Do guys take slutty girls seriously?

[Anonymous]

I always so many girls at clubs, and raves, and dances and stuff dressed like complete sluts... with their entire stomach boobs and ass hanging out... they are basically wearing their underwear... do any guys respect or would be interested in actually dating or just having sex with those girls? I'm not a prude at all but when I'm in the club or at a rave I wear either a short fitted dress... a tight skirt but covering everything... short shorts but no ass hanging out... and a shirt with some cleavage but not so I look like a hooker... maybe a little tummy showin but a respectable amount

[Anonymous]

Well first off hun, you have to take into consideration that the guys you are asking here on GAG.com are also the guys who may spend more time on GAG than they actually spend in real life interacting with women and dating. Not only that, but they are also the guys who are often perplexed by women and they have little if any consistant experience with the opposite sex.

Generally most guys will not take a slut seriously, but in real life, if the slut is charming and beautiful enough, they will delude themselves that she has changed or she is going to change. Often times though, the slut is very smart like a fox and she knows how to hide her slutty behavior. She realizes that it's a turn off and it's not the most attractive thing so she knows how to put up an act so that you can't even really tell she's a slut. Many sluts get marriages while good women stay single until their 30's. Not only that, but you can't just label a girl as a slut for what she's wearing. A girl can have her ass hanging out, but smack a guy for grabbing it and guys won't think she's a slut. Guys may interpret her as liking to show skin and show off her body, but not a slut because she won't just let guys treat her like a sex object.

Don't be so judgemental; you're not the 'respectable fashion police' ;P

[Anonymous]

not really, they just want sex and these girls givin' it.

[DanteSparda]

Hi! :)

For many years of observation in my daily life and experiences I'd say, girls who wear short skirts only attract perverts. You wouldn't want that, would you? Though I assume you're a nice person according to your description, I'm pretty sure you'd want a guy who treats you right and loves you for who you are, inside and out.

So, please, PLEASE don't follow the steps of those slutty girls. You know, in the future, if you stand by what you believe and have respect for your body, guys will respect you for that.

Good Luck :)

[DanteSparda]

One of my best friend also told me when I asked this question to him, "well at night clubs yes, I would rather dance with I slutty girl because that way I know we can dance dirtier, but as in a relatioship nooooo, just be your self and dress the way you want because other wise the guys will only see you as a booty call because guys only want slutty girls for one thing"

[front2back]

If I was one of those low class guys who bang easy girls all the time than I would take them seriously.

However, I'm not like those guys and find that promiscuity in women (and friends wise, men) to be a turn off. If a girl is that kind of a slut and constantly complains about relationship issues, men issues and self-esteem issues I have no sympathy for her. I don't do casual sex either.

[yopyopyop]

You have to understand that these places are for hook-ups and not serious relationships.

So basically, guys just see moving sex toys in those girls. And that's good, because that's what they came for.

[Asker]

ok its just annoying when those girls are like the guy was such a creep towards me... and I'm like are you serious look at u... I don't say that actually but they are so stupid. they expect respect... but yeah they do look like moving sex toys

[yopyopyop]

That's basically why I hardly ever go to clubs, unless very drunk with friends to expell some alcohol by dancing (and I have to be very drunk to dance). Single women there are either attention freak/teases or easy and desperate.

[Anonymous]

No, but not because of how they dress but because of where I've met them. If I'm in a club and I see a girl advertising herself, she's obviously there for one thing and that wouldn't be a husband.

They way a girl dresses doesn't make me reject her as a long term relationship material, I like sexy dressed women. But the purpose of clubs and raves is not finding true love; it's dancing, drinking, getting high (if you are into that) and hooking up.

[Asker]

ok thanks and yeah I'm not sexing women shouldn't dress sexy... I love dressing my best to impress... but girls are literally wearing nothing and it bothers me when they are just looked at as a toy or a piece of meat but I guess that's their choice

[Asker]

saying* haha

[Opinion Owner]

It's what they're looking for. You don't dress almost naked because it's comfortable or because it's the social standard. You show yourself to bring as much attention as you can and then choose the best hookup among them. I don't even consider that a lack of respect. If they want sex and I do too, it's only logical that I approach them asking for it. Not out of disrespect but out of a common interest. I'm not into it 2 have a good time and toss you out, but to share a fun and nice time together.

[AdamThomas]

No I don't respect those girls, and I wouldn't be interested in a serious relationship with a girl like that.

[Anonymous]

No, I have absolutely zero desire for slutty girls. Acting or dressing like a slut is a major turn-off for me. I'd much rather be with a shy girl who dresses modestly.

[Janson]

Eh not really. I really don't do the whole clubbing thing anyways..

[kambo_trick3y]

I don't take slutty guys or girls seriously.

[Anonymous]

As long as she stops doing it while we're dating, of course it's fine.

[SaltandVinegar]

I would not date them but I would have sex with them

[aMuse]

Who takes girls at clubs seriously? Party girls are for partying with, nothing more.

[Asker]

it doesn't make you a party girl for going out occasionally to dance and have a good time with your friends...

[Anonymous]

No but they don't mind having sex with her. That's one of the many things I don't like or understand about guys.

[VeohTV]

Sometimes I take them seriously

[Charley]

I don't take them seriously. I mean really...

[Anonymous]

Some do, some don't