Being charming certainly helps but it is also true that white men have a tremendous amount of social status in East and South East Asia. It's important to note that there are differences from one country to another but I can definitely see a trend (and I know this because I'm married to a Korean woman and have lived in South Korea).
I'm less of an expert on South East Asia but I would assume in places like the Philippines or Thailand it's probably a mix of two things: being white and being rich. The second feature is true in two different ways: it is true in a literal way, as you are much richer than the locals. However, it is also true in the minds of the locals because for them, whiteness is equal to financial affluence.
So in countries like these two, many young women probably do feel very attracted to white guys in a sexual way but they also know that white boyfriends are a great asset to have. Either to lead a better life or perhaps even to emigrate to another (richer) country.
In countries such as Laos or even Myanmar, where the local lifestyle is much more "original" and undisturbed by western tourism and business, I assume that women are more genuinely intrigued in white guys, with much less of a financial interest. You're just very exotic to them, just how they are exotic to us.
Girls in east asia are like others. They really can fall in love and sometimes not. It's just life like anywhere in the world.
Yeah because they think you’ve got money and can take them to a richer country. A lot of them are former prostitutes. There are a lot of south east Asian women here in my country who came here through marrying an older ugly white man, the kind who can't get local women so went to like Thailand to find a wife. After these women got their permanent visa and spent the past couple of years sending their husband’s money back to her family in asia, they divorced their husbands and now hang around bars and clubs with their Asian friends (who all came here the same way), trying to find a new husbands to leech of off. In short, they’re gold diggers.
We are talking about what is complimentary or insulting to a person's culture.
Would such an assessment be insulting? Wouldn't any woman who is a member of the target group be insulted by such an assessment?
My mom is from Thailand. She said white men are mote attractive to Asian women because they've less cultural hang ups, they treat women better and are generally a lot of fun.
Interesting. Always refreshing to hear stories from people who can give the least biased opinions.
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I'd agree with you. I went to Thailand and Cambodia a few years back and literally on my first day there I met two locals who wanted to sleep with me (for free and they weren't ladyboys, just to clarify).
That was my experience too.
I've no direct experience of it, but I've certainly been told that, yes.
Well my experience in China is they treat foreigners as guests.
They're very welcoming and kind to guests So stuff like 'You're So handsome', 'You're So awesome at... *insert whatever you're remotely good at*' or 'Your Chinese is So good' etc... all of these compliments are just that. Kind compliments to make you feel good. Its nothing more.
But its still a very conservative and traditional culture. Some places more than others But usually there's two types of girls, the ones who basically live in bars and fuck every white guy just cause its fun. you're not special they just like to fuck, a lot ^^.
And your average innocent girl, who might find you handsome and attractive but usually doesn't want your dick. They might consider marrying you If anything and even then theyll usually still prefer a Chinese dude over you because in the West were not used to treating women the way they're treated in China.
As a white guy you're exotic there so it has its appeal but thats about it. If you're not actually attractive theyll all still be very kind to you but they won't sleep with you. Its basically much The same as anywhere esle except youve got a tiny added bonus of 'exotic' for those that are into it you stand out.
Yeah but China has like a serious shortage of women.
It's how the culture portrays women in general. Very subservient and submissive and about pleasuring their men above all. There's a reason why they all sound like they are almost in pain when they are being fucked. And it's so weird how true it is. All their Hentai and such is geared toward cock hunger and submissive to penetration and whatever the guy wants to do to them, almost as if they are so fragile and helpless that they can't help but take whatever. As well, because of how society looks down upon a woman who discusses sex openly or not being sexual with their man (I believe) if a woman gets sexually harassed in a public place, she can't really make a scene or it will bring shame upon her for some odd reason. At least that's what I get out of it. That's why they love showing women on buses getting sexually fondled and others looking the other way and they can't really call out for help and just accept it. It's like, it can happen and I think has happened on those busy bus or transit rides.
Anyhow these are just speculations, but they do seem to be very submissive.
If you go to a (relatively) poor country as a white person with US/Euro money, you're going to be seen as rich and successful. Of course you probably aren't rich in US terms, but for a girl who has grown up in a tiny apartment with her whole family (that they'll never own), your 1500 sq/ft tract home with a small yard is a McMansion, and your new Honda Accord might as well be a Rolls Royce.
They treat you well because they're hoping to get some of that money, or even to marry you and be taken away from their poor country to live in a rich one. Of course, they fully plan to convince you to bring their entire family over as well - don't think they know exactly how it's done, because they've seen it happen many, many times with friends and relatives.
Of course, you're really only talking about a minority of women in these countries - just as celebrities have female groupies, but it's a small minority of overall women. But they don't care about your dick nearly as much as they care about your wallet, and the life you live that they'll never experience otherwise.
Heard the same from some of my friends who are (or were) working in China.
At first I thought a guy was joking when he said he had more pussy in 3 months than he had in a decade at home. However, when heard the same from some other guys that spent some time in China who aren't really on my "exaggerator/liar list", then I started having doubts.
Then I went online to learn more about it and it turns out indeed a lot of Asian girls in Asian countries prefer Europeoid (white) men.
Usually reasons are the following;
1.) Money; foreigners are typically more wealthy than locals.
2.) Courtesy; Europeoids are hands down by far the best race when it comes to treatment of women, no competition. Overwhelming majority of Europeoid (white) cultures treat women much better than Negroid, Middle-Eastern or Asian cultures. Obviously Asian girls are humans, therefore they like being treated nicely.
3.) And some Asian girls, of course, pinpoint the difference in size between one's legs.
Interestingly, Asian girls who live in Europeoid countries also prefer to date Europeoid guys, even if there are other Asian males present.
I don't know either. I have found as a biracial white/Japanese mix that I did find it a whole lot easier to get dates in places like Japan and Taiwan than in the US, for example, though that's East Asia. I don't have as much experience in Southeast Asia besides spending some of my childhood in Singapore (before I started dating).
For East Asia, one of the things that I think helps is that it's very common for males and females to befriend each other, and even starting from a very young age (lifelong childhood friends of opposite sexes). I think that eradicates some of the fear and distrust for the opposite sex, so it that often makes it easier to approach and talk to East Asian women at least in a friendly way. Then if you want to step things up, you have your opportunity with the girl listening very intently and being very friendly.
That tendency for males and females to befriend each other starting from early ages was also prevalent in Singapore at least. Singapore and Malaysia are really the only Southeast Asian countries I've spent much time in. But I figure that might also make it easier to talk to girls for a start, which probably also translates to an easier time getting dates for everyone.
I would suppose being white you're much more interesting to women in these countries than their own men. I'm in Bulgaria, an Irishman, the women here find me very interesting and if my S/O wasn't around, even she says i'd be up to my neck in pussy.
I think there's no one factor in this, it's made up of many, curiosity, interest, your charm to mention but a few.
May i ask what countries you had most success in? I've this huge fetish for Japanese women. Here i have two hopes of ever meeting one, Bob and none!!!
I never was in Japan to be honest but I was in Vietnam, Cambodia, Thailand, the Philippines and China. I struck out in China though. They weren't prostitutes or gold diggers either as many have supposed.
I have but then the world is full of interesting places.
I was born in China and I can say that a lot of my family friends and relatives think that white guys are better than any other race.
For one point i think is because first they look different to the norm and chinese think white guys have more define facial features (like high nose bridge, exotic eye colour, jawline).
The second is the financial status, lots of Asian relate white with wealth and also believing that you will have more money if you leave your own country.
Thirdly is the preference for a lighter skin tone, not sure if you have realised that south east Asian always wanted a lighter skin tone, that's why they use umbrella when is sunny, using whitening products, and never wish to see sunlight.
Truthfully from The Asians I know not just from the south but everywhere.. a great majority of them are mostly about money and status... and they view whate males as superior to others so of course they will most likely treat you better and fall at your feet faster than any other race... so in my opinion, it’s not so much that they love you more but certainly they love the position you represent to them.
Having said that, in the end it really comes down to the person and no so much by race or region you come from that will determine if someone will set a pdastalmfor your dick or not lol it’s all in the person:)
Money is money doesn’t matter what body part delivers it. And I think it’s not so common as sensationalized through u. s. media. I’m sure many are repulsed by white guys as inoeekism is why the countries struggle in the first place... decades of rape pillaging torture and genocide. It surprises me white oeoooe walk through those places so easily. Definitely for some there is a sense of justification in using white people , it doesn’t remotely even things it but It probably doesn’t evoke any sense of guilt either. for others they would just reject imoeroist cujryre and wouldn’t be caught dead with anyone a product thing oooression. And to others they probably are indifferent.
Anyhow, guys overestimating their irressistability to women is a timeless endeavor.
I’m white and European and I’m sill turned off by white guys. Too much association with conquest. It’s not each individuals fauit obviously - thiigh many are happy to carry on the tradition of the thinking responsible for too much unmentionable - but you know we are attracted to who we are attracted to. 🤷♀️
And why is shrugging comes only white?
So if you are not attracted to "White" guys, which ethnic group do you favor?
Not sure why you invited me to this question because I have absolutely no knowledge on the subject. If you looked at my profile (which you must have since you followed me), you would know that I'm Canadian, which is not the nationality you seem to be looking for
To what I heard, read and saw they treat White men very good because they think White men are rich (in most East / SE Asian countries the whiter skin you have the richer you're) and they want to use you to get money from you / get a better life.
They treat White men better than Black or others Asian because for them White = Rich.
I saw a reportage where a SE Asian women used a White guys (British) to get his money, with his money she bought a house, farm and then she took all control into the relationship (managed the money, say what he can do with it and what he can't, she become nasty to him after getting all she wanted from him and the only things left for him was getting back to his own country alone and without any money left).
They were married and in Thailand foreigner can't buy / own a house so everything was by her name, he was left with nothing when she didn't have used for him at all.
This is very common to what I've read and saw.
After not all are like that.
I think I saw that same television documentary. Some older British pensioner bought a house and farm and pigs, which due to Thai law all had to be in his wife's name because foreigners can't own land in Thailand. He also transferred all his money into her account. Next thing he was out on his arse and single again.
@OnlyYouKnowThat We surely watched the same one yes.
Some women in South East Asia do, but most don't. For many women in places such as Cambodia, Thailand and Philippines marrying a white man is a ticket out of the third world and to a better life. There certainly are some Asian women who are simply attracted to or curious about white men. But I would not generalise and say that all South East Asian women treat white men like their dicks are made of gold If that is your observation then perhaps it speaks more about the types of places and people you associated with in South East Asia.
I think that Southeast Asian girls tend to see white men as being better than Asian or ethnicities, especially about looks and wealth. As if it's some weird messed reinforced racism. If a Southeast Asian girl dates a white guy, she's seen as lucky/cool. I think the idea of the superiority of white men still exist in the region, like to make products look credible they use white people in the advertisements.
But with that said, it's not like ALL the girls are trying to catch white men, of course people have their own preferences. There are many who wants to marry rich old white men for their money, this is a reality that we cannot escape.
As a Southeast Asian girl who often ends up liking white guys, I have my own reasons and preference.
I think you missed the point.
Is it a compliment if someone says to you, South East Asian women treat "White" men like their dicks are made out of gold?
It's a sterotype that true in many ways, for example look at japan, the men work and dont have sex/care about women, Japanese women know this and they desperately seek foreign men, why "whites" are the chosen race because of historic back ties between western countries and Asian ones, men with lighten skin are viewed more desirable to Asian women ( more pale means you didn't work in the fields like a slave and ment you were well off) Asian women were racially told that white men were just as good as Asian men, like in white culture, stereotypically Asians are treated just as good or better than blacks or hispanics. white men are know to court women something Asian men dont have time for and the women there a fed up with it.
No it’s just an experience that’s all and Thai girls/Chinese girls are whores who might literally yank your man off your man while you’re walking down the street. So be either strong or detached to not be affected. It’s only because they can and enjoy slighting the usually frumpy western women who have reached the point in life of having traveled frequently with their husbands. They can tell if a man can pour money or not that’s all and away they go.
Besides many Asians are 100x wealthier than white guys but just probably wanna tick it off the to do list. I know it’s a fetish that’s all. The actual sex workers is who I was implying and correction not all Asian women. Some hit on women more than men and to be honest they are awesome girl friends;)
The point is are such assessments considered to be compliments.
@smggg "Besides many Asians are 100x wealthier than white guys..."
Remember we are talking about South East Asia here. The only country in SEA where people would have equivalent wealth to a western country is Singapore. Most Asians in Thailand, Cambodia, Laos, Myanmar, Indonesia etc. are definitely not 100x wealthier than white guys.
The Filipinos living in slums with raw sewerage running down the middle of the street and the Cambodian rice farmer who spends 14 hours a day 7 days a week ploughing mosquito infested fields with a buffalo so his family can survive on less than $2 a day. They are all doing a great job of hiding their status as secret millionaires.
Not as amusing as your delusion is to me that third world countries, with very low average incomes, are full of people who are 100x wealthier than the white westerners. White westerners who can actually afford to travel and visit those same third world countries. I guess all of the tuk tuk drivers in Bangkok are going home to their mansions at the end of their 16 hour shift and watching Netflix on their Sony Ultra 4K 85" LED TVs.😁
I don't know about South-East-Asia but nobody treat white man as anything in South-Asia, China, Central Asia and to absolute hate in Middle-East.
The white guys always try to assume that they are liked my woman in every country but in-reality your own kind hate them and look for BLACK or Eastern cock.
The white guys are continuously spreading this hoax and then cry like little pussy when woman use them like ATM in Ukraine.
Ukrainian are white but I agree with you about China.
I know my friend tried to find wife there but they are UKRAINE are traditional people believing in gender roles and you have to do absolutely everything for girls there form paying to her tooth-brush.
They are very protective of this tradition too... I lost 1500 dollars in very short time period and just get pussy for 1 time, believe me when I say this I AM VICTIM of their behaviour.
Why are you buying women?
I was not buying but I lost this money on faking dates and her She just return it one time and it was not worth it either. She was beautiful but "PUSSY IS PUSSY" and there was nothing special about her one apart from overly-Submissive (not very) behaviour. She laid down and never moved and I have drag her on bed.
Actually, I’d like to disagree with one thing. Middle easterners love white people, the whiter someone is, the more liked they’ll be. Esp Germans and the French.
@leilaNsari NO it have nothing to do with fairness, there is a very clear d/f between the Fairness and liking WHITE nationality. The East population is absolutely Racist and they don't like anybody apart from themselves even the Muslims in other countries like Pak/Afghan/India/Iran and other central Asian countries.
@AlphaGhost then you know nothing about Iran. I have aunties there, and they allll tell me that if Iranians could get with white people, they would. As soon as they leave Iran, that’s what they do anyway.
I’m Arab and I look it, I’m olive, dark hair, brown eyes etc. Ng sister however looks European, white skinned, ash blonde hair etc. People always show her favouritism when we’re in the Middle East, and ignore me, so yes, they do care. Whereas in the West, people show me interest and ignore her.
And as someone who goes to the Middle East regularly, (Iran+Arab countries) I can tell you I’m correct. Maybe Afghanistan and South Asia are different, after all they’re not middle eastern.
@leilaNsari IRAN IS NOT IN MIDDLE-EAST darling and everybody in whole world like Eu woman cuz they can give you their pussy after 3 dates but you are ARAB tell me,
ITS near to impossible to get a girl to give up her virginity in Middle-East but with white woman, sex is like water and you can bang her like its nothing but in Middle-East you have to literally marry her for that.
As for as loving White woman for marriage goes there is term known as EASY MEAT used for us learn its meaning and why its used, you will have your answer and
IRAN IS NOT IN MIDDLE-EAST its in western Asia and Afghanistan is in Central Asia and Pak in South-East Asia and people show notice your sister cuz SHE looks different but you look just the same,
anyway Arabian girls have their own share of market in the world and I personally LOVE Arabian woman and specially those with SMOKY EYES.
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The Middle East is a transcontinental region centered on Western Asia, Turkey (both Asian and European), and Egypt (which is mostly in North Africa). Saudi Arabia is geographically the largest Middle Eastern nation while Bahrain is the smallest. The corresponding adjective is Middle Eastern and the derived noun is Middle Easterner. The term has come into wider usage as a replacement of the term Near East (as opposed to the Far East) beginning in the early 20th century.
Okay but still She can't just justify the whole Middle-East on the basis of her sister gets the attraction and She didn't and I am Arab,
so I am talking form my grand experience we will always fuck white woman but never ever marry anyone (not proud of it) and its like the example of Paki in British you mentioned in other post that only marry their own people.
I even visited Ukraine for the same reason, so don't ask me why and the current statistical marrying percentage of Arabs to non-Arabs will prove that. We rarely marry outside the race and I am not proud of it.
Except in America where Arab women have more freedom
@Whitepanther88 Thanks got giving him the facts. I stand by what I say, he can have his own opinion.
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I am not supporting the racism and She can marry anyone but like I said the Britain/Pak is prime example they usually never marry outside their race. I even have girlfriend from the South-Asia and my parents don't approve of her BUT She is Muslim and that's the only thing that matter to me.
@LeilaNsari if you wan't to marry outside the race then go on and do it, we have the right to it by Islam and only thing. Your parents have against it your social bias and hate for other people and don't feel ashamed even the daughter of Holy prophet (Fatima) said No first time to Hazarat Ummar and then Holy prophet change it to Hazart Ali and She accepted it.
There is absolutely nothing wrong in saying NO and these fucking customs are the residues of Old Arabian tribal shit, the very thing Islam wan't to remove.
My family are okay with me marrying whoever I want because they’re not racist bigots, and have never been.
@leilaNsari There is no need to attack me either cuz you replied first :)
Didn’t attack you.
You've invited me to share an opinion for this question. Just to tell you, I've seen this question come along a few times, but I can't share my opinion, as I don't have one for this question. I have never been there so that makes my opinion a answer of lies.
most places at south east asia are not that great, outside the city areas from tourist attraction sites are even worse. while some of them may actually be genuinely attracted to them for love. but there are also some that just want to get with any foreigner visiting the country that they can spot, because it is a chance for them to leave the country for a better life.
Never been so cannot speak from experience but I have heard similar experiences from quite a few people and even heard some people native to the region say the same
Basically they expect white guys to have money
Of course it isn't all women there but the ones looking for white guys and the and the white guys looking for Asian girls... Well they'll find each other
Most local Asian ladies understand us 'westerners' as little as we understand 'them'; unless we live closely with each other. Through conversations I learned that we 'western' guys indeed have a reputation of being more reliable, financially strong, and - attractive. The latter often because of light skin, 'blue' eyes, light coloured hair. We appear as 'exotic' to THEM as they look to us. In local relations I have been treated both shitty, and very caringly.
I don't know why you invited me to share an opinion since I am from Egypt, but I think it's just your experience really.
... Because I'm so handsome and charming?
It's not your dick but the misconstrued idea that what man are rich and America is a better place than Asia.
I know. I'm Asian.
^ what = white
In their culture their families want what's best for them to be successful and have a successful partner. That's what I always thought. They seem so advanced over there in Asian countries. X-X
I'm not sure though
The actual dispute is whether or not the statement is offensive. You identify with a group. If someone said this about “Black” women would you be offended?
I am sure you are sure.
:D
I have dated too many "Black" women to even think this is something seriously considered.
@RolandCuthbert is that a bit of a stereotype of black women?
Uhm. . ."get real we dance to more offensive lyrics in night clubs."
Is that stereotyping "Black" women? Is that offensive?
:D
You get around, don't you?
@Whitepanther88
:D
It is just that if you don't associate with many African-American women, I get it. Just think about this in terms of whatever group of women you identify with or hang around.
Like if I told this to "White" women as a "Black" man, would you doubt most of them being offended?
I don't see how this is even a thing.
Understood. Moving on.
Not sure about your experience in particular, but a lot of women in those countries chase foreign men for the sole purpose of their wealth or for a chance to move out of their third world shithole into his country (say USA).
You should stay away from those kind of women.
Some want the money and opportunity of leaving, some don’t like being treated like shyt by the men of their culture (why does that feel familiar?), and some want a mixed race baby. And or all of the above.
I think that was just your own personal experience, I doubt that it is a thing that they all do, probably just Chinese whispers and came to that :/
Not to say that some don't do that, I am sure there will be one or two but I doubt it is a whole of Asia thing :p
I've got a lot of time for the orientals, but it's done mostly for the money, but white beauty is pedestalled all throughout the world, many non whites try to emulate the way we look.
There are vastly expansive historical reasons why this is so, it's to do with the ARYAN connection. It's why we're also hated so much, and ironically races like the Indians and far easterners know much more of our history than we do ourselves.
The only thing they liked about you was the fact they think you’re from the western world who has money. Not because of your looks trust me.
But is it a compliment. Is it being complimentary of South East Asian women to state this?
@RolandCuthbert what?
Let me do this differently. What is your group identity? “White”, Russian, Asian-American, etc?
@RolandCuthbert none of the above
Well, it doesn't matter does it?
You have a group identity. It wouldn't be offensive if I told you that the women of your group treat "Black" men's dicks like they are made out of gold?
@RolandCuthbert what are you even saying or getting at.
Why is this so hard?
You just answered a question about South East Asian women. You don't think it is offensive to state this.
Well change the groups. Make the women your group and make the men "Black" men.
Is it offensive then?
Be honest.
@RolandCuthbert why would you change the group of men if you get your panties in a twist over the south East Asians? You make no sense.
It is a simple yes or no question. If this confuses you, then no doubt tying your shoes laces is akin to rocket science.
I am done wasting time.
@RolandCuthbert you wasted your time alright with this dumb question.
No, they don't. Most girls in Vietnam would be nervous about being approached by a Western guy and being seen talking to him.
You have yellow fever? And why do you call yourself White panther? Nobody said there's anything wrong with being white. That's just weird to say
He only thinks it is bad to ask people if they are “White”.
Lolx10!!!
@RolandCuthbert LOL
@RolandCuthbert enquiring about someone's ethnicity is considered a microaggression in 2018, its like how I explained to you that when you brought up my bad spelling and grammar that you were actually being racist towards me.
Also @RolandCuthbert thinks only white people can be racist.
Nah, it isn't considered to be a microaggression.
It is just you, the "White" nationalist who is trying to control the narrative about what is or what is not racist.
If I hurt your poor little feelings when I talked about your bad spelling, believe me, I do not care.
In fact, I am quite sure I don't even care whether I care or not.
@RolandCuthbert I dont make the rules.
Right.
You don't.
:D
I wish the forum had better controls.
Oh my God yes. Asian women period are obssessed with white men. They have a bigotted thinking that white men are more educated or intelligent and are superior creatures.
I voted other but reading the comments and forgetting how Asians do love cock munching white people so hard, I think it's fair to say they do treat y'all dick like it's made of gold but at the same time, all girls are hoes. If you got some money they'll do anything
I treat my men same, no matter what race you are...
Yea especially since Asians have small dicks. They also view it as a opportunity to practice there English. Also a lot of them are payed to say things that will make men swoon
Triggered!!! How dare you ask such a question boasting about your "white privledge" you sexist racist mysoginistic patriarchal bastard!!!
It's all about that visa sometimes.
Foreign dating always seems to have an extra layer and that may have been part of it but you don't know how real it is until the woman is truthful with you which may never happen
Long standing cultural ideas of pale skin being better and over there white men are considered exotic. I've heard about it but never been to asia yet.
Not all SE Asian women are like that, but there's definitely a large number of them that like white men because of SE Asia's inferiority complex
I think it's in their culture to show lots of respect for people.
I love it that Asian people are like that :D
Other-- Why did you pluralize "dicks" with an apostrophe
My auto correct is shit
I am told and I have heard these girls treat their men like gold.
I've met a decent amount of women from that area and pretty all of them want a white guy and will do anything to get one. It's weird lol
I can't say about South East Asian women but as far as Indian women are concerned, white guys have a good advantage over Indian guys in hooking up with Indian girls.
You didn't even ask the question properly.
Is it offensive to claim Southeast Asian women treat "White" guys dicks like they are made out of gold?
Nobody is offended.
Of course there are people here who are offended. But again, you did not ask the question properly. I am not offended by your racist nonsense regarding South East Asian women. I am not Asian in even the slightest from an ethnic standpoint. I don't know enough about Asian culture (s) to know if it would be offensive.
So the question is about one's culture and whether or not it is offensive. As in, it is offensive to Slavic people if I told them that Slavic women treat me like my dick was gold?
We both know the answer to that. No matter how much you try to deny it, lie, or deceive.
You are a fake.
You are a liar.
And you are a fraud.
You do not have one ounce of integrity, because it doesn't even bother you in the slightest to be a disgusting liar.
That's is incredible.
Nobody was offended just like in your question because you were wrong and you just can't handle it just the way you couldn't handle the inconvenient truth that you are in fact a racist.
Young one. People are simply assessing the truth of your observation. They are not answering the question I posed to you. If someone said something similar about the women of your race/culture considering “Black” men, it would be considered to be offensive?
This is just like the time when you pretended that claiming “Black” men guilt “White” women into sex was actually a compliment.
:D
We will continue to explore this.
I never claimed it and you brought it up.
Your just pissed that your question didn't turn out the way you thought it would.
We will continue to explore this young friend. I am just wondering about how women feel about having their decisions about sex trivialized.
So pissed. Also stop insulting people who disagree with you.
Insulting people?
What?
:D
Why would if be offensive to say slavic women love my dick? If it's a fact then it naturally shouldn't be offensive as it's just the truth. If I go to Mexico and put on a comedy show, do you think it would be offensive to tell the truth if the crowd loved me/laughed at my jokes? Or would it be too offensive to Mexicans? Or is it the fact that foreigners are fucking your women that offends you? (that's racist and sexist, and we have examples of this happening to African and mexican americans in the 1910s-1950s possibly till the early 2000s (the consensus on miscegenation/interracial marriage only hit 50% on the 2000s)).
If it's not offensive to claim that an ethnic group of people loves you/a piece of you/something you do then the offensive part must be that it's a foreigner. Sorry if it is hard to read what I wrote, I'm kinda tired rn.
To clarify if I need to, it's sexist because you can't treat women like objects, you can't choose who the marry or who the fuck.
@devilman666 Wait, you identify as being "Black"? Or African, etc?
And are you implying you can insult Slavic women so, in Russia without offending anyone?
No, where did I say I identify as an african? My race plays no part in this conversation. I simply brought it up because it's an easy and well known example.
Probably not, people are sensitive. Though, I think you misspoke there. Is it an insult to slavic women if you say they tend to like darker skinned men over lighter? Especially if it's the truth (I dont know if it is). Obviously you're not talking about the entire population of females when you say something like that, it is a generalization. Is it an insult to slavic women to say some of them like to engage in casual sex? Is it an insult to slavic women to say some of these women like to have casual sex with foreign/exotic men? I don't see how it would be unless you repress their sexuality/think they lose worth when they have sex.
That said, I think that while in Russia you can say that slavic women like have sex with foreigners without being offended, but maybe the culture is more racist and xenophobic/fearful of miscegenation.
@devilman666 Your group identity absolutely plays into this. It is like the insult is so disgusting you can’t even acknowledge it’s existence. I have been to Eastern Europe more than a few times. And I can tell you it is beyond insulting for me, as a person who is not Slavic to claim “Slavic women think my dick is made out of gold”.
Now you can dispute that if you wish. But I can’t take detractors very seriously.
All that other stuff you talk about with interracial dating, etc. is not relevant.
@RolandCuthbert how does my identity play a part? Even from my identity perspective I don't care. Why would it be insulting to me for someone to say that they have had sex with a lot of Canadian women? Or that Canadian women love him/people like him? The only way I can see it possible to be offended/insulted is if you think that women in your country should only have sex with the people you want them to have sex with. Are you offended by people saying men of your country tend to really like/prefer women from another country?
Why is the conversation about interracial dating irrelevant?
@devilman666 If you are or are not Slavic it would matter. I am quite certain as a non-member of Slavic culture (s), I would be frowned upon claiming "Slavic women think "Black" men's dicks are made out of gold". I am not certain upon what rational basis would you even dispute this. Have you traveled through Eastern Europe? Are you Slavic? Russian? Polish? Latvian?
All of those group identities matter. Because they would know. And since I have traveled through Eastern Europe, I know how seriously they take their pride in their culture (s).
And you keep changing the wording to make it less offensive. I am talking about cultural groups. not nationalities. Can I, on the streets of Moscow, make the claim that Russian women treat "Black" men's dicks like they are made out of gold, and expect no one to be angry with me?
That was the question.
Not some polite politically correct observation.
@RolandCuthbert I disagree that my background should matter. If Russian people think this way then they are racist and sexist, simple as that.
So why doesn't my group identity matter in the conversation then? Does my country have no cultural pride? You're not talking nationality? Does my countries culture not exist? You asked earlier, and I quote: "If someone said something similar about the women of your race/culture considering "Black" man, it would be considered to be offensive?" Yet you constantly just shift the conversation to "well what would Russians think if you said this to their face?".
You accuse me of making it less offensive, but you are the one adding in the whole part about the russian culture (remember this post is about south Asian women) and you are the one bringing the whole part about saying ot on the street into it. You are trying to make it more offensive by adding things to the argument, the argument here was never about what I can and can't say in the streets of russia, it's a conversationg online about what kind of men south Asian women like.
@devilman666 I know you disagree. I am telling you Russians do not care. And guess what? Most people with cultural identity do not care. Why should they? If you are not a member of their group, you are not a member of their group. You just talked to a Russian man with the most offensive racial views possible. Your disgust does not matter to him. And in my travels in Eastern Europe, I learned my view on what Slavic people should do or think did not matter either.
I either found a way to deal with it or I found some other place to hangout. It is their country and their culture.
Because the question is about Slavic women or South East Asian women. What do you know about being Slavic or Asian? What do you know about being a woman?
We talk about Russia because whitepanther claims to be Russian and he claimed this was not offensive.
You keep saying something along the lines of it should be okay for a man to say he had sex with Canadian women.
That is not what he said.
He said South East Asian women treat “White” men’s dicks like they are made out of gold. And you keep watering down the statement and creating a different one.
And I told whitepanther to apply this statement to the women of his supposed culture. He said it said it was not offensive. And considering the conversations that I have had with him, I knew he was simply lying to further a political narrative.
Not sure why the guy who keeps saying group identity should not matter keeps trying to make the conversation about south east Asians. We were talking about culture in general.
A discussion about culture. Please those who are Russian or from Eastern Europe, please respond. What is or what is not offensive? ↗
@RolandCuthbert you're right, I'm not trying to change their laws/culture/society, but I will feel free to comment about how they are wrong. That said, just as they don't care about my offense to their racism/sexism, I don't care if they are offended over my opinions of their women. Their disgust does not matter to me.
No, the question is about south east Asian. What useless questions, how do these matter to the argument? Are you trying to say that you need indepth knowledge of being slavic, Asian, and a woman to comment on this? I don't know much about being slavic or Asian other than what I have read. Same with being a woman. What do you know about being Candian? Slavic? Asian? A woman?
So are you Russian? If not then I don't see how you can even try to debate him on it.
I spoke about my culture because you asked. Read through my last 2 comments again, I quoted you as asking if other people's race/culture would be offended. You brought it up and I answered.
If I went out into the street and said "Canadian women treat black dicks like they are made out of gold", I don't think many people would be offended here. Most people wouldn't care unless you were speaking specifically about someone they know, as there is nothing wrong with Canadian women loving black dick ad seeing it as highly valuable when compared to men of other races.
You knew he was lying? What a great way to discuss things. Just assume everyone is lying when they something you don't like/disagree with!
I'm trying to keep it on point, you keep shifting it specifically to russians, when I try to comment about my culture, so lets talk specifically about south east Asians, or about culture in general.
@devilman666 No, I am not Russian. My fiancee is Eastern European. We met during my travels in Eastern Europe not too long after I finished my work over there. You can say Eastern Europeans are wrong. Or Russians. I am just saying they don’t care about what we think and that is perfectly fine.
Yes, I am saying you need in depth knowledge of how Slavic people interact. And to claim that they would not mind if I said Slavic women think that “Black” men’s dicks are made of gold is not being serious.
I am going to keep saying that until you acknowledge it.
Did I make a statement about being Asian? Or Canadian?
I have told you about the statement in question three times now. Please acknowledge that I have said.
Well, I won’t argue with you. I would say you have a very strange culture. If you identify with Canadian culture, I didn’t know that one existed. I thought Canada was multicultural. But yes, from my viewpoint there is something very wrong with a woman liking a dick because of its complexion. But maybe that’s just me. Maybe I am the only one on earth who thinks the skin complexion of genitalia shouldn’t matter when it comes to a person seeking nothing but sex. But this is GaG after all. I have heard much stranger things than this here.
If he isn’t lying, let him prove it. I am perfectly willing to meet him outside the forum. He thinks I am lying about my life. He can have access to all my identification, social networks, etc. I have nothing to hide. He just has to do the same.
No. you are not keeping it on point. I know nothing about South East Asians, hence my question to whitepanther. It is like you are deliberately being obtuse.
You dont seem fit to say what russians do and do not like, and especially to call people who claim to be russian liars simply because they disagree with your view of what Russian's are like.
Why do you need indepth knowledge of how slavic people interact in order to comment on this topic?
You're going to continue to say it regardless, I'm sure. I thought I did answer, but regardless; I'm not claiming russian's wouldn't be offended, but that they would be wrong to be offended.
"What do you know about being a slavic or asian?" You brought it up so I returned the question. Clearly then by your logic neither of us can hold any opinion about Asian people or culture. You didn't make a statement about Canada yet.
"I didn't know a Canadian culture existed, I thought Canada was multicultural." Sounds like a statement about Canada. "I would say you have a very strange culture" again, same thing. So what do you know about being Canadian to be able to state/have these opinions? Do you think you could go in the street of Toronto and say "Canada has no culture!" And no one would be offended? (I'm not offended, but that's your pathetic logic).
So you have no preference in romantic/sexual partners based on their skin color? You don't have any preference between African, Asian, hispanic, white, latino, etc? Sorry to say but most people tend to find some skin colors more attractive than others.
And then after he releases his ID and social network you just call him a liar because that clearly isn't him? Hownis he to prove he is who he says he is? You want him to snapchat you? You've shown yourself to be irrational to some extent, with calling people liars without good reason and posting a new question calling him out and trying to mock him. No one should have to prove their identity to hold such a harmless opinion and state it online. To turn your logic on itself... I don't just want your identification, that would prove nothing as you admit to not being Russian. I need proof of your wife and her identification, social networks, etc. So I can prove you do have an opinion worth stating on the topic, otherwise you're a liar.
@devilman666 Hey, you don’t have to believe me. Just go to Eastern Europe and make the claim about your Canadian dick or whatever group you claim. Maybe they might like it.
Who knows?
Metallsturm seemed okay with it. Or maybe he wasn’t. I don’t know because you don’t seem to have absorbed what he said.
As for whitepanther, I will call him a lying pathetic coward. Let him prove me wrong. I don’t make spurious claims on boards just to win political points. I am prepared to prove myself and my experiences. If he can find some courage, we will find out if he is telling the truth.
Why do you skip over the obvious?
Who is making the claim in the question above?
Why is someone who is obviously intelligent, pretending he that he can't read. Since I had a point of reference, I used slavic women. And whitepanther lied to win his political point.
@devilman666 Are you saying that all Canadians are in agreement on Canada being one culture? Do you want to go down this road? And please stop creating straw men. I said “I thought Canada was multicultural”. So use my words, don’t invent new ones for me.
No, I do have cultural preferences when it comes to dating. I said that I am the only one on earth I guess, who think when it comes to sex, the skin color of genitalia does not matter.
Again, read what I type. Do not substitute.
So if you are after sex, it makes no sense to me that the skin complexion feels different. Things don’t feel different because of their complexion.
That’s a scientific fact.
@devilman666 "You're going to continue to say it regardless, I'm sure. I thought I did answer, but regardless; I'm not claiming russian's wouldn't be offended, but that they would be wrong to be offended."
I want to respond to this directly. You have yet to share why this is important? When I am in Eastern Europe, nothing you are offended by, no rule you have set for them can guide me through culture.
Nothing you say can keep me safe or keep me from offending them. The only thing that can is my willingness to understand their way of life. Now, you can go about your life anyway you wish. You can blame entire groups of people for your misunderstanding of them.
Or you can listen to them, learn their history and their ways and try to understand them.
I choose the later.
Make your choice.
Live your life.
@RolandCuthbert sounds costly to do just for that, I don't have much urge to leave my frozen hell to go to another frozen hell as a vacation, so it would probably just be to test that, I'd rather not.
Nice way to avoid answering. "Who knows?" I'll use that sometime.
That's a great way to hold honest dialogue. Im going to try it as well. You are a lying pathetic coward. You can prove me wrong if you want.
Who knows? (What)
Who knows? (I made several claims, you'd have to be more specific.)
Who knows?
I think I am done with this. You dont seem to want honest discussion, you just change the subject, avoid answering questions while getting upset when your own questions go unanswered ("I am going to keep saying that until you acknowledge it."), and call people liars.
@RolandCuthbert why is this important? It's not really, it's my opinion, it certainly isn't going to change the laws or ideas of another country. However that doesn't change that they are, at the very least in my opinion, racist.
alright, shut the fuck up you self righteous prick. "You can listen to them, learn their history and their ways and try to understand them" you apply this too all people groups? Yet you seemingly have learned nothing about Canadians. How do you explain that? You are a liar and a hypocrite. How dare you pretend to be a multicultural person who learns from other people groups and incorporates it into their own understanding of the world? "Im better than everyone else, I try to understand everyone, except people I disagree with, they're just liars" get off your fucking high horse.
@devilman666 Hey, do you. I went to Eastern Europe for a very lucrative project. I met very nice, caring people and I loved it. I have traveled to Turkey. To the Netherlands, to Canada, the Caribbean, the UK, Poland, Latvia, France, Italy, etc., etc.
And always I am respectful of people's culture and their group identity, even if they are not respectful of mine. Now, I will totally insult them on a personal basis, if we get into it. But I think you have noticed that. I don't insult cultural groups. That's why I talk about whitepanther worse than I would a cockroach.
That is the code I live by.
"Who knows?"
I don't have any idea what you are talking about.
Oh, I can prove you wrong. Do you wish to take this offline?
Or are you scared also?
@devilman666 Right, it isn’t important. Your ideas don’t mean one thing. They can’t help me overseas. They can’t do anything for me.
Shut me up, freak.
The Canadians I talked to say Canada is multicultural. You disagree, then you disagree. I didn’t come up with that assessment on my own.
Prove me a liar.
Prove me a hypocrite.
I am not multicultural. I know my culture well. I just don’t project it onto other people like you.
Because I am not an idiot.
You seemed all tame when talking to the Russian gentleman in the other thread. But you are pissed now?
Dude, I don’t care.
Are you saying that all Russians are in agreement on russia being one culture? Such large countries always have a wide variety of cultural practices. That said we do accept cultural diversity, due to high rates of immigrants Canada has become extremely diverse with cultures, but there is a Canadian culture, we have our own television shows and books, we have laws on how much Canadian culture compared to other cultures must be shown over television in Canada. Get over yourself. Canada has a culture, in fact it has several unique cultures, from farmers in rural Saskatchewan to fisherman on the coast of newfoundland, to loggers in BC, to... whatever quebec does... to the widely culturally diverse cities like Toronto, Edmonton, and Vancouver.
(Cont) It's a diverse country, but to say we have no distinctly candian culture is simply incorrect and ignorant.
"If you identify with Canadian culture, I didn’t know that one existed. I thought Canada was multicultural." I didn't strawman you, I quoted you basically word for word. The only part I changed was to change "one" to "canadian culture" which doesn't change the meaning as you were using "one" to mean "one Canadian culture" and replaced a. With a , to make it read easier.
@devilman666 Hey, you don’t have to believe me. Just go to Eastern Europe and make the claim about your Canadian dick or whatever group you claim. Maybe they might like it.
Who knows?
Metallsturm seemed okay with it. Or maybe he wasn’t. I don’t know because you don’t seem to have absorbed what he said.
..."
I assumed that "who knows" was in response to my previous question "why do you need indepth knowledge of how slavic people interact in order to comment on this topic?" Was I incorrect in this assumption?
"Take this offline"? I assume by that you mean swap personal information. I wouldn't be against it, but you're not going to have much proof. If you think I'm sending you a picture of my drivers license or something then you're mad. All I really have to confirm my identity with is a facebook account I barely touch as social media isn't my thing.
@devilman666 This is how idiotic you are.
Slavic is an identity encompassing many different cultures. Latvian, Estonian, Polish, Russian, Ukrainian, etc.
There is some agreement among some that there are cultural similarities between the groups. Some even claim they are one people.
But others of certain identities have outright disdain for those of other certain identities.
For instance, my fiancee does not like Russians because she feels that Russia has been meddling in the affairs of the Baltic states and that Russian people by and large are okay with that.
We talk about this all the time. Daily in fact.
But I dated a woman from Latvia before her. She didn’t have an issue with that. Even though a walk through historical museums in Riga would make you think they blame Russia for all the evils in the world.
I also dated a woman who considered herself “Mixed”. Her father was a three star colonel in the Russian military. Her mother was Ukrainian.
cont'd
cont'd
She considered herself ethnically Ukrainian. But spoke Russian and was very nationalistic in terms of Russia.
Culture is complicated my friend. It is as messy and complex as the humans who practice it.
I met women in Russia, Latvia, Ukraine, the Netherlands, etc. Some might call Russia multicultural. Others may not. I know that Putin says it isn't a multicultural country. He recognizes different ethnic groups, but for him, there is one history and one language. I am quite certain, some would agree. Some would not. That model would not succeed in my country, America. We need to have different perspectives, languages, etc.
But I really do not have the time to do a class on cultural anthropology. Sufficed to say, I listen to people talk about their cultural identity. I do not assign them one damn thing.
Their group identity is between themselves and the group they claim.
All I can do is wish them luck with that.
cont'd.
As for Canada, again, you are an idiot.
Every nation has culture. Because every human is a member of a culture. You don't decide the culture for every Canadian. That much I know.
You can speak for yourself. And the other Canadians I know, speak for themselves.
And here you are talking about being culturally diverse.
You are just so stupid.
Diversity implies multiple cultures. Figure out what you are trying to say.
they just want money that's all, they think all white men are wealthy.
If you went to thailand? are you sure it was a girl?
My experience with Asian women (military) is that they will do whatever it takes to latch onto a meal ticket/passport out of Asia to a western country. Once they are here, they tend to go batshit insane. Divorce rates are astronomically high.
explain question i heard Asian have small penises 😑
I heard Egyptian men do
unfortunately 😂😂😂 no but i can't prove not Egyptian porn video with good quality all r sucks why u r offended u r not Asian u biggest right winger
Racism bothers me you right winger.
i thought u like it o swear oh sorry Asian guys there many girls would like to sleep with u cute Asians
In all honesty, I can't take this question seriously 😂
Why not?
Well how many women have you slept with?
Well. . . I don't want to get into that.
The question really is about what is considered to be insulting. It isn't about sex at all.
Ok well, everyone has their own opinion, so depending on who you've been with and how many people determines your answer
I don't think that's the issue. If you identify as a Slavic woman, if you identify as a Indian woman, if you identify as a Latino woman, is it offensive to claim the women of your culture treat "Black" men, "White" men or Latino's mens dicks like they are made out of gold?
It is pretty simple. I know no group of women mistaking this for a compliment.
They associate whiteness with wealth and prestige so after going to an ivy league school and getting a good job the next step is for them to get a white guy.
After doing so an Asian girl's life goal or bucket list is complete.
The point is whether or not it is offensive to South East Asian women.
I don't know, I'm not southeast Asian neither I've been there
Is it a complimentary, is the question.
I believe that some believe that getting married to a white man, will get them away from the horrible conditions that some Asian women live in, depending on the country.
it's actually d
i just wanted to vote something else
to skew your results
and piss you off
TRIGGERED?
Lol so triggered, I'm on the ground shaking
I am from SEA myself , i do not believe it is because of your money like most people here said , there are so many famous local female celebrities ( who already rich) who married white guys here..
You are southeast Asian? So is it offensive to say that southeast Asian women treat "White" men like their dicks are made out of gold?
Nope
Well I don’t believe you. But everyone is entitled to their opinion.
okay , i just try to give honest opinion here , i am not even a white guy..
I don't think that matters if you are "White" or not.
I don't think you are answering the true spirit of the question. If I changed the group of men from "White" to "Black". Or change the target group of women from Asian to Nigerian, of course people in those groups would feel offended.
I have no idea, not having ever left Britain's shores.
I have a friend who has a friend who goes to Thailand every year just for the Asian women.
I kinda think so.
And I'd say one of the reasons could be that they want to move out. Or possibly just assume that white guys are rich.
Defenitley like their dick's are made of Gold. I did some backing packing through Indochina with my boyfriend and a group of guys.
Do you identify as being "White"?
@RolandCuthbert no I identify as black.
So if a “White” guy told you that “Black” women treated his dick like it was made of gold, would that be considered a compliment towards “Black” women?
@RolandCuthbert not a compliment exactly but not an insult either. Like I'm datin a white guy and i treat him like that. I wouldn't find that offensive at all.
I tend to disbelieve you because you are anonymous.
I am a "Black" man. . . and I am quite certain that if I said that about "Black" women I dated, they would find it offensive.
They dated me for a specific reason. And I am quite certain it was for more than the skin tone of my dick.
Just sayin'.
@RolandCuthbert Get real we dance to more offensive lyrics in night clubs.
You can't speak for most of us black women and white men treat my pussy like it's made of gold.
Just sayin.
No, "we" don't. Maybe you do.
And I can speak to issues for "Black" women better than anonymous troll pretending to be one.
My last girlfriend was a professor of microbiology at Maryland University. She didn't dance to offensive lyrics. So that shows just how much you know about "Black" women.
@RolandCuthbert you know we love to dance. Are you even really black, are you just another white boy posing?
Yawn. . . this is the same troll.
What are you afraid of? Why are you hiding?
@RolandCuthbert what's your problem? I answered the question. Is it because I'm with a white man?
It is because you are a fake online troll.
Prove me wrong.
@RolandCuthbert I'm fake because I'm dating a white man?
You are fake because you are anonymous.
Stop being a coward.
Have some integrity.
I don't know how to answer this but I would imagine that their pussies is like coin slots just like their eyes so that would be a good thing
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