Is a 29 year old woman still considered as young as 25?

[Anonymous]

There’s a big gap between 23 and 29 in terms of maturity but would you say 25 and 29 is similar in terms of being in her prime and seeming the same sort of age

Yes

No

[MrOracle]

The following graph depicts SMV (Social Market Value - essentially the average value that men and women assign to the opposite sex, by age, when looking for a serious relationship partner). This is different from a casual sex partner, and different from "value as a person" - it's specifically about "value as a serious relationship partner to the opposite sex".

Average SMV, by age and sex

As you can see from the graph, men HIGHLY value youth (which is closely tied to fertility) and purity when looking for a serious relationship partner, while women tend to focus more on a man with status and resources, which takes a man longer to acquire - all women *start* their adult lives with youth and purity, but the vast majority of men start with zero status and resources and must work to build them.

You will notice about this graph is that women's value peaks far higher then men's ever does, but right about age 30, the graphs cross, and women's value drops below men's for the first time and remains below from then on. This huge flip in social value is often referred to as "the wall" or "hitting the wall" because it tends to catch most women by surprise, and because women start their adult lives with massive value that they didn't have to work to earn (though they often have to struggle to keep), and they get used to being so high value, that they are shocked when they find that value goes away around age 30.

This doesn't mean that they will never find a partner after age 30, but it means that they won't be able to attract the kind of high-value men (the men WOMEN see as "high-value") that they were able to attract in their 20s. It also doesn't mean that they can't get male attention, but the attention they get is far more often going to be sexual attention only, and is much less likely to be "relationship/romantic attention."

Most women hate facing this reality, and when I talk about it, I'm often attacked personally, as if this is something that I invented out of thin air, but this is a very well-understood part of sexual dynamics that's been known and has been well-researched for decades. it's just not politically correct to talk about anymore, and most women today are intentionally NOT taught this, because Feminists largely control education, and Feminists do NOT want men and women to be in relationships together (something Feminist leaders aren't shy about).

The reason it's important to understand this is because women have a limited window of time to MAXIMIZE their choice of a relationship partner. Again, no one is saying that you can't find a partner at 35 or 40 - it just won't be a partner of the status that you can get in your 20s. It's kind of like if you had $10,000,000 deposited into a special account to buy a house when you turned 18, but you had huge bank fees, so that if you wait until 30 to buy a house, you only have $300,000 left to spend, when, say, if you'd have "bought a house" at 22, you might have had $9M to spend, and the house you bought would have been much nicer.

[Asker]

Great insight thanks will read this now with the graph

[Asker]

This does make sense from a scientific perspective. It seems that women should only settle with a man if they want to have kids. He will eventually stray to younger, but at least she’ll have what she wanted to have kids. If women don’t want kids it’s pointless settling. They should date women or if not into that be single and live their best life

[MrOracle]

Men rarely leave marriages - not saying that it never happens, but it is women who file for divorce 80% of the time vs. 20% men.

[Asker]

If they cheat though I guess the marriage needs to break up. I meant stray not divorce

[MrOracle]

Most men don't cheat - again, that's largely the top guys who are used to getting tons of women and who feel entitled to sleep with whoever they want. Most men only need one good woman.

[Dargil]

Physiologically, yes. But she has 4 important years of life experience. A better target for me if I were available.

[Asker]

What about 25 and 27 do they sound similar? Or what about 25 and 28?

[Dargil]

I'll stay with the original premise.

[Anonymous]

Of course 29 is still a young age. If the average human lifespan is approximately is about 73-75, 29 isn't even middle-aged/half that age, which is about 36. Plus age is just a number. You're as young, as you feel, act and look. There are lots of 29 y. olds, who look way younger than their age

[MzAsh]

I’d say 25-29 is easily put into the same maturity box. But definitely not under 25.

[ThaiGirl]

@MzAsh Why not?

[MzAsh]

Under 25 is still college age and there’s still that college mentality going on.

[ThaiGirl]

You can be at college in your late 20s too, that's not a good reason

[MzAsh]

I know I’m just referring to the typical maturity level of those 18-24.

[ThaiGirl]

To me there is no different between 21+

[MzAsh]

You didn’t grow or mature in any way since 21? 👀

[ThaiGirl]

I am 21 to 29 i don't see much difference. Its hard to generalise

[MzAsh]

Oh so you don’t know yet then lol

[ThaiGirl]

Noooo i mean between 21 to 29 there isn't much difference. I typed it wrong lol

[ThaiGirl]

It depends on the person

[Apple1996]

21 to 29 is a huge difference in maturity for most women and men

[ThaiGirl]

@Apple1996 It depends on the person, i seen 27 year olds as immature as 20 year olds

[Apple1996]

@ThaiGirl even then they still aren't as naive as when they were young. Living in the adult worlds make things a lot more clear. Teens-early 20s still have the brain of a child

[ThaiGirl]

@Apple1996 It depends on the person as i said

[menina]

Yes, I would say so. I mean, changes are normal and a lot can happen between the ages of 25 and 29. To me a 29 year old is still young.

[Apple1996]

Yes if someone is in their 20s or 30s they are still young. Around 40s is when aging starts to show a bit

[Anonymous]

No, a 29 year old is considered a 29 year old and a 25 year old is considered a 25 year old.

1995 and 1999 are two different years.

[war_daddy]

29 is old. 25 is kinda old.

[Asker]

What about 25 and 27 do they sound similar? Or what about 25 and 28?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Sorta of a bit.

[Asker]

What about 25 and 27 do they sound similar? Or what about 25 and 28?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

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