That's a nice tactic of twisting what I've said to allow you to avoid actually answering the question. Shame I'm not here to win points on the internet over strangers otherwise I might have been quite hurt.
Ah the old ''I"m not here to win points with strangers over the internet'' and the smartass attitude telling me about my own answer. Oh sorry that's my ''avoiding to actually answer''. It's a good thing I don't take irrational insults to women personally, otherwise I might have been quite hurt myself.
So women don't pretend to be interested in order to get free drinks/meals, or to get a shoulder to cry on, or to get the stability they want from marriage? I just imagined this did I?
And there's the outburst. You are exaggerating, over-dramatizing and yes you are imagining a bit. No, real women do not do that. Skanks do that. And did I bring up the equality card? No I don't think I did. Looks like somebody's just begging to argue on the subject, and it ain't me. However, I don't like to discuss matters like this with people who can't overlook their own emotions and perceive the real picture.
If you didn't come here looking for an argument why did you begin by mocking me with that answer?
You claimed my entire question was an insult, but you refuse to comment on that particular part, are you backtracking on that claim?
What gender are these skanks? Female. So yes women do that. Saying women don't do that is like claiming men don't commit rape. I never said EVERY woman does any of those things, women definitely do those things.
But yes, I just call it like I see it, I've seen both male and female do it, actually around here it seems like unattractive females get treated worse. Bu in my opinion there is more unattractive males then females, maybe I'm a bit bi-est there XD. Anyway in response to your answer +1 for sarcasm. :D
I am looking at my answer sweet. I think it's a good answer that should have showed you how ridiculous you sound. You did say all women do that, you never specified, I did not come here looking for an argument, I just answered right after I read the question what I felt like answering and posted :) And yes your entire question is an insult, I stand by that statement of mine. As for the mocking part, the question was begging for it, anything so ridiculous deserves the sarcasm.
Did I say all women or did I not specify? You seem to be contradicting yourself here, its one or the other, it can't be both.
You think the question is ridiculous, you write an answer mocking me, then say you weren't looking for an argument. Its like saying "I think he's an arsehole so I punched him in the face, I wasn't trying to have a fight though". Obviously I was going to respond.
So you definitely think its an insult for me to ask if I'm equal to women, glad we've cleared that up.
I"m sorry are you even reading my comments? I haven't contradicted myself once, you're the one contradicting yourself and further more you're trying to twist the things I say into things I did not say or do. Again with the equality crap, did I start that? No I did not. Your question states ''Why do women hate unattractive men so much?'' It states that women are hateful monsters who mistreat poor unattractive men. Which is not true. It is ridiculous to say that, not to mention incredibly stupid.
Not to mention that just by asking this question you are begging for arguments with any woman who reads it. If you can't even see that, I don't know why I"m wasting my time here. I specifically explained about my answer, yet you keep singing the same old song, poor you, oh how I insulted you, oh I"m talking rubbish and contradicting myself, I make no sense at all. By the way, you did not specify anywhere in the question, you accused all of us.
If you wanted to ask if you're equal to women why didn't ask if you're equal to women? In stead you insult and whine. That's not gonna get you anywhere.
You said "You did say all women do that, you never specified", those are your exact words. That phrase doesn't even make sense. If I never specified whether it was all women then how did I say it was all women? QUOTE THE PART OF MY QUESTION WHERE I SAID ALL WOMEN. Its you that is twisting it not me.
You said "And yes your entire question is an insult", therefore I took that to mean the entire question, not just the title, considering that is what you said. If you want to change your mind about the entire question being an insult that is fine, if you don't then surely you are saying that the part of the question where I said "Am I not equal to women?" is insulting.
Its also quite funny that you say I'm begging for arguments by asking this, considering with some of the other women I simply discussed the question, the reason we are arguing is because you gave a stupid answer, mocking me rather than trying to talk me round to your point of view.
I"m not the type of person to try to manipulate people into agreeing with me and sharing my opinions. Who's insulting now? My answer is stupid huh? It's a simple sarcastic answer. And since we're on the subject, there is a difference between the question and the stuff you write below it. Whenever someone uses a noun without a specific determiner, that noun is considered a presenter of the whole group. You did not use a determiner, ergo it did mean all women, simple grammatical rules.
But wait, I don't want to appear contradictory. the part where you asked if you're equal to women was just an unnecessary rhetorical question if you ask me, the title IS insulting, the explanation is just plain out wrong theories of a clearly one-sided point of view filled with emotions which should not be there if you're so ''rational'' and not trying to start arguments. Also the reason we're arguing is because I had the balls to tell you what I"d bet my ass most of the women who read the
The stuff below is part of the question, that should be evident to anyone with a brain.
You can present whatever grammatical rules you like, you do not know what I meant better than I do so I don't understand what you are trying to claim there. Its obvious from my responses to other answers that I wasn't referring to all women. This isn't an English exam, its a forum for discussion and giving advice.
Umm no, I"m defending myself and you did challenge me, I simply answered your question. To me it is an English exam, I"m foreign. And if you didn't specify, it's your fault people are misunderstanding it, why are we supposed to read your mind, when you could have written it in the explanation? And who's got time to read all the comments from the other answers. But since we're on that subject, please fell free to browse through my answers and see if I"m looking for arguments, with one exception..
that's ''feel free''* sorry. Since you're such a ''peaceful'' guy, if you want, then fine I"ll stop commenting, my advice to you is: 'Lose the bitchy attitude and you'll have no problem with women. I don't want to further discuss things. However if you keep asking for it I will keep commenting.
Yes. My bitchy attitude is the problem. That's why when I create a dating profile using a male models pictures suddenly plenty of women are interested in me, even with my bitch attitude.
I can't even contemplate what I should say to someone who thinks that my dating prospects come entirely down to my attitude. Its completely delusional.
Also I think you'll find that anyone else who misunderstood it didn't then try to tell me what I meant, rather than accepting what I said I meant.
Yeah once people start making a deal out of it you say you didn't mean ''all women''. It is your bitchy attitude that's getting in your way. the model pictures will attract the type of woman who only cares for good looks. The fact that you did that, does not speak good for you pall. If you aim for women like that, you're bound to get shot down every single time. I can't even contemplate the stupidity of someone who thinks his ''dating prospects'' don't come down to his attitude!
Aim for women like that? I don't have the luxury of aiming for a particular type of women, that has already been established, I take what I'm given like all the other unattractive men.
It was an experiment to test whether my looks were holding me back and it was very successful. Surely I had the exact same attitude no matter who's pictures I used? Why did it suddenly not matter about my bad attitude? Looks are what are holding me back. That's why.
No it's the attitude 'looks are what's holding me back, women only care about looks'' that's holding you back. and an internet profile says absolutely nothing! You look normal to me, but your personality is butt ugly. If that's even the real you on your profile pic. My mistake your main problem is that you're looking at relationships from a ''looks are what matters''' point of view, which is the worst way to go
Yes its really me. Why would you doubt that? What proof do you expect me to provide?
You say I have an ugly personality but you don't even know me. How should I look for a relationship then? What physical things am I doing that communicate looks are what matters to women. I don't see how a girl could know I think looks are what matters to women unless I tell her.
Oh it shows :D I based my statement on what I"ve read on my answer so far.
You can't blame other people, it's the worst thing you can do. It is your fault, I"ve seen guys far worst looking that your pic who got girlfriends. You need to change sth in yourself, not blame others for your failure ! No one cares that some guy can't get a date. You can't get a relationship having such horrible prejudice towards women, you need to lose them before you act.
Sadly this is ignoring the truth. As I said before women liked my personality when they though I looked like a male model. Does that not tell you anything?
Furthermore you seem to be under the impression this is the exact sort of conversation I would have with a woman I just met in real life. The whole point of asking on an internet site where nobody knows me is because I realize talking about this is a bit taboo.
I don't blame others for my failure or myself, I didn't choose my face.
Unfortunately though from how you talked to me this entire time it has become apparent that you are exactly the sort of woman I was talking about in the original question. You make it out to be my fault, saying I have an 'ugly personality' when you do not even know me. You insult individuals who you do not know on the internet, what do you think that shows about you as a person? I'm done with this.
Mh... I guess its an on attractiveness. For both genders. Kind of feeling entitled to the attractives. It happens to both directions, sure. But there is another big issue.
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I guess, we have to keep to reminder how rejections affects both sides.
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That's a nice tactic of twisting what I've said to allow you to avoid actually answering the question. Shame I'm not here to win points on the internet over strangers otherwise I might have been quite hurt.
Ah the old ''I"m not here to win points with strangers over the internet'' and the smartass attitude telling me about my own answer. Oh sorry that's my ''avoiding to actually answer''. It's a good thing I don't take irrational insults to women personally, otherwise I might have been quite hurt myself.
Where is the irrational insult?
''Women regularly mock unattractive men, or exploit them for their own financial gain.'' for one, not to mention the entire question for two.
So women don't pretend to be interested in order to get free drinks/meals, or to get a shoulder to cry on, or to get the stability they want from marriage? I just imagined this did I?
Although I'm sure asking 'Am I not equal to women?' was very insulting, how dare I question your supremacy!
And there's the outburst. You are exaggerating, over-dramatizing and yes you are imagining a bit. No, real women do not do that. Skanks do that. And did I bring up the equality card? No I don't think I did. Looks like somebody's just begging to argue on the subject, and it ain't me. However, I don't like to discuss matters like this with people who can't overlook their own emotions and perceive the real picture.
"You are exaggerating, over-dramatizing and yes you are imagining a bit."
Now look at your answer LOL
If you didn't come here looking for an argument why did you begin by mocking me with that answer?
You claimed my entire question was an insult, but you refuse to comment on that particular part, are you backtracking on that claim?
What gender are these skanks? Female. So yes women do that. Saying women don't do that is like claiming men don't commit rape. I never said EVERY woman does any of those things, women definitely do those things.
"We're all bitches that use men however we please. . ."
Hmmm. . . that actually sounds pretty fun! Where do I sign up? :P
That's how you answer that, QA. Trust me--the results you get will be SOOOO much better!
But yes, I just call it like I see it, I've seen both male and female do it, actually around here it seems like unattractive females get treated worse. Bu in my opinion there is more unattractive males then females, maybe I'm a bit bi-est there XD. Anyway in response to your answer +1 for sarcasm. :D
Haha really. I don't like this generalization of guys who aren't unattractive claiming they're unattractive and that all women hate on them for it.
I am looking at my answer sweet. I think it's a good answer that should have showed you how ridiculous you sound. You did say all women do that, you never specified, I did not come here looking for an argument, I just answered right after I read the question what I felt like answering and posted :) And yes your entire question is an insult, I stand by that statement of mine. As for the mocking part, the question was begging for it, anything so ridiculous deserves the sarcasm.
Did I say all women or did I not specify? You seem to be contradicting yourself here, its one or the other, it can't be both.
You think the question is ridiculous, you write an answer mocking me, then say you weren't looking for an argument. Its like saying "I think he's an arsehole so I punched him in the face, I wasn't trying to have a fight though". Obviously I was going to respond.
So you definitely think its an insult for me to ask if I'm equal to women, glad we've cleared that up.
I"m sorry are you even reading my comments? I haven't contradicted myself once, you're the one contradicting yourself and further more you're trying to twist the things I say into things I did not say or do. Again with the equality crap, did I start that? No I did not. Your question states ''Why do women hate unattractive men so much?'' It states that women are hateful monsters who mistreat poor unattractive men. Which is not true. It is ridiculous to say that, not to mention incredibly stupid.
Not to mention that just by asking this question you are begging for arguments with any woman who reads it. If you can't even see that, I don't know why I"m wasting my time here. I specifically explained about my answer, yet you keep singing the same old song, poor you, oh how I insulted you, oh I"m talking rubbish and contradicting myself, I make no sense at all. By the way, you did not specify anywhere in the question, you accused all of us.
If you wanted to ask if you're equal to women why didn't ask if you're equal to women? In stead you insult and whine. That's not gonna get you anywhere.
You said "You did say all women do that, you never specified", those are your exact words. That phrase doesn't even make sense. If I never specified whether it was all women then how did I say it was all women? QUOTE THE PART OF MY QUESTION WHERE I SAID ALL WOMEN. Its you that is twisting it not me.
You said "And yes your entire question is an insult", therefore I took that to mean the entire question, not just the title, considering that is what you said. If you want to change your mind about the entire question being an insult that is fine, if you don't then surely you are saying that the part of the question where I said "Am I not equal to women?" is insulting.
Its also quite funny that you say I'm begging for arguments by asking this, considering with some of the other women I simply discussed the question, the reason we are arguing is because you gave a stupid answer, mocking me rather than trying to talk me round to your point of view.
I"m not the type of person to try to manipulate people into agreeing with me and sharing my opinions. Who's insulting now? My answer is stupid huh? It's a simple sarcastic answer. And since we're on the subject, there is a difference between the question and the stuff you write below it. Whenever someone uses a noun without a specific determiner, that noun is considered a presenter of the whole group. You did not use a determiner, ergo it did mean all women, simple grammatical rules.
But wait, I don't want to appear contradictory. the part where you asked if you're equal to women was just an unnecessary rhetorical question if you ask me, the title IS insulting, the explanation is just plain out wrong theories of a clearly one-sided point of view filled with emotions which should not be there if you're so ''rational'' and not trying to start arguments. Also the reason we're arguing is because I had the balls to tell you what I"d bet my ass most of the women who read the
question were thinking.
The stuff below is part of the question, that should be evident to anyone with a brain.
You can present whatever grammatical rules you like, you do not know what I meant better than I do so I don't understand what you are trying to claim there. Its obvious from my responses to other answers that I wasn't referring to all women. This isn't an English exam, its a forum for discussion and giving advice.
If you don't want to offer any advice or discuss anything why the f*** are you here? Oh yeah to look for arguments like you are doing.
Umm no, I"m defending myself and you did challenge me, I simply answered your question. To me it is an English exam, I"m foreign. And if you didn't specify, it's your fault people are misunderstanding it, why are we supposed to read your mind, when you could have written it in the explanation? And who's got time to read all the comments from the other answers. But since we're on that subject, please fell free to browse through my answers and see if I"m looking for arguments, with one exception..
that's ''feel free''* sorry. Since you're such a ''peaceful'' guy, if you want, then fine I"ll stop commenting, my advice to you is: 'Lose the bitchy attitude and you'll have no problem with women. I don't want to further discuss things. However if you keep asking for it I will keep commenting.
Yes. My bitchy attitude is the problem. That's why when I create a dating profile using a male models pictures suddenly plenty of women are interested in me, even with my bitch attitude.
I can't even contemplate what I should say to someone who thinks that my dating prospects come entirely down to my attitude. Its completely delusional.
Also I think you'll find that anyone else who misunderstood it didn't then try to tell me what I meant, rather than accepting what I said I meant.
Yeah once people start making a deal out of it you say you didn't mean ''all women''. It is your bitchy attitude that's getting in your way. the model pictures will attract the type of woman who only cares for good looks. The fact that you did that, does not speak good for you pall. If you aim for women like that, you're bound to get shot down every single time. I can't even contemplate the stupidity of someone who thinks his ''dating prospects'' don't come down to his attitude!
Aim for women like that? I don't have the luxury of aiming for a particular type of women, that has already been established, I take what I'm given like all the other unattractive men.
It was an experiment to test whether my looks were holding me back and it was very successful. Surely I had the exact same attitude no matter who's pictures I used? Why did it suddenly not matter about my bad attitude? Looks are what are holding me back. That's why.
No it's the attitude 'looks are what's holding me back, women only care about looks'' that's holding you back. and an internet profile says absolutely nothing! You look normal to me, but your personality is butt ugly. If that's even the real you on your profile pic. My mistake your main problem is that you're looking at relationships from a ''looks are what matters''' point of view, which is the worst way to go
Yes its really me. Why would you doubt that? What proof do you expect me to provide?
You say I have an ugly personality but you don't even know me. How should I look for a relationship then? What physical things am I doing that communicate looks are what matters to women. I don't see how a girl could know I think looks are what matters to women unless I tell her.
Oh it shows :D I based my statement on what I"ve read on my answer so far.
You can't blame other people, it's the worst thing you can do. It is your fault, I"ve seen guys far worst looking that your pic who got girlfriends. You need to change sth in yourself, not blame others for your failure ! No one cares that some guy can't get a date. You can't get a relationship having such horrible prejudice towards women, you need to lose them before you act.
Sadly this is ignoring the truth. As I said before women liked my personality when they though I looked like a male model. Does that not tell you anything?
Furthermore you seem to be under the impression this is the exact sort of conversation I would have with a woman I just met in real life. The whole point of asking on an internet site where nobody knows me is because I realize talking about this is a bit taboo.
I don't blame others for my failure or myself, I didn't choose my face.
Unfortunately though from how you talked to me this entire time it has become apparent that you are exactly the sort of woman I was talking about in the original question. You make it out to be my fault, saying I have an 'ugly personality' when you do not even know me. You insult individuals who you do not know on the internet, what do you think that shows about you as a person? I'm done with this.
Yet ts acceptable for you to judge an entire gender? She is simply "observing" like you say youdo.
i don't hate tehm, maybe you just know women who are bitches.
Because women are naturally born mean creatures
The exact opposite happens as well but alright.
Mh...
I guess its an on attractiveness. For both genders. Kind of feeling entitled to the attractives.
It happens to both directions, sure. But there is another big issue.
Google: Empathy gaps for social pain
There might be people who cannot empathy for others rejection pain. We need courage to speak about rejection and its issues.
I guess, we have to keep to reminder how rejections affects both sides.
women are more picky due to evolution
Same thing happens to women so get over it
Strong answering a month old question with an unnecessary and somewhat useless comment.
I guess you add to the problem.