People need to just quit that shit.. Dude I knew kept fucking different girls and would say it was "one drunk night" and claim they was coming on to him cuz he was stringing multiple chicks on at the same time. Or they were blowing up his phone when he was really blowing up theirs. But he got busted out cuz he kept using the same excuse/lies with them all 🤣
I was falsely accused of corporate espionage. It was only my detailed record keeping, and my accusers inability to provide even one iota of evidence that spared me, but it left a bitter taste in my mouth as a whistle-blower.
YES, I lost a college friend cuz i didn't hit it off with her friend she told to start hitting me up. Its one thing to be a person who feels they should control your love life, and than another to stop being friends with how it didn't go as the fantasy you had.
Oh I know yours lol seeing for some reason dude (we both know who I'm talking about) tried dragging me into middle of all that... But just like wouldn't/WON'T put up with if someone TRIED to do that to ME, wouldn't just believe or listen to hearsay from internet strangers with an agenda #get the facts
there was this one morbidly overweight girl with no personality/life always trying to flirt with me and i wasn’t interested in her. As retaliation, she accused me of sexual misconduct which was later proven false.
It is sad however women can be vindictive I can never falsely accuse anyone for anything no matter how badly I don't like them I've been in a few situations where there was someone I really despise but if I know they didn't do something I would honestly back them up and I have it leaves them shocked but I just can't fathom lying and getting someone severely in trouble
My ex ex, destroyed my relationship with my ex by telling her outrageous things about me that were completely false. I mean they were just complete fantasy! She told my ex that I cheated on her with her (my ex ex). By the time she found out none of it was true, it was too late to save the relationship. That woman was a PSYCHO!
Wow need to block that woman cut her off completely if you can it would suck if you have to co parent but if that was the case you could also get a mediator never see her again just deal with a third party
Years ago I had my picture on a dating site. I was wearing a suit in the picture.
Somebody on the site posted a link to a fake news story (looked like a real news page!) on another site that had my picture on it as the lawyer defending a pedophile in court. It was really really bizarre. Have no idea who did that or why. It bothered me for a while, but I got over it. Someone complained to that site and they took the fake story down. I guess I looked very attorneyish in that picture.
I think it was just someone on that dating site playing some kind of game.
I have also seen my picture used in other profiles... people steal pics, it's a common practice. When I google pictures of pretty women I often find the same picture was used dozens or even hundreds of times on many websites using different names and locations. Usually it is by scammers, but some of them are just people trying to fool someone for attention.
When you post things on the Internet you have no expectation of privacy. So you have very little legal recourse unless what is done is otherwise a crime. And your chances of recovery in something like a defamation law suit are pretty close to zero. You will spend a fortune to try with very little chance of recovery.
The smartest strategy is to never post anything that you don't want the entire world to see or other people to use as they please.
To me that's not just a rumor, that's slander... Sorry that happened and cost you friends, but then doesn't sound like they were really friends in the first place... Cuz if someone falsely accused me, my friends would rally sound and help me prove that those allegations are false... Times like that are when you find out who your real friends are
About 3 years ago. I'll deal with them cordially as much as I need to and avoid them the rest of the time. But what is done is done. I was appalled by their behaviour and I believe they lack the self reflection to truly understand what they did.
Yeah I have 4 sisters, but there's two I really have nothing to do with... One was just totally disrespectful the day I buried my hubby which I never even got why she thought it was okay to come because we hadn't spoken in years... To pay respects by being disrespectful? But I let it slide that day because that day was about my hubby, and my kids and noone else...
I think everyone has delt with false accusations. I've never been set up for something, but I have this gut feeling the government is just waiting on it.
Yup JB he had a girlfriend. In reality, he was the one who came onto me. I was only 15, I think he was 17. Yet, I was seen as the monster after the incident, and news spread around school like wildfire
@TacoBaco no, we messed around though. But bc he had a girlfriend, he felt guilty about it and told her I date raped him and he couldn't control me. His girlfriend was the cousin of a friend of mine, so she hated me too after that
@Broken_doll You don't need friends like that. It's better to have a couple of good friends than a bunch of acquaintances who don't a give fuck about you. Plus, on the subject of sex, never mix sex or a relationship with a guy with friendship with others. It usually doesn't work out well if the two are intermixed.
Glad to hear that 🤗🤗 so then did he get in trouble? He should of... People shouldn't get away with just going sound falsely accusing people of things that could possibly destroy their career or lives..
Ok I used to live in long beach Calif next door to me was an 85 year old widow woman she was a constant problem she would tell anyone who would listen that I was making meth in. garage then one day boom down comes my front door and 5 plain clothed officers proceeded to tear my house up slapping. y girlfriend around and then left no warrant to search so I called police they asked me what they looked likecars they drove the said no one here fits that description so I just said well that's over 1 week later boom down comes the door shame cops then left this happened 4 times till I took matters into my own hands and staked out police parking lot guess what I saw same cops same cars go into the back door to station so I went to internal affairs they still denyed it next morning boom down comes my door this time with me on the floor they told me to get the fuck out of long beach or they would burn down my house and plant something to put my away so idid
I just looked at your profile you seem like a wonderful person and I admire your thoughts and actions and very much look forward to learn more about you if you would allow me to thanks
I've had users tell me stories of things people have tried to do to get them off GAG, one who was falsely accused of something and reported... Another who said people were trying to pretend to be them out using profile pic in posts to harass/trash talk... That's two examples... I also saw a post where some pink ANON claimed to hack a user's IP address and send him a message on his phone claiming he was being a pedophile-that was probably a troll question and BS, but the point is there's people that are using this site to harass people and why? And to just block? Or report? They just create new accounts, not to mention the people on here that have multiple accounts even though that's supposed to be against rules
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Yup.
A girl cheated on her boyfriend/fiance with me and when he found out she claimed I raped her.
People need to just quit that shit.. Dude I knew kept fucking different girls and would say it was "one drunk night" and claim they was coming on to him cuz he was stringing multiple chicks on at the same time. Or they were blowing up his phone when he was really blowing up theirs. But he got busted out cuz he kept using the same excuse/lies with them all 🤣
I was falsely accused of corporate espionage. It was only my detailed record keeping, and my accusers inability to provide even one iota of evidence that spared me, but it left a bitter taste in my mouth as a whistle-blower.
Glad you were able to prove it was false 👍👍
Thank you, Ms BbB! 🙂
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@guardian45
Oh that has to be awkward
Hate that feeling when people think bad of you
Worse it insulted the pride I had taken in my work. Needless to say it was a poisoned workplace, so I left.
@guardian45
Toxic work places are the worst
@meetkitty123. Yes, they are, but I got the last laugh, because they had to pay me a LOT of money to go away quietly.
Cool
Only in pre-k and elementary school. It never worked cause there were so many supported evidence to falsely accuse me of anything.
Yeah, it's always good to have evidence supporting the truth! Being smart having your own back cuz there's some sick, shady people out there.
Yes all the time when I was younger pieces of **** and was in real life situations all the time
Sorry to hear that. People who lie about themselves, bad enough... But people who lie about others, you said it POS's
Thanks yeah am just glad I dont have to deal with people like that anymore stay way clear of them have a very select group people I see now
Quality over quantity any day!
Definitely
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YES, I lost a college friend cuz i didn't hit it off with her friend she told to start hitting me up. Its one thing to be a person who feels they should control your love life, and than another to stop being friends with how it didn't go as the fantasy you had.
No I meant gasket accuse you or set you up to make it look like you guilty of something you didn't do
Yeah, and ex who has Borderline Personality Disorder, among other mental illnesses.
Oh I know yours lol seeing for some reason dude (we both know who I'm talking about) tried dragging me into middle of all that... But just like wouldn't/WON'T put up with if someone TRIED to do that to ME, wouldn't just believe or listen to hearsay from internet strangers with an agenda
#get the facts
Quite true
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there was this one morbidly overweight girl with no personality/life always trying to flirt with me and i wasn’t interested in her. As retaliation, she accused me of sexual misconduct which was later proven false.
She should have been criminally charged for that!
Not yet... Knock on wood...
I sure hope I do not in the future...
Just be careful especially online, cuz people these days will stoop to anything for no good reason... Even on here so I've heard
I will keep that in mind
Yes by my ex husband. But I protected myself and it went my way.
👍👍 glad to hear it
Absolutely! More than once in fact. It always seemed to involve a woman I was in a relationship with I'm sorry to have to report.
I'm sorry to hear!
It is sad however women can be vindictive
I can never falsely accuse anyone for anything no matter how badly I don't like them I've been in a few situations where there was someone I really despise but if I know they didn't do something I would honestly back them up and I have it leaves them shocked but I just can't fathom lying and getting someone severely in trouble
My ex ex, destroyed my relationship with my ex by telling her outrageous things about me that were completely false. I mean they were just complete fantasy! She told my ex that I cheated on her with her (my ex ex). By the time she found out none of it was true, it was too late to save the relationship. That woman was a PSYCHO!
"These are links that covers laws regarding giving false online info on accounts as well as creating fake accounts of other people"
Any links about dealing with psycho ex girlfriends?
Wow need to block that woman cut her off completely if you can it would suck if you have to co parent but if that was the case you could also get a mediator never see her again just deal with a third party
@RingOfFire not off hand but the other user gave some good advice
Fortunately I had no kids with her.
Years ago I had my picture on a dating site. I was wearing a suit in the picture.
Somebody on the site posted a link to a fake news story (looked like a real news page!) on another site that had my picture on it as the lawyer defending a pedophile in court. It was really really bizarre. Have no idea who did that or why. It bothered me for a while, but I got over it. Someone complained to that site and they took the fake story down. I guess I looked very attorneyish in that picture.
I think it was just someone on that dating site playing some kind of game.
I have also seen my picture used in other profiles... people steal pics, it's a common practice. When I google pictures of pretty women I often find the same picture was used dozens or even hundreds of times on many websites using different names and locations. Usually it is by scammers, but some of them are just people trying to fool someone for attention.
When you post things on the Internet you have no expectation of privacy. So you have very little legal recourse unless what is done is otherwise a crime. And your chances of recovery in something like a defamation law suit are pretty close to zero. You will spend a fortune to try with very little chance of recovery.
The smartest strategy is to never post anything that you don't want the entire world to see or other people to use as they please.
This is very true
I watch a lot of Dr Phil and he's always has something on his show about trolls or identity scammers.
Yes I have and there wasn't even a good reason why.
Is there ever"really" a good reason to knowingly falsely accuse someone? Nope... But sorry you went through that 💜💙
Thanks. I appreciate all the support you are sharing in you post.
Thank you!
i was falsely accused of rape once. it was just a nasty rumour, though, so no action was really taken. i lost some friends, just.
To me that's not just a rumor, that's slander... Sorry that happened and cost you friends, but then doesn't sound like they were really friends in the first place... Cuz if someone falsely accused me, my friends would rally sound and help me prove that those allegations are false... Times like that are when you find out who your real friends are
Not quite the same but my beloved sisters engineered an ambush of a meeting from which our relationship has never recovered.
How long ago was that? You think you'll ever patch things up or no? But yeah, sometimes it's family that can hurt or do most damage
About 3 years ago.
I'll deal with them cordially as much as I need to and avoid them the rest of the time.
But what is done is done. I was appalled by their behaviour and I believe they lack the self reflection to truly understand what they did.
Yeah I have 4 sisters, but there's two I really have nothing to do with... One was just totally disrespectful the day I buried my hubby which I never even got why she thought it was okay to come because we hadn't spoken in years... To pay respects by being disrespectful? But I let it slide that day because that day was about my hubby, and my kids and noone else...
I think everyone has delt with false accusations. I've never been set up for something, but I have this gut feeling the government is just waiting on it.
Yes, a guy tried to accuse me of date rape. Kid you not
Wow that's messed up
Yup JB he had a girlfriend. In reality, he was the one who came onto me. I was only 15, I think he was 17. Yet, I was seen as the monster after the incident, and news spread around school like wildfire
Sorry to hear that! I hated people who lie period, but lying about other's is way worse... That's just fucked up when people do that
Did you actually have sex with him. Maybe "rape" was his girlfriends idea.
@TacoBaco no, we messed around though. But bc he had a girlfriend, he felt guilty about it and told her I date raped him and he couldn't control me. His girlfriend was the cousin of a friend of mine, so she hated me too after that
@Broken_doll You don't need friends like that. It's better to have a couple of good friends than a bunch of acquaintances who don't a give fuck about you. Plus, on the subject of sex, never mix sex or a relationship with a guy with friendship with others. It usually doesn't work out well if the two are intermixed.
@TacoBaco that's very good advice there and very true 👍👍
@TacoBaco yeah true. But this guy was hot and started making out w me, I wasn't gonna push him away at that age lol
Fuck yeah... they ruined my life...
I hope they burn in hell...
And your asses know who you are too...
Or you talking to someone on here when you say that 🤔 or in a general sense?
Anyone and everyone that had to do with what happened to me. It's not directed to your ass 🤣🤣🤣
You mean IRL tho, right? Not online?
Irl?
In real life... Verses online life
Real life shit lol
Ahhh okay
Yes it happened a long time ago & took years to get past it.
IRL? OR online? Either way sorry... But glad you did eventually get past it
In real life.
People just really are fucked up sometimes...
I thought he was a friend. Life lessons learned at a young age.
Sorry 💜💙🤗
Yes at work but my work ethic speaks for itself so they didn't believe him
Glad to hear that 🤗🤗 so then did he get in trouble? He should of... People shouldn't get away with just going sound falsely accusing people of things that could possibly destroy their career or lives..
Yes he did he got fired
Good!! That's what he deserved!!
Yes it's a very crazy but true if you want to hear it ask me
If you feel like sharing
Ok I used to live in long beach Calif next door to me was an 85 year old widow woman she was a constant problem she would tell anyone who would listen that I was making meth in. garage then one day boom down comes my front door and 5 plain clothed officers proceeded to tear my house up slapping. y girlfriend around and then left no warrant to search so I called police they asked me what they looked likecars they drove the said no one here fits that description so I just said well that's over 1 week later boom down comes the door shame cops then left this happened 4 times till I took matters into my own hands and staked out police parking lot guess what I saw same cops same cars go into the back door to station so I went to internal affairs they still denyed it next morning boom down comes my door this time with me on the floor they told me to get the fuck out of long beach or they would burn down my house and plant something to put my away so idid
Omg that's crazy like wtf
Yes it was terrible but it also relates to what's happening with police abuse
I just looked at your profile you seem like a wonderful person and I admire your thoughts and actions and very much look forward to learn more about you if you would allow me to thanks
Thanks 🙂
Your welcome
Yes,, but my natural paranoia usually tips me off. So it doesn't usually happen very often or get very far.
Good defence mechanism. I'm that way on here cuz of stories others have told me about what people have done or tried
Agreed. But keep in mind it's the internet. So it's going to be more drama filled than regular life. What would the internet be without hyperbole.
True but still people need to be safe when using the internet, people have used the internet to harm people in real life,
Fair nuff, i assumed we were talking about in the context of G@G. But outside of G@G you're right. It's dangerous out there.
Could be even on here... This is still the internet. No website is 100% safe... And there is some truly disturbed people on here...
Well you need to get specific then. Because i fear no one on this site. What could someone here possibly do to me.
I've had users tell me stories of things people have tried to do to get them off GAG, one who was falsely accused of something and reported... Another who said people were trying to pretend to be them out using profile pic in posts to harass/trash talk... That's two examples... I also saw a post where some pink ANON claimed to hack a user's IP address and send him a message on his phone claiming he was being a pedophile-that was probably a troll question and BS, but the point is there's people that are using this site to harass people and why? And to just block? Or report? They just create new accounts, not to mention the people on here that have multiple accounts even though that's supposed to be against rules