Were not all the same. Its just that most of the guys that girls go for are the outgoing, talkative and entertaining types. They are this way outwardly and this makes them attractive. Their attractiveness is probably known to them, so they act like the way a beautiful, arrogant, girl would. Its weird because a lot of guys I know are very into themselves. Love their looks and think theyre the sh*t. Its just that the caring, nice guys get f***ed. We get shafted and pushed to the back of the scenes by these a**holes you're talking about. Girls are attracted, naturally, to the big buck so you go for them then when they can't please you emotionally you call ALL of us a**holes. You should probably go think about yourself, who you are and why you get into these bad situations. Try the nice guy out, youd probably be unsuspecting of how easy we can sweep you off your feet. The problem is that girls like you will continue to look for things in all the wrong places...then you will bitch about it.