I have seen a lot of women ask why men stare but don't talk to them. A lot of it comes down to how many women treat us when we do talk to them. We often get called "creeps" just from saying "hi" to a woman, we get told to "fuck off" and SOME women start massive drama just from saying "hi" to them. It is not an easy task approaching women.
The following video shows how a lot of men get treated when just saying "hi" to a woman. Now I know this video is on the street and I would never just talk to a woman on the street but the women in this video are treating these men how a lot of men get treated when saying "hi" at the coffee shop, library or wherever.
Put yourself in men's shoes. If you got treated like this just for saying "hi" to a woman you would lose your confidence in approaching as well and we all know when something happens people will automatically believe the woman even if she was in the wrong.
Now before anyone goes off in some rant about how I am bitter or whatever I am not. I am just saying how society is. All I am saying is stop falsely accusing men of being creeps just from saying "hi." It can and does destroy a man's reputation and if he has done nothing to deserve it then that is very unfair. If a man really is being a creep then by all means put him in his place, as I understand some men are creeps but please stop falsely labeling men as creeps that are not creeps. A man is NOT a creep just from talking or approaching a woman. SOME men are creeps; just like SOME women are creeps but NOT all men or all women are creeps.
NOW I WOULD LIKE TO SAY I KNOW NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THIS AND I KNOW SOME MEN PUT WOMEN THROUGH A LOT OF SCARY SHIT BUT TREATING INNOCENT MEN LIKE THEY ARE CREEPS DOES A WORLD OF DAMAGE. THERE ARE LOTS OF GOOD WOMEN OUT THERE BUT THE TRUTH IS THE BAD WOMEN DESTROY IT FOR THE GOOD WOMEN.
Men and women are designed to love each other not hate each other.