From my experiance bro. I agree with you. I've dated a lot and I am constantly striving to better myself as a person and as a example to something that I feel has been lost with all the craze of new world America. Many have forgotten the values and the beauty in finding someone and fighting through the bad and good togther. Making memories and growing old together. Majority of Men and women in America are both likely to be selfish, materialistic, physical, and lustful fools that believe that having fun is the same as having sex and having open relationships, because they feel too scared to make the commitment to be with someone nice. I had many girls tell me I'm perfect and that scares them because they feel that they found me too early and start to distance.. others tell me they are confused about themselves and realized that they perfer to party and have meaningless sex over being with someone whos going somewhere and trying thier best to do right... to be right for them. My last girlfriend cheated on me for 9 months.. told me I don't know why I did it. I was confused.. I broke up with her and she's still trying to get with me again. begging to be with me, but yet she's still screwing the guy she cheated on me with and when I asked her will she change... she litterly stated that she has, but that if I would be okay to be in a open relationship with her. she states that I'm the greatest thing ever, but that she has trouble keeping it in her pants... she sees a hot guy and doesn't know how to say no... and she's not the only one doing this. a lot of my friends are good guys and even follow codes that separate us from what good girls refer to as dogs, but omg... ITS HARDDDDDD TO FIND A DECENT GIRL IN THIS COUNTRY. the usa has really screwed up how girls see things... guys are there too,.. in my opinion, both man and woman in America are becoming to self indulgded to ever hold something real. they are more concerned with what's new and what they desire over what is right and good for thier future. Almost every other country has better and more mentally capable girls, but you'd have to go there.
ALSO, to the comment with the girls... he's not trying to find a girl who can't speak English or defend themselves... what are you? idiots?.. he's only looking for a girl whos just like him and wants the same things. A girl who is faithful and has love in her heart and a mind as vast as the oceans. A girl who is self reliant, but able to believe in being with just one person and loving them and only them for who they are. Get it straight. right now I'm dating the most amazing girl I've met. I met her when I left America to soul search after a 7 year relationship ended.. and I met a girl in japan and fell in love. she's a engineer in robotics and the most smartest and loving girl I've met. I can take her around my friends and guys in the team I play in and she's able to be a dork and when other guys hit on her, omg she puts them down bad. I'm lucky I left the country and met her.