Difficult vote as there wasn't a "big part of value is kids" option. Most guys that are with a woman do want kids. It is one of the largest reasons why a man gets with a woman. Now there is more value that comes into play later in a relationship. My wife knows that one of the only reasons we got together is because she could have kids. However she also knows that now nearly 20 years later her value as a woman is being a mother, a wife, a source of calm, love, and devotion and many other things that come with time. When I was early 20s a bit before I met her I was working with a friend and he asked why I didn't just date a woman short term and I said "being with a woman is useless and pointless unless you want kids. If you don't want kids you can just pay for sex and live a far wealthier life" he spent the next 15 minutes laughing. I wasn't disparaging women but that was the reality then and it is the reality now. Unless you want kids being with a woman is not worth the potential headache, financial burden or potential emotional turmoil.
A woman is different from a man, both biologically as well as psychologically. Both have their own attributes, their own speciality. Both do have their own importance because of their own quality. Physically a woman is weak in strength, but she is more stronger capacity of bearing pain. A man can die with the amount of pain a woman can bear. This makes her more capable of doing any such work which requires this quality. Psychologically a woman does have more patience, more kindness, than any man. She is capable of making anyone feel more safe, she is capable of giving comfort to someone. A woman is more emotionally mature and more empathetic than man. So she makes the world feels more like a family. Woman makes the society as united mostly when men are busy in doing competition with each other. A woman makes a man feel like a secure place to rest after fighting from whole world after getting tired facing struggles. A woman fills the man with motivation to get up again and fight. If man runs the world doing dangerous things, and protect the world by going into wars etc then the woman makes sure that her man could perform better, he couldn't get tierd or broken, he could stand again, if he gets damaged in the process she helps them to recover back to someone better than before. So if men are creater (of world) then women are creater of that creater, the mother of all creation.
This question implies that simply reproducing is what makes a person special. For both male, and female, there are other metrics to consider, in my humble opinion.
I do believe that there are some traditional gender roles to which men & women are better suited and in this regard females have a special worth and value. Child birth and rearing are a significant part of this equation but by no means the only thing that makes them special.
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So who would most people prefer going out for a drink with:
option 1 a normal girl, boobs and usual girlie parts
option 2 … you?
I would how many would go for 2 ?
That is where you sit on the ‘is a person valuable list’
Yes, for the most part. If she isn't going to be a mom and have a kid then the "unique" treatment she gets does diminish some and she may get more "just one of the guys" treatment.
That is literally the only thing they can do that men cannot, and men do everything else better.
Women don't actually have children. They instead carry children which is different. No woman can have a child without having an egg fertilized and a fertilized egg depends on a man's sperm.
You have less value than anyone. Stew in your self imposed misery.
If you're saying nuns are useless I'd have to agree. Nuns are just women who get into bad habits.
No. Personally, I don't want kids. My life has been nothing but stress and grief. I'd be perfectly happy.
EVERY human is valuable. I assume you mean post-menopausal women are less sought on the dating market..
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