I am asking this because I noticed that from my childhood on I was taught in kindergarden not to use slurs or to even call people „black". We even had visitors from Africa every year to teach us about their culture.
But the same people that taught me this used jokes about Asians to cheer me up.
I'm more or less a grown up woman now but even after all those years I still notice how racism against black people is (fortunately) frowned upon but racism against Asians gets brushed off as a joke.
I once dated a black guy and everyone was so interested in him and I was told "imagine how cute your children would be“ but when I dated an Asian guy everyone kept saying things like "doesn't he have a small ***"