Am I still single because I'm shy?

I'm a really shy girl. I don't socialize much, hardly go anywhere social either. I have really bad social anxiety too. is this why nobody has liked me yet? Just curious. :)


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Most Helpful Girl

  • I know how you're feeling. Although I don't have social anxiety, when encountered with a situation, tons of scenarios play through my head over and over to find the right thing to do and I end up doing nothing so I don't socialize either.
    But I don't think your shyness is the reason why you're single.
    There is a personality somewhere out there that matches yours...
    A guy that will see you and decide to approach you on his own accord.
    No matter how much you shy away, he'll still go after you.
    Any less and it wouldn't really be a relationship now would it...

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What Guys Said 5

  • Yup. Woman who can't hold conversations, show there emotions, or even express hard become noticeable.

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  • It could be. It really depends on other people around you. They could be thinking that you are too shy to talk to so they should just avoid you or they wanna talk but they dont think u want to so they r unsure what to say. There could be guys with interest in you right now but since it sounds like nobody knows you, they have no idea whether it'd work or what your reaction would be. See if you can start up a conversation with other girls or just meet regular friends and build reputation. The more people know about you, the more likely somebody may be interested in you.

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  • You're single cause you don't socialize much. No one will be able to approach you if you're not out.

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  • Yes most likely coz of this, be socialize make friends, talk to them... Coz life is too little for us.. !!

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  • Probably not, men don't consider women based on how shy they are.

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What Girls Said 2

  • Have you become sexual yet? I found pure horniness helps my overcome shyness!

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  • You can't meet someone if you never get out of your house. The more people you interact with, the more likely you are to find someone. There's always someone for everyone. Even if you feel ugly or worthless. Some guy is out there feeling the same way too. Social anxiety, as much as I hate to say this because I have it too, is just self absorption. It's you thinking about yourself 24/7. "What will they think of ME?" " I don't want to look stupid. Me, me, me. The only way a person can love you, is if you start loving yourself. Get a hobby, go out there you will find someone.

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