Ten bisexuality myths that need to die (Page 2)
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"Personally, it’s straight people I don’t get. Straight dudes, how can you not want to sleep with Idris Elba? That man is sex on a stick. You are missing. out."
The same could be said about (exclusively) lesbian women - it's not just straight people who don't appreciate male beauty.
What I can't understand is why, when they're are beautiful women everywhere, anyone (man or woman) would choose to have a man on top of them. I can't understand it, but I'm glad it's the case.
I am a straight guy.. but I never had any ( okay.. to be honest.. a bit of #7.. a bit :P) of the opinions as mentioned above. I love people for what they are- humans. But I have to yet meet an openly bi person.
Thank you! I am bi, but I haven't come out because I am not ready to face it yet. I am struggling a tiny bit to come to terms with it, not because I don't like it, but cause I never looked at myself that way. This is a great take. Thanks for showing people what it is actually about :)
Well, in my experience with bisexual women who are friends, 1,2, & 4 have decent truth to them. All 6 of them were like that. However, obviously there are exceptions but from my observations this has been the case a majority of the time.
Actually bisexuals ARE more likely to cheat because they have twice as many opportunities.
Then what is your opinion about my positive stereotype? :)
Bi people have a unique random attitude (when I say random, you should either think about Boxxy or Luna Lovegood). They're less prudish and far more open minded with a bold sense of humor.
Good take and I agree with all of it apart from point 6, you dont "pick" or choose a sexuality, no one does.
thank you!!! omg these stereotypes are endlessly tiring :|
yes, just like living life on looks alone.
Ha ha ha VERY WELL written and aptly described :) LOVED point 3 & 4 especially :) good job there :) <3
I still wouldn't date someone who was bisexual. Also you said you've been with men. So you have never been with a woman?
What? You aren't making sense?
You said you've only been in relationships with men. So that means you've never actually had sex with a woman then, right?
What does that have to do with anything? I've never had sex with s guy but I know I like them about as much as I do women.
I still don't understand what she is trying to say.
@BaileyisDarcy It's a question. I'm curious as to how he can still consider himself bisexual despite choosing to only have relations with men. In regards to yourself you don't have to have sex to make a point. Just because you find someone attractive means nothing. If you say you like men but continually pursue relationships with women then I just see you as a lesbian.
@myTake Owner Because you choose not to.
"It's a question. I'm curious as to how he can still consider himself bisexual despite choosing to only have relations with men"- Now I understand let me ask you this " How do you know you aren't bisexual if you haven't women?" That is basically the same question @Anonymous
Well I have no sexual attraction to women and I only pursue men. You on the other hand only find women attractive but pursue men. You are gay but don't want to be labeled. You also never answered my original question which you obviously refused to answer which was on whether you've ever had sex with a women.
No, I refused to answer because I didn't understand what you were asking.
You are assuming that I only find women attractive. I find both equally attractive.
and I pursue both equally
You still didn't answer but it doesn't matter anymore. When I wrote you only find womenattractive I wasn't implying you don't find men attractive. Obviously you find men attractive since you wrote it yourself you've only been in relationships with men. I'm going off what you wrote about seeing an attractive woman. Anyone can say "If I was gay I'd do so and so" or "If I was straight I would do so and so". That doesn't mean you're bi by saying that or every self pronounced gay or lesbian person who's played the "If I was..." game would be relabeled bisexual.
Well, you seem to think that you are born straight?
You're making a statement but put it as a question. What are you really trying ask me or state?
Do you think people are born straight?
Most are and very few aren't. Depends on your environment (peer pressure) and sometimes if there is an abnormality in your DNA on whether you choose to be a homosexual.
The number one bisexuality myth that needs to die:
It exists...
Bull fucking shit, you just believe it does because the media tells you it does. The reality is that it serves absolutely no societal value or biological value ergo it doesn't exist in reality just is the veil of reality that the media presents to us.
Who the fuck are you to decide what sexuality is real and which aren't?
@lumos someone who understands that two halves can't make a well a whole without a whole
your assuming that they are "halves" @Gommers
You're assuming I'm as incapable of understanding that people can't naturally pop a kid out without one penis and one vagina. Anything else is pure hedonism.
Sexuality is fluid, not something you can cut in half with a knife.
@lumos No it's not. Sexuality is a societal construct that says "if you want to fuck something that your dick isn't supposed to go in... well whatever makes you happy."
Hahaha again, who the fuck are you to decide that.
@lumos I didn't decide it, biology did.
I'm sure you know everything there is to know about biology.
@lumos And I'm sure you don't know shit about it.
I know enough. And at least I'm not pretentious enough to exclude 90% of the sexuality spectrum. You have nothing to back your claim up with.
@lumos No but you're dumb enough to believe that there is a spectrum. Sex exists in nature for one purpose and one purpose only, for reproduction. If you're fucking for pleasure you should probably just get some drugs, its cheaper than fucking up and ending up with a bastard child that nobody wants.
@lumos Societally less damaging too.
Maybe back 100 years ago. Now scientists believe in over population and there are more than enough people to sustain life on earth for years to come. @Gommers
Sure they believe that, but they're just as fucking stupid as the rest of you for promoting this fad of sexuality. It fucks the whole ratio for those of us who want to find women, and now it's nearly impossible to find women that are anywhere near straight.
You are clearly trolling because that is not remotely true. Maybe for you it is. @Gommers
You are clearly brainwashed and a member of the proletariat.
If you're a guy and you like dick you're gay.
I find the act of homosexuality disgusting.
But that's my opinion and my personal feelings. Doesn't make me a bad person.
It's funny when people say something offensive, but then put up a wall of, "My opinion, doesn't make me a bad person."
Is a person good when they are offensive about race? "In my opinion, white people shouldn't have guns because they just shoot up schools with them." No, it's not. Opinions may be your own, but opinions can be just as wrong as actions. Most Nazis were never involved in killing Jews, but their opinion that Jews were the cause of the problem gave their leaders license to commit terrible acts in their name.
Some opinions are truly neutral and inert, but some need to be squashed and extinguished before they can hurt others.
@Nice_Guy_Last
What's the alternative. Having a hivemind world-wide view where everytone things and acts and behaves the same? Who is to decide which opinions are neutral and inert and which needs to be squashed and extinguished? Doesn't that sound quite censoring and totalitarian?
Also where is the correlation between finding a certain act disgusting and putting that disgust into hurtful actions? Just because I find that people (i. e. certain politicans) disgusting, doesn't make me go on a killing spree.
Frankly speaking - your totalitarian mindset is a lot more dangerous that people finding certain things/people/acts disgusting.
@FakeName123 I am not asking for a hive mind. I ask for a society based on empathy and caring. If you can't follow that, then you are hurting society.
It's not that you will go on a killing spree because you have a certain view about people. Like I said, most Nazi's didn't even get involved in the Holocaust, but because they had negative views about Jews, they failed to even care enough to see what was happening in Auschwitz or the like. Their arrogant ignorance allowed their leaders to act in whatever manner they please. Because of their hatred, they are just as culpable for the events of the Holocaust.
For a long time, the LGBT community had to face acts of violence, hatred, and scorn from Americans, and they still do. This belief that homosexuality is disgusting creates the environment necessary for bigotry and hate to thrive. It is because of these beliefs that violence towards the LGBT community continue. So, yes, some beliefs need be dropped because they cause pain.
@Nice_Guy_Last
1. Godwins law.
2. The irony is that you are as arrogant and ignorant as the people you complain about by being unaccepting and intolerant towards opposing opinions. Arrogant and ignorant that your totalitarian view is right. Ignorant towards possible different views. Arrogant by claiming your view to be the only correct one.
3. Force is never a solution, but you seem to think that "tolerance" needs to be (en-) forced towards people. Forcing them is doing the exact opposite of what you try to achieve. It's just like trying to force a child to do exactly what you want to do. Most often it just backfires.
4. If someone finds homosexuals and transsexuals disgusting, it is their good right. Whatever views you have is your good right to have. And it is also your good right to express that view. It's called freedom of speech.
It would be different if your plan is to eradicate those people or similar cruel crimes. Then it becomes illegal.
5. I personally find homosexuality and transgenderism repulsive.
Additionally I am quite sure transgenderism is a mental identity disorder instead of some sort of "you are born in the wrong body"-crap.
About homosexuality there is a missing consens of how it comes to be as well. It's still not off the table that homosexuality is actually learned behaviour by the environment. Or you are actually really hardwire from birth with it. There is no certainity, yet. Feel free to read into it and you will see that it's still an open scientific argument.
The problem is that people like you try to shut down such an argument by using political correctness, tolerance and guilt-tripping as a means to censor everything opposing your view. It's totalitarian and manipulative behaviour.
6. "Those who hate the truth view the truth as hate." - 1984
The truth is that neither you nor me nor anyone else in humanity is omniscience. Almost everything is open to discussion. Trying to silence and censor such a discussion is a giant step back to the dark middle ages.
Additionally you want to read up on what falsifiability is.
Fine, you want to have your opinion, have it. It's a wonderful thing that you can have your own opinion, and you own it. When it manifests in a manner that involves calling others repulsive for a reason that really doesn't involve you is being hurtful for no reason. Even if it was just a choice, the outcomes have no actual effect on you or your life. As a vehement heterosexual like yourself, you are never going to come across an instance where a homosexual act will affect you. So why comment on it?
By a matter of deduction, stating something like this leads to two possibilities: that you are being a "troll", upsetting others for no reason other than to get a reaction, or that you are a sadist, savoring pain inflicted on others.
Notice how I said I found the act of homosexuality, by which I was referring to Homosexual sexual behavior or intercourse.
As an example, sodomy.
Am I a bad person if I am straight and find Gay porn "disgusting"?
Disgusting i can't believe socitey is allowing this non sense.
but you lack life confidence, so it figures.
rather that than begin born messed up.
I'm bi, thank you for this take <3 <3 <3
Would you date a bisexual man though? Just curious.
Of course I would. My boyfriend isn't straight either :P
Why do people on here hate bisexual people so much?
People suck :P
I just want to be loved, so serious right now. I have to deal with this fucking hate 24/7.
Duh! Whatever that first pick is so hot it boosted my morning boner
Great take! It was just great writing. And im confused about whether or not im bisexual or straight with some bicuriousity, how can you tell?
Great take. I don't get why people believe all of these myths.
Agreed. I'm Bisexual, and I'm tired of people claiming these false statements.
Three cheers for this guy! Thank you very much for explaining this for everyone else.
your rainbow flag is wrong. your not like me, I'm correct I'm made the way a normal person is supposed to be made. you're a mishap, a mistake that just wasn't quite what the original product was supposed to be.