What to say to your girlfriend is she doesn't want to put relationship status on facebook? (Page 2)
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I think at this rate, people will no longer be socializing at all with other people face to face in a few years. I mean seriously, your almost taking what she says on facebook more seriously than what she would tell you and how she'd act around you face-to-face...
Actually how ahe broadcasts the relationship to the world is most important. These chics lie all the time.
well do you have a facebook? if so you should change your status to single and that way it will say " Anonymous- went from "being in a relationship" to "single" and she will see that and if she asks why just say "Well yours says single too, so I didn't want people to think were wierd!" then maybe she will want you both to change it! ha good luck to you keep us posted!
Yeah if the status wasn't a big deal to her then she would just hide it but if it says single? then why don't she change it? you don't have to reveal your status if its no ones business while still giving him the satisfaction! :) hope this helps!
Have you asked her why she doesn't want to change her relationship status or told her that it really upsets you? Maybe she just doesn't want to advertise it or doesn't think relationship statuses on facebook are a big deal. Talk to her about it. Although, if this is the only reason you have to doubt how she views your relationship, I wouldn't worry about it too much.
Yeah if the status wasn't a big deal to her then she would just hide it but if it says single? then why don't she change it? you don't have to reveal your status if its no ones business while still giving him the satisfaction!
I wouldn't worry about it. I mean my boyfriend had the same problem until I explained to him that I just don't want everyone in my business. The only people who need to know about my relationship and what's going on in it are the people who matter to me, therefore our relationship doesn't need to be on facebook.
its nothing to worry about I placed on my profile that I was a widow and my boyfriend almost had a fit, its not like am ashamed of him or anything but I don't want people in my business. we both know about each other and people that are close to us know as well.
If I were you I'd be p*ssed too. Ask her friends as to why she would do something like that if your girl won't give you a reason or give a good one. Just come right out and say to her that your p*ssed off about it. Its not like she'll punch you if you ask. It does seem like she's embarrassed.
It's facebook, it shouldn't matter. Once you start living life through facebook, it engulfs you and causes you to become insecure, fake and full of paranoia.
I totally agree. FB can be the root of some evil fo sho.
The only girl who had a problem with putting up her relationship status on facebook, turned out to be the only girl who cheated on me.
If she's not putting it up; something is up.
But rather than nag at her about it, just start paying less attention to her, start seeing other people, and if she asks why or gets angry; tell her strait-up; look, we're not in a relationship, we're both single, so we can do w/e we want to do.
It doesn't really matter. Why do you want it to be in facebook anyway? It's not like facebook will make the relationship official. I wouldn't put my relationship status on facebook because there would be too many questions, oh and because I have my parents in facebook...and they are not aloud to know ;)
Just put yourself as single on face book, If it doesn't matter at all like all the girls say she wouldn't react, if she reacts you have a problem.
Don't get angry about it, say you were just playing with the site like her.
Some persons like to keep options open (good ideea lol)
well. some girls just don't like sharing everything online. Because they don't feel like geting bothered, and geting asked so many questions, it starts to make them think, oh what's going on here, so in life they know their dating their boyfriends, but just some aren't comfortable to put it all online.
but they're comfortable putting an insane amount of status updates and posting pictures of herself and probably every other bit of information? I don't think so...she's just denying him...
It just means she does not think of you as "the one".. which means she might not be your "the one" either. Keep moving forward in the relationship, until you become her "the one", or either of you find who that person is.
Good Luck,
James
I agree with you James...except about suggesting that he should "put forth more effort". Women like pursuing men...they like challenge. I got a bad feeling that she using him as a placeholder. Not fair. He should withdrawal from her to really find what her interest level is.
Hi Chadwick. I do not disagree with you, but also consider that some people fall in love in a moment, and others grow into it. I think a lot of relationships start off on different pages and end up together with time. I am not sure where this couple is, but it is hard to know if he should move on based on her lack of willingness to share with the world that he is her "the one". She might be hiding it from her parents, or an ex-boyfriend who is a stalker, or a number of other reasons.
The reasons she didn't change her status below may be true. They are very legit reasons as well. However she should have EXPLAINED TO HIM why she hasn't changed her status a long time ago. She hasn't done that.
This sound like some college deal this kid is going through. Maybe they have only started dating....who knows. But this kid might be in for a world of hurt and I'm just trying to him suggestions to prevent that. I think he likes her too much to be thinking clearly.
Him liking her too much... :-) We have all been there brother. I see your point and agree.
this has a simple solution
1 grab your balls
2 man up
3 tell her how you feel
4 if she doesn't comply or give a good enough rebutle then you should keep insisting she tell you how she really feel cause she might just be embarresed about you
Just start seeing other people, because this girl is not that into you..
If you are prepared to tell everyone about her and she is not, there lies the problem...
Next time try to find a girl who is more than willing to change her facebook page..
If facebook is apart of her life that does mean that she's "attention whoring" if your in a relationship with anyone you need to be able to say it loud and proud, keeping it hidden in any media proves that she's not as loyal as you would want, or that her feelings aren't as strong as they need to be for a healthy relationship.
Try telling her directly, if that doesn't work, start fake flirting with whomever. when she gets p*ssed at you point out the hypocrisy.
try to invite her in a relationship with you. then if she doesn't approve it in a couple of days since she uses fb a lot remind her that hey I invited you as my girlfriend in fb. might want to approve it. then see how she reacts. :)
omg facebook is gay. don't let it get to you! if shedoenst who cares she will soon! maybe she issnt ready yet!
My girls the same too, I never undersood why? When I confronted her she basically didn't want her family and ex's finding out, or at least that's what she's told me. I don't think your the problem, I just think she's maybe a bit shy about who may find out about your relationship. I found it hard to understand at first, but she reassured me that she loves me and isn't embarrassed at all. Just she gets lot's of sh*t from her ex's. I think you should confront her because there's something up.
Thats what my girl said. I interpret that as a girl saying she's ashamed of the relationship.
Urrgh I had this problem with my ex! Confront her, because she's hiding something!
Why on earth does it matter? A relationship it between the two of you, not the whole of facebook