As a traveler, I have always been fascinated by different cultures and customs, and my recent trip to France was no exception. Known for its rich history. However, my experience in this beautiful country was made even more intriguing when I came across a Muslim couple on the beach.
As I strolled along the shoreline, taking in the breathtaking view, my attention was suddenly drawn to a Muslim couple sitting on the sand. The woman was dressed in a burqini – a full-body swimsuit that covers the head, arms, and legs – while the man was in a simple shirt and shorts. They seemed to be enjoying the warm sun, chatting and laughing with each other while holding hands.
At first glance, they really stood out. While everyone else was in their bathing suit. Here these two show up fully dressed. I got intrigued in them so I started observating them and even snapped a pic.
As I continued to observe the couple, they suddenly got up and made their way towards the water. What happened next was something that left me puzzled and a little uncomfortable. After they were far enough into the water, the couple started hugging and soon the hugs turns to kissing passionately.
At one point the man took off his shirt and the wife started kissing his chest, The woman throughout remained fully covered in her burqini. Even while making out with her shirtless husband.
I couldn't help but wonder, how is it fair that the man gets to take off his shirt and have his woman kiss his body, while the woman isn't even allowed to take off her hijab, let alone the rest of her heavy dress?
As I watched from a far, I noticed something else that caught my attention. While the couple was lost in their affection towards each other, the man, in between kisses, kept adjusting the woman's hijab to make sure her hair didn't show.
Even in moments when his wife is expressing her love to him he was still concerned about policing her dress.
it can be both. for most, the hijab is their love for god and following certain teachings in the religion they follow. When done out of free will, it's fine. when done by force, then its oppression and that certainly happens too
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3 mo
What do u think was going on in this case?
Like the woman was definitely in the mood that is why she took off his shirt.
Was it appropriate for him to keep correcting her hijab even when they were in between kissing
again, if its a consensual thing, then its the husband respecting the wishes of the wife, which is absolutely okay. they sound pretty chill and such which would tend to make me lean to the love angle over opression.
Maybe it is. Becuz I was pretty far. So I couldn't hear them talk.
From my POV all I saw was them locking lips and hugging. And every 30 seconds later the husband would move his head away from her. Adjust her hijab and then continue kissing her again.
So perhaps she was telling him to adjust it. There is no way I would tell since I couldn't hear.
If it was out of love then I think the entire thing was wholesome.
I think some Muslims think it's a sin and they don't want to go to hell or something because they are so brainwashed by religion. It's just like any other ridiculous religion.
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3 mo
Ok but then how will she go to hell if she even shows her hair.
But he can take off his shirt, kiss her, make her touch his body and make her kiss his naked chest.
Shouldn't she also have the right to go shirtless and have her nipples kissed like he did?
It's really about what they (especially she) feel about it.
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Anonymous
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3 mo
Looks like love to me.
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Yeah but then why couldn't his wife take off the hijab in literally the water.
Like don't u think she probably wanted to feel the wind like him
Plus even while making love to her he would keep correcting her dress. Ensuring her hair doesn't show.
Like look at his priorities. This wife took off his shirt so she can get closer to his body and pleasure him meanwhile he doesn't even focus his attention on kissing her.
He keeps correcting her hijab in between the kisses.
