I haven't seen or talked to my ex since our break up three months ago and I don't think I'll ever see him again.

[rambleon2474]

I haven't seen or talked to my ex since our break up three months ago and I don't think I'll ever see him again. I don't really mind, since the break up was kind of bad and I'm over him, but it feels sort of weird to think you'll never see a person that was such a big part of your life again. Does anyone else feel like this?

[stephyone]

Yeah I totally feel what your saying =] I have been there and I have felt that, and hell I even thought id never see him again and it hurt but yeah time passes and there still at the back of your mind and they do come up but its the past. I never thought id see my ex again and always thought things would be differant and his prob a differant person but as the months went on and the time came to when I did see my ex I was so happy that we did end because it made me see who he really is and why we really broke up it was a lesson learnt, but I don't regret a moment spent with him because he was a big part of my life at one stage. But it feels so good to see them again and not feel anything its sorta like proper closure and all the awkwardness of the break up and relationships gone and you realise he isn't better without you, sometimes I find exs try to make it seem like there life is awesome and there living the dream when really there just pretending and they are really lonly. nothing is what you seem

[Reeses-pieces777]

well, as time passes and your life gets busier, they aren't on your mind all to often. I have to admit. I dont' think of my ex boyfriends at all unless they're near me or they do something. honestly, it passes like with all things in life. just have to take it like it is.

you may or may not see him again. and when you see him the next time, and it' sjust like whatever , you will know that you're over him.

right now it feels like a big deal because you just got broken up with him, but when the time has come, you'll be completely over him and he won't be the significant part of your life anymore.

[Anonymous]

I do feel like that but the thought of being around any ex (especially my last one who was my first love that hit me the hardest) will definitely bring me down and not make me move on. It would probably lower my esteem knowing he is going out with someone else and saying the same words he said to you at a time. They don't care about you anymore (like 'that') so it's no use to care about them. That's like any friendship.

But it does feel bad never being in their lives in the beginning. They are now just ghosts from your past. Just love the people in your present time. :-)

[guats]

I have stayed somewhat in touch with one of my exes, and really lost touch with another girl from a serious relation. It is weird to lose touch with someone who was so important to you. But really there is no reason you can't stay updated on them. I still spy on their facebook pages so I can see what they are up to, just strictly out of curiosity. It does hurt to see that they are with someone else, even though I know that they are not the one for me.

Best advice I can give you, don't erase your exes memory. There is a reason you broke up with him, but there are also good experiences you shared. Whether that means that you should e-mail they or call every few months, or just spying on their facebook page, that's really up to you.

[Blufly96]

You're are still in the mixes of what I like to called a "fresh breakup" there at time never easy to get over but time is all that call really heal you and give you closure. What I like to do is remember what you learned from them and keep those positive thoughts with you. All you need is time you'll get there.

-Jeimy