In a real world, is it bad for a man to be emasculated?

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in this century current society, or it has their Pros and Cons for a man to be enmasculated or there is nothing good about it. Im talking in this current society. I even heard comments I dont know where, and one of those comments came from a woman said: "Straight men need to me enmasculate. Im sorry They all need to be slapped around. Women have been kept down for too long. Every straight guy should have a man`s tongue in his mouth at least once".

Another quote I foind on the net says this:" Todays empowered woman wants a loving relationship with a "real man" and the first thing they want to do is emasculate him"

There is a case in a upcoming movie about lets say heroes, there are women and men in those heroes. In the movie the strong and powerful person is the woman, not the man the woman is the one with power to take over men. And the leading character who is a man is a a charming and flirtatious guy but he does not have the super heroe persona in fact the actor who played the character asked the producers of the film to let his character be emasculated make the woman to be the lead, to be the stronger one, not the man. So for that particular fact, some people (specially men) won't go and watch the movie, just because men can't accept being emasculated by a woman. This particular actor like his characters to be that way, let the woman be in control, or at least be the man the one who is in "distress" and be saved by a woman because the eternal society norm is always "a man saving and protecting the woman and be the heroe, and not the other way around so some fans say "ohh he must be gay or a chicken, or a girl, then"

isn't that sexist? I mean do men need to be always the powerful and strong and protective human being? Why can't a woman be the same? Are women not capable? Im jsut asking questions as to why is not good or bad for a man to be emasculated.

Pegases · Accepted Answer

This is why so few men consider themselves feminists, and why the feminist movement can no longer be differentiated from extreme feminism. It's interesting how many women are on the fence on treating men like they are less than human, but are clear on the fact that it's not ok to treat women like shit for having a vagina. That being said, most women don't treat strong men like shit, or men that have actually been found to be misogynists, they prey on unsuspecting and inexperienced men, and sabotage them like Amber Heard did Johnny Depp. Plain and simple, the behavior you described is misandry, it's not complicated. Whats worst, everything the feminist movement sought to achieve, it has. So the men these women have beef with, are either too old to have any impact on today's society, or dead. So by demonizing men today, you're undoing the progress that's been made, and alianating the allies that you could have. Because if you back track to the early 2010s, you'd find a lot of people that considered themselves feminists, and actively fought against the unfair treatment of women. But today, ask the average man if he considers himself a feminist, and the first thing that will come to mind are the various accounts of unchecked extreme feminism all over the internet today, like this, which is repulsive.

Dargil · Accepted Answer

Nothing wrong with sharing duties. When they begin to regulate and ration things that matter to a guy, that's emasculation.

My grandfather returned from being a Navy combat pilot in WW2. He was offered an internship to become an airline pilot for TWA. He would have been flying these.
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My mother forbade him from accepting the offer because he would be "away too long", My guess is that she also feared stewardesses. That, children, is called emasculation. He never got over it and was a crappy father later on attempting to fill his life with "belonging" due to what he had lost.

CateM · Accepted Answer

Though I can't speak for men, it isn't rocket science. Most men surely like to feel protected by their partner. I don't think one partner should always be in control, but they both take the lead every now and then

FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

Living in dirt, trash and dust and waiting some chick cleans everything around one man's butt like his mommy did must be the essence of masculinity. 🤣

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

Some call it (emasculated) and some call it (doing my part at home and relationship). A lot what you wrote about the movie is just normal BS , PLUS! The American community is creating more problems for it self than solving problems and there is so much propaganda through social medias and large numbers of people are sucking it and love it. Other countries do have such problems but the percentage is much smaller or it is not as problematic as it is in the state. Just like diversity. I cook (i am a chef) i clean at my house and we share responsibilities at home. A real man or not! No one is forcing me and i am helping doing things in my house. Is it bad? No it's not, not for me, not for us 🤷‍♂️

NamerOfStars · Answer

Here's the test: for any given text or phrase, copy-paste into in a word processor and replace all instances of the word "men" (or "male", or whatever version they use) with "black". Does it read as racist? If so, then the original is sexist.

A few years back, some scholars tried to recreate Sokal by taking actual parts of Mein Kampf, doing a find-replace (and adjusting the phrasing slightly to sound more modern) and submitting them to Feminist journals. The acceptance rate is... well, every bit as horrifying as Sokal's was.

snackthatsmilesback · Answer

There's a big difference between a man taking a less dominant or even submissive role and him being "emasculated." Emasculated has history of being a negative attack on the man and is treated like a joke. In a lot of superhero movies there used to be sidekicks. But that doesn't mean batman emasculated Robin when he saved him or took the lead hero role. I do think it's bad generally to emasculated someone. That has bad effects for them and others.

But if you just mean men need to start being in less dominant roles / women need to take those roles, sure that can definitely be beneficial. There's nothing wrong with a woman fighting for a raise or promotion and getting it over a man coworker. Or in a competition outperforming a man. Or in a relationship taking the lead with a man partner. That's fine. I wouldn't call it emasculating tho. That's just fair play bc it can go both ways.

Anonymous · Answer

If men weren't manly, the world as we know it would come to a grinding hault.
Things wouldn't get built, things wouldn't get fixed, your car would stop running, your power would turn off, the whole world would fall apart, and we'd fall back into the dark ages and die off.

Don't tell me the very small percentage who can physically do those things would save us. This is a man's world because we fucking built it and we keep it going.

If you don't understand why, I can't explain it to you

Snakeyes7 · Answer

Emasculating them completely ruins the attractiveness women have for them so yes it is very bad thing. When it is done to males, especially as children, you might as well be dooming his bloodline.

All you are teaching them is that they only exist to be a punching bag, a pushover or just a waste or space when they really just want to be someone's hero. Why else do you think they like superheros so much? Emasculating them will only crush that dream.

It's honestly amazing how it's not considered abuse, it's a textbook definition of psychological abuse. The only reason is that the cunts you hear say that crap, thinking they deserve it because their alleged opressors had the same chromosomes, is because they obviously don't see men as human beings.

Billlewis · Answer

I think it's actually a very positive development that men, in general are gradually becoming less masculine, much more feminine and easier to control for women to use for their own selfish pleasure, and that's the way it should be, in my opinion.

mattclark242 · Answer

men need to treat women with respect. if he need to fall on his butt to learn this lesson then so be it. I do not think we need to make men so weaker that he can not take care of him self. we do not need push over men but we need respect men. we need less old fashion men and men that hit and hurt women. we need less push over men too. I think we need something in between.

woman can be when we need them to be that way. like if a movie or the world call for it.

AdithyaR · Answer

I personally believe that something can only emasculate you if you believe it does. Just walk around without a care about the opinion of others you and you're not gonna feel emasculated at all. Others can't make you feel something, we choose to feel it.

AimeeKyle · Answer

Depends on what real world you are talking about. Movies or in the bedroom, whatever/who cares. Personally it’s not my thing, but if that’s what an adult guy, girl or couple are into, go for it.
Most anything else, it’s likely sexist / could be discrimination.

Anonymous · Answer

Bad for what? For whom? For most guys it's bad for them if THEY are emasculated but can be quite useful if OTHER men are emasculated. For most women they'd prefer their partner NOT to be emasculated (assuming they LIKE men) but they probably care less about whether or not other men are emasculated.

So basically before we can answer "is it bad" you need to specify either "for what" or "for whom?"

melanieeeB · Answer

Stepping up in the household is being masculine lol

tzdc21 · Answer

It's NEVER okay to emasculate a man. If you want equality, then do it without trying to demonize and destroy the opposite sex.

007kingifrit · Answer

female happiness levels peaked in 1972. women don't like men like this , men don't like this furthermore our roles are not defined by society but by our biology

Heterosketero · Answer

Let me know which so called woman said that so I can hire another woman put her through a wall for being rude.

Keishio · Answer

These kinds of women will keep saying men need to be emasculated until something horrible happens and they'll be the first wondering why there wasn't a man around to help.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I love the way you phrased this question. Completely neutral and just seeking answers. Good for you! I really respect that.

genericname85 · Answer

well depends. do you wanna be with a man? or do you wanna be with a femboy or woman?

PainusNdeeAnus · Answer

It’s wrong because we instinctively are protectors and providers  just like women are instinctively nurturing care givers

Sabretooth · Answer

Do it and find out... I already know the results.

Anonymous · Answer

Not at all, it keeps them in their place.

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