woman and/or the child. That said, if you found your girlfriend pregnant for another guy, the status of your relationship might be up for debate...

[Dchrls78104]

*manliness or*

[jackyboyo]

Depends on the situation, if my girlfriend cheated and got pregnant then no, but that's not because of the child, that's because I was betrayed and can't trust her.
If I liked someone and they were pregnant or already had a child and single then yes

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

All children deserve a father, and biology has nothing to do with it.

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

I also didn't read the part about her getting pregnant with another man's baby. I was thinking more along the lines of getting into a relationship with a single mother and/or having a mixed family.

So, I stand by my statement, with the caveat that I don't know if I'd tolerate being in a relationship with a cheater.

[Fitness-Fanatic]

No. A real man is a father who takes full responsibility of his own child, instead of allowing another man to take on his parental responsibility.

[Aquamarin21]

I could understand anyone who does not want to raise someone else's child. A patchwork family is never easy.

[YHL6965]

No, I want children that came out of me. One of the reasons I want to have children is to spread my genome, which doesn't happen if I raise a child that isn't mine.

[USA1960]

Your usage of the term " True Man " is designed to cause guilt of some sort. While I did help to raise a step daughter, I was, and am a "True Man" regardless.

[Anonymous]

Uh, no.

I can imagine being single, dating someone else with kids, and acting as a parent to those kids.

But that's different from being cheated on and doing it.

[Anonymous]

sounds more like the talk of a true fool hahahah... but kudos to the guy who does take on such a responsibility.

[Josht13]

more like a nu-man, miss me with that shit I don't want to be literally cucked.

[gGreat]

That's ridiculous. Raising a child costs money and is a commitment. Never take such responsibility begrudgingly.

[jacquesvol]

The real father is the MAN who raises the kid, not the guy who ejaculates.

[RedThread]

Wait so your girlfriend cheated on you in this hypothetical scenario?

[Anonymous]

the way you put it if your girlfriend got pregnant by someone else that means she cheated on you. i would not raise any kid from some trifling heifer that cheats on me.
if i married a girl with a kid then its different

[Opinion Owner]

im not a simp

[kenjaminSlutton718]

A real man skeeters inside patty mayonnaise and raises his own

[Dfgrkcficf]

Only an idiot would raise the child of cheater. He ain't trueman he is moron