Do you agree with this white girl that black guys hitting on non-black girls is not a compliment?

[Anonymous]

Before labelling her a racist, keep in mind the woman in the video is married to the black man in the video and has a child who for all intent and purposes is black. Again, she is being blunt an honest on how a lot of non-black girls feel when black guys show their attraction toward them.

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The man she is speaking to (the black man, Dre from Work on your game YT channel) states in the comment section of the original interview titled “Anna & Dre show” that he agrees with her and only plays devils advocate for the sake of the video.

[BeMuse]

I don’t know how people view getting attention from people because I’m not a narcissist seeking “status”, popularity, fame or whatever you want to call it. Generally I just enjoy the company of people I am close to. There are all sorts of women that flirt with me, but it doesn’t do anything for me regardless of any detail about the person. The same goes for people that express negative attention toward me. If they aren’t an important person to me, it doesn’t have any influence on me at all.

That said I suppose there is a grain of truth in what she is saying. All stereotypes start from some grain of truth and then get broad stroked across a population. Often White women who end up dating Black guys in a majority White society, are the dejected members of the White population. They didn’t find a match in their own community because they were fat, ugly, criminals, drug addicts, had psychological issues, or whatever and ended up being rejected repeatedly, maybe bullied, outcast, etc. by their circle of friends, colleagues, neighbors, etc. so they looked outside for new opportunity in love. Get in where you fit in. The same is probably true for the Black guy they ended up dating. Dude probably had all sorts of issues and was like there’s something wrong with these Black women.

I don’t think the result is motivated by the “status” of landing a White guy for the average women, but you’d have to ask women. They do tend to view gaining attention in different ways than men. I think it’s more so people gravitate toward their own circle. When their options run out, they seek new options.

[Vegasrunner]

This is an old belief mostly perpetuated by white males to justify their lack of success w/ the opposite sex. Approximately 20 years ago. I did a study where I interviewed 100 wm 100bm amd 100 Hispanic men and asked them "How did you meet your last partner" The results were staggering about 95 of the bm met them by cold approaching about 80 Hispanic cold approaching or being introduced by a 3rd party 99 of the wm met their partner by being introduced by a third party. My conclusion was that men of color do better w/ women simply because they apply a numbers game strategy which is what actually works for men. I further saw this play out when I worked at the night clubs in Vegas for over a decade and while the numbers of wm who approached did go up, it was still majority of white guys making the walk of shame down the strip at the end of night after striking out at the clubs. Even on this site the image of the Incel is usually some nerdy 58lb white boy whose uncomfortable around women. Regarding the video she is speaking for the only person she can herself, if that is the case I've been all over the world and being black has always been a huge advantage in attracting the opposite sex, so if the belief is all the ww who feverishly chase bm are somehow inferior that would account for a huge percentage of them in the world.

[LazerBean]

It just depends on the quality of the individual man. There are black men that it should a complement from, just like there are white guys what it would not be a compliment from.

[Asker]

This is nice in a theoretically but racial hierarchy does still prevail in modern society. Online dating even shows across the board that most women have a strong favor for white men, while the opposite is true for black male.

[LazerBean]

You have to remember that people who have to resort to dating sites do not reflection normal people. Just looking at society, it seems the average black man is probably getting more dates than the average white man.

[CALIGVLA]

Looking at the quality of the women the average black man gets I'd say black men are doing a public service. Thanks to them, decent men of other races know what woman they should avoid since the average black man loves letting the world know who's the chick he's banging.

LOL!

[Asker]

Actual surveys done in real life shows that black men are the most likely to be single compared to men of any other race.

[LazerBean]

Single as in unmarried? I agree. But single as in not getting dates? Certainly not. There's a reason black men are never the ones complaining about modern dating, and it's because they are killing it in the modern dating scene.

[CALIGVLA]

Literally! 😂

[Athenn]

"Black men are never the ones complaining about modern dating" ? There are litteraly whole movements of black men complaining about modern dating, American women, struggling with dating and the so-called dating advantage of white men. Or maybe you consider fetishization as "killing it" ?

[LazerBean]

Sure bro

[CALIGVLA]

Listen up, little girl, there's a world where black men are rocking it indeed.

It's called porn.

But porn isn't the real world.

Every time you jerk off to porn, your brain shrinks.

Stop watching porn.

[Athenn]

I am not your bro, and your preferences are not facts.

Black men are popular because they are good looking men, white men are popular because they are good looking men, etc. That it. Both have obstacles, but race is just one of many factors, and far from being the main (or at best linked to other more important factors).

My point is that people should stop these racial brain-teasers, racial hierarchy, who is superior to who, with claims that comes out of nowhere or from preexisting biases (everyone says something completely different in the comments about so-called """""""facts"""""""" ... how strange). Personal racial preference is one thing, racial hierarchy is something else (and completely random, manifestly).

And there is no resentment towards you, I don't want to sound aggressive either. I just didn't get your claim of superiority of a certain race, and I was specifically responding to that. Specifically to you, because I definitely agree with your original comment about individuals.

[inhua]

don't think this is racist specifically but she does raise a good point

if any chick is with an ugly dude, it's most likely because she can't get a hot guy and must settle for the ugly dude. we may virtue signal that personality is more important than looks but such a pairing often brings out disgust from the public.

heck nobody believes age gap relationships are genuine and must involve the older partner "grooming" or "manipulating" the younger partner not because the older partner has a great personality

[mommymommymommy]

Race baiting

y'all are saying you HAVE to stay with your own race

I know a white man who dated, married and had kids with a black woman. He's a trump supporter

[Anonymous]

It’s always nice when racist people breed themselves out and have mixed race babies