Is being called a "Nerd" a compliment or an insult to you?

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FocusOfSuspicion · Accepted Answer

A nerd is just a specialized smart person. An individual who is smart overall isn’t a nerd. It’s someone with a focus on a specific thing. It’s a compliment in that it denotes intellect. It can be an insult, however, because the idea that it could mean: an intellectual in one area at the expense of others or the idea that perhaps the focus is stupid (like being nerdish over the history of Barbie manufacturing or a book series that isn’t real and therefore the intellectual acumen is without real world value). While that’s not always true, it can be, and in that way it could be used as an insult as well.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

A huge compliment! A nerd implies you're intelligent, or someone that knows a lot about a specific topic. That's far from insulting.

Now if someone calls me that as an insult? That makes them appear silly and unintelligent, lol

Bananaman177 · Accepted Answer

Back when I was way more into wilderness survival, I was at a BBQ just talking about all the camping trips I was planning and the new gear I wanted to test out and a friend of a friends' girlfriend was all, "What are you trying to be, some kind of like, survival nerd?"

And I just thought, "Fuckin' A! Damn right!"

But I didn't say anything out loud because everybody was too busy laughing at me.

I lost track of most of those people, but. . . I'm sure they'll die cold and wet and hungry.

BedheadGreg · Accepted Answer

Need means Smart freethinker.

People who use it as an insult are usually of low intelligence and are intimidated by you. So they need to find some way to compete with you or bring you down.

Physically or emotionally because mentally you're above them

CurlyGirl42 · Answer

It is a very positive word in my book :)
I guess it can be used in an insulting way, but personally I have never experienced it. In that case it is always followed up by some negatives.. like: she/he is super nerdy and so socially awkward and creepy.

imGirliNterrupTEd · Answer

Dear, take it as a COMPLIMENT. Being a NERD means you have a big brain and will definitely be more successful more than these yahoo’s over here. I don’t get why some people like em’ “ handsome, bad boy and kick-assess” but then will cheat on them left and right.

Nerds on the other hand is different, they are kind, warmhearted and honest. I think that is what matters most. I don’t think I am making any sense. lol

Tiffany_Taylor_Made · Answer

I would definitely be insulted by being called a nerd. To me personally, I actually find this N-word to be more offensive than the other one. A nerd is a socially awkward loser that is overly obsessive, introverted, and are usually considered unattractive and unstylish. It's also common for them to have poor hygiene. They're usually interested in childish things such as anime, comics, trading cards, and video games, even as adults. Nerds also tend to lack confidence, which is a reason that they tend to get picked on when they're in school or treated as doormats as adults. The only positive thing about a nerd is that they're often described as intelligent. However, if a person wants to describe me as intelligent, they can say so without describing me as a nerd.

TessCasie · Answer

It depends who is saying, what's your relationship with the person, are y'all really good friends or just acquaintances.

If a really good friend says it I wouldn't bother , lol i would take it as a joke.

BUT if someone who isn't my friend neither have I built a solid relationship with them. I would thoroughly get offended.

Cherokeehp · Answer

Neither. It’s just an astute observation. I guess it sort of depends how you define the word nerd. If you mean a socially awkward and funny looking person, then I wouldn’t consider myself a nerd. But if you mean like a know-it-all, straight A student, with interests in stereotypical nerdy things (anime, Star Wars, lord of the rings, etc.), then I would consider myself a nerd.

grapefruit11 · Answer

I think it’s a compliment. It means intelligent and passionate. I think of nerds as people who are capable of being interested in things to the point where they enjoy learning as much as they can. They also are unashamed of their interests. I think it describes me and I only ever call people “nerd” if I see that they’re so passionate about something and I think it’s endearing.

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Well, nothing is particularly insulting to me because either its true or its not and if its not it doesn't matter and if it is they are being honest so I have to respect that. Personally though, I consider myself a nerd, I don't think it has a negative reputation like it did before so I don't consider it insulting and use it to describe myself usually.

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

It used to be used as an insult back in the 80's. Then revenge of the nerds, other tv, big bang theory, etc.. happened. During those times, the hipsters rode that horse until it dropped from exhaustion

Now it's a cliche, and a crappy one at that.

ChiTown33 · Answer

Compliment. Because i have many varied intetests. And it doesn't matter if i'm involved in a pickup basketball game or a game of dungeons & dragons. I'm in it to win it.
Calling me a nerd TO ME means you recognize nerd credentials and to me that's a compliment.

PrinceNeo · Answer

When I was a kid I used to be called nerd all the time but because I loved dragon Ball z and Yu-Gi-Oh and s*** like that so much I took it as a compliment because I didn't want to be a f****** normie. But now every f****** a****** in their mother is all of a sudden a f****** nerd and they're ruining the sensation of uniqueness I had.

Konabeana · Answer

really depends.

if they call me a nerd because of something I know that they don’t know, or if they call me a nerd because of something I said—academically related, then I don’t care. I take that as a compliment. Ex: “dude you’re such a nerd for knowing that.”

if they call me a nerd because of how I dress, or something that involves my interests, then I don’t like that. Ex: “omg you like Minecraft? You’re such a nerd”

KennethNoisewater · Answer

Usually one calls someone else a nerd as an insult. It's intended use is always an insult. But the person receiving this word has to decide which way they want to take it. But that is the same with any word. Personally, I am a huge nerd. A certified nerd even. I don't take any offence to the word regardless of how they intended to use it. Being a nerd has helped me live for a long time now. Nerds are what make the world go round.

abc3643 · Answer

I think Ogre gives us the answer...

MCheetah · Answer

C. It can mean either one, depending on the person using it. I'd take it as a compliment to my intelligence, but they may be using it as a synonym for "incel/loser."

tartaarsaus · Answer

Depends on context. It can be said in a joking way. If someone would say it in a completely monotone way with no special context, insult.

guesswhoseback · Answer

I rather be called a nerd than a “nice guy”. After college I’ve banged every girl who teased me for being a nerd. However I’ve only gotten romantic with 10-20% of the woman (who I liked) who called me a “nice guy”.

Soporific-san · Answer

To me its just a word. You decide if it really means anything to you. Do you allow the person name calling you get under your skin. Its up to you, I know I wouldn't. Not worth the time.

Vencam · Answer

Can't help but feel bittersweet about it, even if I know who's calling me that means good I probably got too used to it being used as an nlinsult, so that will probably change with time

art_hoe · Answer

people in school always thought they could insult me with that but i started loving it cuz my grades better than them :3 and they just bullies

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

That widely depends on who and how it's said. Being a nerd is not a bad thing in my opnion, it's awesome.

Kaazsz · Answer

It’s a compliment. Even if someone tries to insult me with it, it doesn’t work.

ryanrhino · Answer

Nerds know 'things', sometimes not relative to the current conversation, but oftentimes helpful when you dwell on that prior meeting.

MsTaniaUncensored · Answer

At one point it was something of a light derogatory term but these days it is very in to have nerdy interests.

AndyFo · Answer

Considering the list of horrible names I have been called over the exotic years of my existence, Nerd is barely on my list of hurt words xD

SaraSmithishere · Answer

No, not at all.
I went to a liberal arts college filled with nerds. To me, a nerd is a bookish person with low social intellgience. Someone who is dorky and socially awkward. Someone who is uncool and maybe a social outcast.
Smart is having a higher than average IQ. I know lots of smart, well-adjusted people who are a ton of fun and not nerdy...

lilyanony1 · Answer

Is rather be called a nerd. Beats being called stupid

Primrose21 · Answer

To be called a nerd is way better than be called bimbo.

Anonymous · Answer

Most people mean it as an insult, probably, but I'm actually proud of being a nerd. I don't take it as a compliment, but more of a matter-of-fact statement.

Zeus_66 · Answer

I don't care. And I don't care what it means to the person saying it. Been around long enough to not care.

CubsterShura · Answer

I have been one for most of my life. I am neutral about it.

Avicenna · Answer

I haven’t been called a nerd since I was in high school, but I definitely am and always have been.

EvelynnTheFae · Answer

As someones who's always been called one I've learnt to love it😂

JoJoiLL · Answer

A compliment, as is "geek" I don't hear being used as an intentional insult much these days. Geek is chique! :D

Massageman · Answer

Depending on who said it and how, I would either ignore it as an attack on me, or accept if offered as a compliment.

TomBham · Answer

Depends on situation. When dumb people talk it meant to be insult to intelligence, but in my case I find it as a compliment..

LEADFOOTboi · Answer

i'm indifferent about being called a nerd... Q - Q i can be quite nerdy about my subject of interests

Anonymous · Answer

It doesn't matter what the person intends. Always think of it as a compliment. Never accept an insult

Trooper205 · Answer

I have it Tattooed on my Left shoulder. I take it as a Compliment.

Browneye57 · Answer

When you're smart AF everybody calls you a nerd. Oh well.

Citizenkirk · Answer

Being called a nerd was not a compliment when I was a kid, but did teach me how to use my fist, and my feet, and my brain, in a different kind of way.

missy52 · Answer

It's a bit of both for me. Depends on how it was said and who said it

pigoat · Answer

If you are a nerd own it Some peolle don't like what they are this also goes for gaus and black people etc.

ProfessionalMusician · Answer

I think it's a compliment On the road I had to be a Nerd to fix equipment

McKellar · Answer

A compliment & nothing wrong with that. You just know a lot of shit.

themythos · Answer

It use to be insulting but now its kind of a compliment

Xoirwinkan · Answer

Neutral. Usually in the context of having nerdy hobbies.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

I'm nerdy in a sort of way. I just don't mind. I just call it an adjective.

Anonymous · Answer

Sometimes its like a compliment to me and sometimes insult.

PersoncslledPierson · Answer

it is an insult, its not matter of opinion. its like being called virgin

Tzxker · Answer

I love dominating nerdy girls. Don't feel bad for what you are there is somebody out there that is searching just for you. I

Anonymous · Answer

Snowflake is bad enough. This is an insult this nerd.

KingdomForAKiss · Answer

Definitely a compliment.

geonator · Answer

Depending on the context, either an insult or neutral

RemoErdosain · Answer

I find it a compliment, because I like nerds

AmourHoney · Answer

Depends on how it’s used.

PrincetonGirl97 · Answer

Ex boyfriend always called me a sexy nerd so...

taeh_ie2 · Answer

I don’t really care what I get called.

Ash525 · Answer

its a compliment to me🤣

worldscolide · Answer

Compliment.. I'm proud of being a nerd.

OceanMelon · Answer

I'll take it as a compliment

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