What's one double standard that has really irritated you recently?

One that really gets under my skin:

Dude 1: Makes the news for dying. Cause of death never given.

Dude 2 (shocked): "What happened to him?"

Dude 2's comment gets deleted, his family curses him as an insensitive monster for wanting to know, because "why can't you just give the family a chance to breathe?" Everyone dogpiles on him for being a bastard for simply wanting to know what happened to someone he was once on a soccer team with. Because it's okay to be insensitive... but only when Dude 2 is the recipient of the insensitivity.

Random gal on the same Facebook thread: "Whoa? What happened?"

Gal's mother: "Natural causes."

The EXACT SAME CRITICS: "Eh, whatever. She's understandably curious. Everyone should just, understand that, everyone grieves differently."

Me: "But not Dude 2? What makes his grieving process illegitimate?"

The critics: "Shut up!"

What's one double standard that has really irritated you recently?
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