I dumped my boyfriend & I want him back!

[Anonymous]

I dumped my boyfriend 3 months ago because I felt he didn't pay enough attention for me. He beg em to give him 2nd chance but I said no because I didn't think he was serious at that time. After that we still keep in touch & he didn't show any signs that tell if he hates me.

Couple weeks ago he told me that he' dating other woman and love this girl just like the he loved back then. I shocked. I thought he still in love with me & want me back again. Before with this girl, he date other girl weeks just after our break up. Is this girl also a rebound?

I told him that I want us to be together again, he refused and said his feeling towards me has changed. He put pics of her new girlfriend on FB & told me that he did that to hurt me. He said it hurts him so much that I dumped him. But why he still phone/text me if he hated me after we broke up?

Right now, I try to minimize contact with him because it hurts me to realize that he' s with other woman. But I miss him so much. But sometimes he text me asking how I've been, told me he had dream about us last night or told me reduce my smoking and coffee intake. Do you think he still has feeling for me? What should I do to win him back?

[Anonymous]

I agree with PsychMike. You dupmed him so no offense but why in the heck would he want you back? I mean that hurts and you don't want to chance that again. Move on, let him go, let it go. It didn't work out the first time, so it wasn't meant to be. and even if yall were to get back together it is never the same. it happens, you date for a few years and realize those romantic feelings aren't there anymore. That's life. But he is probably texting/calling you because he wants to be your friend. What's so wrong with that? I mean you can be friends since the romance isn't there anymore for him. I don't blame him for not giving you another chance. imean you did dump him and I will never understand why people always write on here about wanting their ex's back, I mean why? you had a chance and let them go so it wasnt mean to be and something was obviously wrong or missing so let it go. I mean can you blame him? If a person dumps someone once, they will do it again.

I think you need to move on like he did. It is going to take time but you will meet someone when you least expect it and in time your feelings will die down. But do'nt pesker the guy anymore. He told you what he wanted so if you care for him as much as you say you will respect his decision and move on. BUT still be friends with the dude.

[Asker]

It hurts when I know now that he belongs to other woman :( maybe it just my ego. People wants 2nd chance because they know they're making wrong decision. I still hoping for 2nd chance, trying to be his supportive friend and strunggling to move on.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah it hurts. It sucks and it will take time. Trust me I've been through this and you will start thinking about them less and less and find yourself getting over them in time, but you have got to give it time. Break ups are a part of life and people do get over it even though it may not seem like it right now.

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[Emmastone22]

My Boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. During this time my mother passed away from cancer and we have moved in together into a property that I have purchased. My Boyfriend and I are the same age, 25. He has been unemployed for over a year now and I have had to start working extra hours on the weekend to pay the bills. I thought that he understood that I had to work, however today he sat on the couch doing nothing while I was working. I then stopped working to spend time with him and half way through our first movie, he got up and decided to go to a friends house because we are drifting? I told him I thought he was rude doing this, he just threatened to leave me and left? Every time we have an argument he threatens to leave me and i m so scared and confused that he finally broke up with me. All I do is try to make the situation better for him but today i am happy, so excited that the he is back and promised never to break up with me again, this happened with the help of Dr. Mack after looking for help for the past 3 months and i was lucky to meet Dr Mack, His love spell work faster with no side effect contact him through
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[PsychMike]

Here is a solution to your problem. Move on. You dumped him and he has done the right thing by getting over you and moving on. You missed your chance and now that he is with another girl you need to just leave him be. If he wants you back he will contact you. At least wait until he doesn't have a girlfriend to talk to him about getting back together. Don't ruin his current relationship just because you realized you made a bad decision. People make bad decisions all the time and they have to deal with the consequences, you aren't always going to have a 2nd chance to make things right and you need to realize this. It's the hard truth.

[Asker]

I hate consequences. But thanx a lot for your advice, Mike. Moving on..........

[Streamhopper]

Your status is married. Maybe I'm missing something here...